I've known my best friend for 14 years, she's like a little sister and best friend rolled into one. She's sweet, smart and gorgeous. When I am seeing somebody, the big test is when they meet her and how they react. If they get along with her, I've found a winner.

That's the point that I really find out if the person I am seeing has any issues that I did'nt see before.

This thread would be more interesting and perhaps simpler to resolve in another language. Let's try Latin.

ficta voluptatis causa sint proxima veris (In order to please, fictions should approximate the truth)

The most common dishonest answer that I encounter with people is the answer that they don't want to hear. Something not going a person's way fuels their distrust for you.

In my daily life, I have to keep the flow of information moving. I've learned that when asked an important question (especially a heated question) that i don't know the answer to, giving speculation is often interpreted as a lie if my speculations are wrong.

It's less fun to be a realist. I'd rather be ignorant.

..but staying more on topic... A lie is a knowing attempt to deceive, not something an honest person would do. Not to say that you can never be an honest person if you tell a lie, but feeling remorse for telling a lie shows the possibility of strong character.

I think that it's common that people answer questions based on their own experiences, perspectives and motivations. I think that truth is relative in it's conclusions and is far removed from fact.

fire

I don't mind taking the blame. I like carrying the responsibility that others run from, in fact it kind of thrills me.

I see pointing fingers as a weakness. In my world, blaming somebody means wasting time. I'd rather make a quick decision, find a solution and move on.

Just Once for me

I've never had any desire to harm an animal that was'nt attacking me or another person.


I dated a woman whose dog was out of control. It slept in the bed with us and would try to take food right out of your hand. I put up with it and kept my cool. She was more important to me than her pet, but most definitely, that wimpy dog was the Alpha male in her house, but I would have never hurt it.

Seriously, and I say from only my own experiences, if I truly care about a woman (I have a general caring for all people) and am geniunely worried about her, I will ask how she is. it's not an act. With as lazy as most guys are, do you think they would really use the effort to check up on a person that they were seeing if they did'nt care?

It's not hard to understand how a guy thinks. we're not some complex puzzle. Often over-hyped, but mostly simple.

When I feel that my concern is being taken as an annoyance too often, it's time to walk away.

If you were closer, I'd definitely ask you out, you're always so sweet.

yes and yes

I wish that was all the women I've met wanted, I have that covered 200%.

It's usually a guessing game though. It's rough, not being told but being expected to know.....

Stay true to yourself and never settle for less than what you want.

The easiest way to tell is to annoy them to death and see if they still like you.

Seriously. When you truly CARE about somebody, their little quirks seem unimportant.

Maybe so

I'll just sitting around and mumble while drinking wine

On the verge of being single and considering becoming a monk....

....baby don't hurt me, baby don't hurt me, no more....

I bet Haddaway knows.....

I would appreciate anything, if it was sincere, no matter when it was. When it happens should'nt factor in a decision. If I found an incredible woman, I would want to let her know how I feel right away. I may not propose, but it should be taken as flattery and not a red flag automatically.

If it happens alot however, that would be scary.