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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
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rate my profile
would like some input,
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
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guys answer this one please
Thanks Ronnie,
i appreciate that , i really do, and i appreciate you being so honest in your answers, didnt mean to ruffle your feathers though, I commend you on your serious answers on here, some ppl kinda make a joke out of some of the questions asked on here. you may like sex alot but i think alot of other stuff is just as important to you. your ok in my book. |
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
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guys answer this one please
QUOTE: QUOTE: well not sure about your profile being gold digger heaven, i looked at it and it seemed pretty honest and upfront to me. and i didnt mean to be biased or offend anyone, but some guys that have a shirtless pic show them on the beach, fishing etc... normal shirtless pics, the ones i meant were pics that were taken for the sole purpose of showing off their bodies to get attention. or a booty call. and just so ya know some of us older gals are not shallow and i took offense to that. now dont go off on me again , we are discussing this not trying to start a war, lol why don't we discuss booty calls instead? lol you may discuss it all you want , i got the answer i wanted, he got pissed about it but gave me an honest answer. |
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
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guys answer this one please
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: just curious as to if the guy just wants a fling, why not go to bar and pick up a woman that wants the same? kinda thought a dating site was for ....dating, getting to know someone, finding out what you have in common, not for meaningless sex, if a woman sees a guy with a no shirt pic, it kinda makes them think hes just on here for sex, and maybe thats why all the guys are on here, and dont that kinda ruin it for all the nice guys? Lol... you know it always intrigues me that its okay to bash guys like me! Well here are some facts! I have not approached but one person on this site period! I have not responded to emails for bootie calls even though i have gotten them! I am not a man whore and i am not a liar>>>>.ssoooooo well maybe thats not true right? so where are all the girls that i supposedly emailed for bootie calls or even a flirt huh???? ohhhh.... no one lining up eh? well i can verify who i am and have in the past! Maybe i will hold up a damn newspaper next time! jeez! I guess if i started saying why do all the fat people not excersise that would be okay? Such utter hypocrisy! Stop judging others on stupid pictures! I'm just showing what i have to offer physically because i want a woman to desire that and it gets me hot when i am desired! so what! jeez! damn prudes! ummmm ok dude lol no need to get all nutty , i only asked you a simple question, and you answered it after alot of ....self reflection, you like women to look at you and desire you, i didnt say there was anything wrong with that, just asked, a question, no need to get so defensive, was not all intended for you was intended to respond to the entries of the thread as a whole. But what you said was pretty biased and offensive and not a mere question. but it's cool no harm done just hit a nerve! You know if you met me you would be suprised i work in a suit five days a week and i'm quite intelligent and social. mingle is my vent hang out! sick of being wanted for money i want real substance of all persuasions physical is only one of them i want! But the suit and i am a good boy profile is golddigger heaven! [/quote well not sure about your profile being gold digger heaven, i looked at it and it seemed pretty honest and upfront to me. and i didnt mean to be biased or offend anyone, but some guys that have a shirtless pic show them on the beach, fishing etc... normal shirtless pics, the ones i meant were pics that were taken for the sole purpose of showing off their bodies to get attention. or a booty call. and just so ya know some of us older gals are not shallow and i took offense to that. now dont go off on me again , we are discussing this not trying to start a war, lol |
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
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guys answer this one please
QUOTE: QUOTE: just curious as to if the guy just wants a fling, why not go to bar and pick up a woman that wants the same? kinda thought a dating site was for ....dating, getting to know someone, finding out what you have in common, not for meaningless sex, if a woman sees a guy with a no shirt pic, it kinda makes them think hes just on here for sex, and maybe thats why all the guys are on here, and dont that kinda ruin it for all the nice guys? Lol... you know it always intrigues me that its okay to bash guys like me! Well here are some facts! I have not approached but one person on this site period! I have not responded to emails for bootie calls even though i have gotten them! I am not a man whore and i am not a liar>>>>.ssoooooo well maybe thats not true right? so where are all the girls that i supposedly emailed for bootie calls or even a flirt huh???? ohhhh.... no one lining up eh? well i can verify who i am and have in the past! Maybe i will hold up a damn newspaper next time! jeez! I guess if i started saying why do all the fat people not excersise that would be okay? Such utter hypocrisy! Stop judging others on stupid pictures! I'm just showing what i have to offer physically because i want a woman to desire that and it gets me hot when i am desired! so what! jeez! damn prudes! ummmm ok dude lol no need to get all nutty , i only asked you a simple question, and you answered it after alot of ....self reflection, you like women to look at you and desire you, i didnt say there was anything wrong with that, just asked, a question, no need to get so defensive, |
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
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guys answer this one please
QUOTE: I have done this both ways! When my pictures where at a distance and really just showed someone i got nothing but shallow older women looking for a free lunch! so i tried close ups of my face and body with shirt off and found genuine people interested only in me and not what i have. so yes it is probably about physical attraction but that was the actual results. Not to mention my email blew up over night so it was expediant as well! So it absolutely works to the power of 10! I dont think attraction is wrong in any persuasion and we all have our different wants and desires. yours happens to be different than others thats all. ok but why not a close up of you with a shirt on? i mean what was the purpose of this pic? just asking |
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
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YOUR definition
this is really spooky seeing a bunch of cats having a conversation lol
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
Topic:
guys answer this one please
just curious as to if the guy just wants a fling, why not go to bar and pick up a woman that wants the same? kinda thought a dating site was for ....dating, getting to know someone, finding out what you have in common, not for meaningless sex, if a woman sees a guy with a no shirt pic, it kinda makes them think hes just on here for sex, and maybe thats why all the guys are on here, and dont that kinda ruin it for all the nice guys?
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
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guys answer this one please
QUOTE: QUOTE: been on a couple dating sites and wonder why alot of the guys feel the need to post pics without their shirt on, is this a macho male thing? or just guys looking for a one night stand , even though their profiles say looking for long term? very confusing. Well, women do like to look at a dude if he has a good looking bod. I don't have that, so therefore I don't post pics of my "average" bod and "non" six pack abs. But I do have a large...... Anyways, the answer could be a multitude of things. Some guys just like to show off. Some guys are lying in there profile, and they want a fling or something like that. Eh..I dunno. Did I mention I have a large......
yes , you mentioned that twice lol, ty for sharing that with all of us, lol |
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
Topic:
guys answer this one please
QUOTE: QUOTE: been on a couple dating sites and wonder why alot of the guys feel the need to post pics without their shirt on, is this a macho male thing? or just guys looking for a one night stand , even though their profiles say looking for long term? very confusing. Meh. They are just trying to show off the goods. They want to make sure that the females out there know they don't have any fat rolls or man boobs. but maybe some women care more about their smile |
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
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Pennsylvania Roll Call!
Hazleton Pa , here
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
Topic:
guys answer this one please
been on a couple dating sites and wonder why alot of the guys feel the need to post pics without their shirt on, is this a macho male thing? or just guys looking for a one night stand , even though their profiles say looking for long term? very confusing.
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
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rate me
ok , my opinion is this, nice looking guy, if your looking for a nice woman id make a different name, but if your looking for a one night stand , keep it. and you need more info on your profile, what i got from it is that you want sex, and thats pretty much it.
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
Seeing mostly younger ppl on this site, any older folks like me that live in northeast pa? Im from Hazleton, Pa/
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
If a man acts like a gentleman , he would get more responses, contrary to popular belief, women do not like men that feel the need to talk dirty or show off. Also and this is an experience from a recent date, we like men that bathe regularly!
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: Ok...so bigger than three inches...got it.
It was like a lil sausage.....
LMAO!!!
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
QUOTE: He is telling you that you are a friend. But he is also keeping the lines of communication open with you in case things with the other woman fall through. And, I do not mean this in that he is trying to be an a-hole. He would only be that if he told you things like he was really into you, or that the felt that something could materialize between the two of you. If he were professing love for you, and then mentioned this other woman, then it would show you that he has you on the backburner. Hope that makes sense. there is a deep side
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
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Is Being Single Unhealthy?
what a cute little monkey,
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
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What do guys want??
lol , ok artman, ty for the kind warning.
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chillywillow Joined Sat 05/16/09 Posts: 64 |
Topic:
What do guys want??
QUOTE: what i look for is a woman that represents all of the positive values that i feel a woman should represent as a mother a daughter and a potential wife and on the top of that list should be self respect and dignity and family values and intellegence because i feel that these qualities as well as many others that a woman posesses represent strength this guy gets the gold star |