you both should go, I'll be happy to gather your prizes

In Vegas we run into this a lot. More than other places, I don't know. I don't do it a lot but maybe 2 or 3 times a year I will take in someone if I feel I should. Mainly families though and not so much one person.

Impala SS

And, how many of us had names for our cars?

holy smokes, is that boonie I see?

sneaks in to take the lead

stopped by to say howdy

step away from that finish line

That's sweet you guys! thumbs up

So basically gals, a guy can't win either way, lol. Can't be too soft, can't be to hard and if he is just right goldilocks comes along and gives him the boot.

I must have been born with a mission. Except for looks I'm almost identical to what I was in school.

I don't see how true love can be wrong under any circumstances. We who are straight and have not had our gender bent may have a hard time understanding the plumbing, but I have seen some very loving and well adapted couples of the same sex.

I think it's very wrong to not let love be love because some king a long time ago decided to put his own twist on an important book. And this king turned acceptance into condemning judgement.

I think if any thing we need to take a longer look at the history that surrounded the interpretations that this king commissioned and get these books a little closer to the actual meanings.

A lot of people have been put on the hot seat because of this and I think it's uncalled for.

I do think there's a lot of unrighteous love out there (for example abusive relationships), but I'm not sure I can throw same sex love into that camp with all clarity and true conviction. I know what paraniod people have taught, but I question their studies and have seen a lot of king james cultism in my day.

Yes, I am a believer, and as a believer test the spirit. Even if it means the spirit of a bad translation.

It's easy to judge and put ourselves in the possition of Gods, but it takes a little more work to truely study the books which we use to judge with. Punching our church card every sunday doesn't make us a bible scholar, and being a bible scholar doesn't mean we have studied the truest interpretation. I have come to the point in my life that I less and less see different as wrong, it's just different from me and who am I? Just someone different from them.

Love is love and I would rather spend my time being lovely and loving. That means being accepting of those who I find different from me. Plus not being judgemental on topics I don't truly understand.

Can you sing lol, when they walk out you can do the vocals.

Thinking I was suppose to spend the night getting things ready for tomorrow and all are going to show up and see I did nothing lol.

Yep sweet, that's the way I see it. And, I'm not sure some of the problem was not me. I'm a pretty eccentric fella and I can see a lot of things I do that could get under her skin. I don't buy it when people paint an evil picture of their ex. Some times this happens yes, but all of a sudden ALL guys or ALL women are bad. When someone takes that stand there is something wrong. Not everyone's ex can be a jerk right? that doesn't leave many of us

Well, I was spoiled by both of my wives, and continue to be by girlfriends so not many women here would want me I'm afraid. You list a lot of great qualities if the giving is from a good place, or should I say a natural place for that type of woman. I would also like to add though that giving back with just as much giving makes the relationship a dream come true.

I am so with you guys here. There's no room for it. life is meant to enjoyed and I just don't see the reasoning behind fighting. Things happen, that's life, but why does it have to turn into an ugly face instead of walking through the problem and taking care of it.

I may be terrible but when I start to see that fighting spirit I'm out of there. There's a switch that goes off in my head "not interested". I absolutely hate the feeling of getting mad and feel like death over it. Some can let it roll off their back and even seem built for it, and go to the extent to make drama, but count me out. Peace is the only place to dwell for these old bones.

no idea, give me that trophy

What did I tell you guys about women....lol

Tons of great folks on mingle. Relax, kick back and join in the forums.

welcome

sorry babe, I'll take that