No strings and one night stands are different.

I prefer it in a male, but common sense tells me that some women like more submissive men and some like something in between.

SImilarly, men sometimes like a submissive woman and sometimes they like a dominant woman.



I prefer being able to be soft/passive/submissive but I refuse to be abused or bullied and as a single parent it is necessary that I accept authority in my home. Still, a take charge man is the sexiest kind in my eyes.


which are you : dominant , sub, or something in between?

which do you prefer?

It's really disheartening for a man to hear a woman say, "I don't get caught up onthe small stuff" when you are standing stark naked right in front of her.

But that's just me.

So you see someone that peaks your interest (you see there profile pics and read about them) and so you send that first contact email. He/she responds. And thus begins a convo via email. Now, how quickly do you move along to texting, or phone calls? And then how fast do you move along to that first meeting? I know things such as distance and work schedules can influence how quickly things progress. But in general, how fast do you move it along? And, when is it "too fast"?

You'll meet someone who will make you want to try. If it works out....great! If not....back to the drawing board.

Help me understand that mentality? If you are a "big" woman and are excluding men that are overweight how can you even say that without being in shape yourself?? I prefer thick woman myself but don't close my mind to all sizes.. what do you think?

I have only known you through your posts and have always thought of you as someone kind and considerate of others. My sympathy and hope that you do not suffer in pain.

Different things attract me to different people, some share my same sense of humor, some have common interests or similar tastes, others share all of it, and some are enigmas.

You meet someone. It's all great. Good times, both of ya getting along very well, and all signs point to a relationship that looks (and feels) healthy. Few months go by, and then the reality hits. They are getting on your nerves. You aren't happy with them like you were. Perhaps you two didn't have as much in common as you first thought. But man, oh man alive! The Sex!!!! The sex is so damn good. And it is the sex that keeps you around.

I got to wondering. We all know a relationship can't exist if it is just a physical thing. But why do we put ourselves though it? Are some of us that arrogant to think that we can make a sexual relationship work? What say you?