I have the same problem I wouldn't worry about it sometimes things are better unexplained everyone has a different opinion and alot of girls play games and like the jerks better for some reason and coming on to strong can be a problem certainly something I should work on but, keep trying.

The older ladies right about him leaving you dangling by the heart strings and I have that problem girls like to screw me over idk what to do besides give up everyone seems to let me down so idk but, I'd get rit of him its not worth the heart ache.