I wrote you ONE TIME. You didn't really say much of anything back.
And now you're all over the forums like a leech looking for me?
TBH, makes me a bit uncomfortable.
Like "wondering about your SANITY" uncomfortable.

Fair points, all. And yeah, tomorrow is another day...that I can ignore those who are not for me!

Been hanging out here for a while, anyway. Better than getting "matched" with those I have little or no interest in romantically or otherwise.
(sigh) just......really, very tired of it all at the moment. I'm sure it'll get better but...right this second i wanna just take my heart, put it in a drawer and leave it there for a few days...
...til someone worthy hears it, opens the drawer and gives it back.
Maybe with a bit of her own heart, a bit at a time.
I'm patient, or I try to be.

Uh....okaaaay....

just a lot of the female attention i am getting is...less than articulate, i guess. they're too vague, they give annoying, one word answers, and i really need someone with a bit more....personality, let's say! Kinda hate waiting on these vague mystery chicks to write me back, so I'm only letting the right ones in...and THEY are gonna have to the unspeakable and (GASP!) write ME first!
I need passion, I need personality, I need paragraphs, articulation, I need someone as open and deep as an ocean and not someone whose walls i have to climb jsut to see the barren wasteland of uninteresting stuff.
Hate to rant, but I'm feeling rather passionate right now.
so, there you have it!

Probly cuz they know you might be a dude? Not that there's anythong wrong with that if thats what you're into.

anybody else know what this chick's malfunction is. she seems REALLY TROUBLINGLY SELF CENTERED and kinda makes everything about herself.....????

Not to label but chick seems kinda.....I dunno, I'm loathe to finish this sentence.
anyway, whatever!

I'd be waiting with open arms for a good hug!

my hand is not even strong enough for the facepalm action i have right now so i'll let the subject of your so-called joke do it for me.

Gotta admit, I get frustrated at times. Been on mingle for a while now, and the search for someone to vibe with jsut doesnt get easier. Lots of woemn out there, just ... most of the ones on here are jsut not doing much for me at all. I guess that's on me, not them. It isn't their fault at all. I just have high standards, and...things aren't clicking....I dunno, cant really describe how I'm feeling.It's just been a lot of dissapointed sighs of "is this IT?"
So, I'm just going to look for friends. Less pressure, and I can jsut be who I am without feeling obligated to be "more" than that.
Those who dig me will dig me for whatever reasons.
And those who don't won't.
Not giving up completely, but I havent really met many people on here who I'm all that interested in romantically.
I'm at a place where I know exactly what I want, but... maybe this isn't the best time to go looking for it. It's a little discouraging, and I know eventually I'll bounce back.
But....it is what it is, I guess.
And don't worry, I'm sticking around!
See everybody in a few days. Need to unwind for a bit.
find my center again.

I happen to think I'm a well-rounded guy when it comes to my hobbies. I'm fairly intellectual, but I also have a lot of common sense, and a bit of dry humor.
And my self-esteem's on an even keel. Not in love with myself to where I think everyone has to be in love with me, and pretty much accepting of whoever digs my company or otherwise.

Anyone into travel and hiking? Whats the coolest places you've been?

He smiled. The smile he could tell she relished. He did not need the Force to know she was happy. His heart told him all the same as he cupped her face and his hands and pulled her into his embrace, whispering in her ear: "This will be a day long remembered..."
he gazed into her soulful, pleading eyes and before she knew it his lips were on her, and he wondered how he had gone so long without her next to him.

^^^^^THIS!!!!!

Thanks, all.

hahahaha.....groan and facepalm lol

"You know you really love someone, when you don't hate them for breaking your heart."

anyone else wanna chime in with something? Post away!
-Zen.

being nice got me a lot of friends, but no women were very interested in me...until I became a good guy. The "do no harm, but take no ****" good guy.
The kind who respects women, but isn't afriad to call them on their ****, or tease them once in a while.
I'm still a laid back kinda dude, but I'm very passionate about what I want and need at this stage of my life.

Drifting apart like two sheets of ice, my love
Frozen hearts growing colder with time
There's no heat from our mouths
Please take me back to my refuge

And we were in flames, I needed, I needed you
To run through my veins, like disease, disease
And now we are strange, strangers

It's different now
Gray-faced
Eyes burnt out
Flames are gone
Gloves are on
I have a feeling
Love's gone mad

We're too similar
Losing our minds
With cabin fever,
Shut in confined spaces
Lost in the dark,
My heart taken and resting on your heart

And we were in flames, I needed, I needed you
To run through my veins, like disease, disease
And now we are strange, strangers

Wait for me to degrade before
You go
Killing prey for
Waste of
Daylight
Speaks when
Slumber's keeping
Under the bed
Out of revenge
I'm derailing
My youth has stained our sheets
With some piece of me
With some piece of me

Oh, winter comes
Oh, winter crush all of the things that I once loved

Winter come
Winter crush all of the things that I once had
(LYRICS BY ELENA TONRA, LEAD SINGER AND GUITARIST OF DAUGHTER)