If they say something like:

I love you long time hunny, but I have serious problem, I'm in Africa and I need 200 dollar money order to come to Amerika and meet yew.

Ok sorry if this is a dumb question (honestly I'm a natural redhead), but, how do you know if your getting email from a spammer?

We owe gazzilions of dollars to China.
We have more than a million homes in foreclosure.
How about Chinese Gov. be offered the chance to exchange some of the debt for foreclosed properties.
The positive points being;
The most of them wouldn't actually live here and they could pay Property Managers rent and maintain the properties.
States and local Gov. could raise property taxes and outside money would be coming in.

i was, but i have a bit of a problem with being in love with someone who finds someone else and then takes them with to Cali. when she moves.

Oh, and she doesn't message me.....at all.....ever.....unless i message her....which i don't do anymore.

I have a friend that is going thru this, so I thought I would ask... how common is it that the partner suddenly gets cold feet and leaves?

Never scared of being in a relationship. Just those times when you might be falling in love with them and not sure they feel the same way. But love is a gamble and one I'm willing to take can't stand back and say what if all the time. At times you just have to see what happens and hope for the best.

MAYBE you misheard your boyfriend... he probley said "You act like a B!tch", not "You look like a Witch."

Just a guess based on your response.. welcome to the site.

Hi will just be fine, but don't expect great ratings for a sh!tty profile.

IMO
your avatar invites attention...

your profile doesn't...

you need, at least a scrap of detail