I can think of many good advantages to having a Lover.

Thats quite a rude assumption.

One nearly raped me, can't really call it that legally but it was very devasting to me never the less

The other one was a major alcoholic who was beginning to become physically agressive although I completely looked after him except his habit. I talked him into going to rehab and hes been dry for 4 years now. We are friends now

The last one I was in, he cheated on me while I was away for 6 weeks looking after my dying daughter. I spent thousands and my hard labor into renovating his house. He told me to leave the day before my daughters memorial service.

I'm not expecting any sympathy but if you don't know me then its not fair to make assumptions like that. Yes 2 sides to every story I know

Wish I had your job!

navygirl, I'm so happy for you... this is an exciting advancement opportunity indeed... your life will be changing in so many ways... maybe you will even find time for romance and love... never say never...

Then what are you doing? Play hooky?

excellent news then... will it be permanent?

hi navygirl, good to see you back from your weekend away...

We meet by chance… fall in-like at first glance… can’t wait for romance… we unbuckle our pants... during foreplay we arouse our senses and curiosity… our passion controls us with its intensity… together in-lust our bodies are on fire… our minds are on the brink… and… we don’t stop to think… we react to our impulses… tearing at our clothes… we’re naked and exposed… craving and maintaining caresses… entangled and breathless… we can’t get enough of this… we two are now one… in-love and having fun…

A lot of us test the waters(sex) before we jump in the pool(relationship) feet first. So… can awesome sex be what brings two people together at the beginning of an emotional connection?

Is it possible to have nothing else in common except great sex, and yet still be able to make the relationship work to our equal advantage, if while staying together for the sex we learn to grow in other areas too?

If we go our separate ways, then meet up again, and the old sparks reignite, is it acceptable to have one more tryst?

I am not trying to hide anything, but I am a private person and I also don't trust others right away. I do have things I'd prefer to keep to myself or private. I think anyone should have that choice.

I am careful, especially on here (the internet) but it doesn't mean that I do not enjoy the friends I have made here. I do, very much.

Everyone has a great responsibility to all that come their way,especially those of their household. God describe any man or woman who would not take of his or her family as an infidel. Why family here? Family is vital because a proper family breeds a proper community,state, nation and the world.Most problems the world is facing today is as a result of families built on wrong foundations of oppressions,exploitation,ignorance,wickedness,discrimination,poverty,loneliness,distrust,selfishness,superiority and inferiority complex. Consequently, timid,unexposed, bitter, and emotionally,psychologically,spiritually,economically battered personalities are thrown into the world of tough competition as a social misfits. They struggle under inadequate backgrounds and foundations.Men and women from such families lack the basic love.They lack the kind of love that could have made them happy and self reliant.when one lacks love in most times he can not offer love because he does not even know what it is despite his inner golden heart or goodwill. This is a self - searching issue to you father, mother, brother,sister,guardian,step mother or father,uncle, auntie,cousin and other relatives.what seeds are you sowing into the lives of those growing under care even as a wife or husband.whatever the kind of answere you provide to these questions,you should sow love in form of proper care, freedom to basic needs and rights. Let's stop talking and acting love practise love in your relationships. As for me I'm trying to sow love in all relationships .

It takes me a long, long time to let down my "guard.".. I want to wait until I have a chance to see "all sides" to a man before I hand him my heart (and trust) on a "silver platter."...I may have feelings for someone but I'm not going to "leap" into anything prematurely...I probably view love like a soup or pasta sauce. It takes time for all the ingredients to "mix" and blend together...I don't want to rush the process... I won't talk about love until I feel totally comfortable with someone at all times...When I'm "sure" of who he really is...No "instant" or "overnight" love for me!

I have to agree that you will a long smooth life without the hassles.


Yes its depend on people how they are live..some one not live without love...but some one like being single

1.save time.
2.can sleep well.
3.Don’t hav 2 bother abt missed calls..
4.Don’t hav to worry abt how u look..
5.Can eat in any restaurant.
6.No boring sms in the middle of night..
7.Can talk with all gals/guys..
8.U won’t hear “awww U r dull today”..
9.Can go anywhere with any one..
10.Don’t hav 2 listen same old crap dont call me again, good bye after each time ur girl gets busy ur phone..
And once u wl tell him dat he wl start nagging lyk i was wid my cousin/uncle/brother . .
BONUS:- U will live a long smooth life…….so be
aware of LOVER

so we penalise age ,single parents colour, creed lifstyles were will we just keep going the disabled the afflicted then after all the filters used we ask.were are all the real people...psst there the real people you penalise what your searching for is a comic book hero now. thats what i was saying so we use too many rules we box ourselves in to tightly...i wasnt being offencive with my post but ..using freedom of speach and opinion