on another dating site that im on
i was being honest about my profile as i mention
my health issue
and this man i wouldnt even consider a gemtleman
hes in his 70s
stated that no man would even consider anyone with a health issue
and i email him back and said that i had met a few that didnt bother them
his reply was they must had been dead..

he 70ys old and i made a dang comment and said well if you had family that had the same issue would you run.. i guess he would he didnt reply to that comment
but he has no consideration in anyone

if any man in here didnt know me would you date me or someone with the same health issue

My experience is that shy people are often passed over because the second party doesn't realize there is an attraction...or neither realize the potential or present attraction..and then there is that pesky self doubt.

But I agree, its a rough deal to meet people if you are shy....a lot of good gets passed over