ok people.. we found an issue.. and are working on it.

thanks for posting

The people at the bottom should be the people you already voted on. You should see a symbol representing your choice for them on the picture.

http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/44989

When you receive a message stating that someone is interested in meeting you, in order to discover who that person is, you must make a "mutual match" with that person.

In order to make a potential match, you must go through the mutual match system. You will see pictures of people that fit your search preferences as well as people who may have expressed an interest in you.

If you express an interest in someone that also expressed an interest in you, then a mutual match is made and both of you will be notified.

Mutual Match is just one of many ways you can connect with people on JustSayHi.

Please let me know if you have any questions

We have an excellent developer starting monday. Our first task is to work on making sure the site stays fast as we are REALLY growing fast now.

Then, we definitely will be going over the features that have been requested and putting them into the development pipeline.

Thanks for your patience.

No chat rooms... they kill the forums.. way too much chance of abusive behavior.

Please do not create chat rooms and advertise them here.. your account can get disabled for that.

Thanks

We made some tweaks... should be fast now

we're working on it right now... trying to diagnose the slowness...

please let us know if becomes consistently slow or consistently fast..

we are seeing some clicks hang, and some clicks are very fast

is it faster now?

I think you can disable notifications but that will include normal messages too.

Click on their profile. Click on REPORT ABUSE. Select SCAMMER.

Thanks

Very tricky of you Willy_cents !

Blockuser keeps people from messaging you.. they may still show up in searches

Those profiles had wrong data... (they were wrong gender)..

that's why... I think those profiles got fixed.

Next time give us his userid or you can click on his profile and click on the REPORT ABUSE button and fill it out

We'll look into this... thanks

markecephus's post is very close to why we do NOT have chat rooms.

We've discussed this in the past and it is primarily due to the lack of moderation ability in chat rooms. It can degrade into very negative stuff. Also, chat rooms also have the behavior of making conversations only real time whereas forums allow you to participate in a thread many hours or even days apart.

Lastly, we already have a free 1 on 1 chat service. Just click on the INSTANT MESSAGE button on any person's profile that is currently online (of course assuming they kept that option on)

Hi Everyone,

I'd like to announce some exciting news. As many of you know, JustSayHi was started a little over a year ago by Mike and I because we felt there needed to be a high quality dating site that was really free to use. We've grown tremendously over the last year. In fact, as far as we can tell, we are the fastest growing free dating site in history!

To help us continue to grow even faster, I'm please to announce that JustSayHi has recently teamed up with another great free dating site. Mingle2.com and its 40,000+ members will be absorbed into the JSH family. We are excited about welcoming these members to our site and know that you will make them feel right at home.

But that's not the only great news. In addition to adding the Mingle2.com site and its members, we really wanted to bring on its creator: Matt Inman. Matt is just as passionate about free dating as we are and we were so impressed with him that we felt he would be a great addition to our team. Luckily for us, he also really liked what we were doing and is now officially part of the JustSayHi team. You'll be seeing a lot of Matt as he will be participating in the forums, making improvements on the site, and helping to spread the word about JustSayHi.

So everyone, please help us welcome Matt, and his 40,000 friends from Mingle2.com.

Cheers!
Vanchau, Mike, and Matt

Are you sure they are valid? Send them to me privately and I'll verify that our system is working correctly.

It is NOT a "come-on" and we really don't appreciate false information being spread like that. We put a lot of effort into creating trust with our users. Just because a lot of sites out there trick their users doesn't mean that we do.

When someone says "YES" to your profile, you are sent a message that someone is interested in you. If you also say YES (or MAYBE) to that person you will see a mutual match.

If you use mutual match you will find mutual matches over time, which are highly valued matches since both people already have mutual interest.