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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
QUOTE: I would have a couple drinks with him since we were at a bar. During our conversation I would be open and honest with him and let him know that I wasn't interested in a relationship with him. Who knows.....he may end up being a really cool person to hang out with. THANK YOU!!!!!!
For allowing that,,before passing a thought,wink
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
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LadyOfMagic this is for you
To someone I call my friend, and she has grown yet deeper to me she is the one I call,,ME LADY,,,as for the GRACE she carries with-in she can brighten every page here and make your heart let her in Thank you Queen, for giving her this respect, she so deserves. I could not think of anyone better, who keeps this place reserved.
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: People need to stop looking at the color of a persons skin and look at the size of their heart instead..I keep tellin people they will miss out on good things if they let skin color get in the way..no one listens to me! I guess I should be a little more picky now huh? I wanted to throw the skin color out of the way but just having what my friends and family sayings embedded into my head, its becoming very hard. YOU try and PLACE ITS CAUSE, its reasons.... And through all the advice and their I-TOLD-YOU-SO's,,,,,,YOU now in your mind are allowing them to sway,,,the REAL REASONING behind your and hers actions.... DUDE,,,,You guys didn't work-out,,,,you BOTH,,really were not in true harmony and love in your beginning marriage,,,,,IT HAPPENS, everyday. ITS not your race, her race, no ONE BIG,,,,under the microscope LOOK. Its just what MANY,MANY,people go through in this life.... Don't let others cause clouds to block your true hearts knowledge of your WHY's.....Deep-down,,,you know ALL, your why's and how comes,,, and so does SHE,know hers as well... Let it go,,,,,STAY you, LOVE your daughter, and deal with it through knowing you still have HER,,,to carry you on with,,in all your daughters memories present now, and all the future ones you BOTH will make and SHARE! Its alright man...Peace, love and THANK YOU...... Thank you for searving this Country and its people,,,, If,,,you need a friend to talk with,,,email me,,,and we're talk.. |
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
I just had someone dear, tell me something I never thought of, much. I want you all,,,to tell me about ME, I have been here long enough for all of you to have read something I wrote? Tell me what kind of a MAN, You THINK I am? Yes,,,a first here in this section,,I admit,,, But THIS is where, we look at, review, all of who we THINK we our, right? So w/o any me being offended at your truths,,tell me if you think I am a decent man, a friend, a flirt, a user, a feel-sorry-for-me-type. TRULY folks,,,,I will NEVER be hurt by ANYONE truth of how THEY FEEL... So with that,,,,,,HELP-ME,,,to see the impressions I am giving off to others and also your personal opinions,hell,,,I give MINE,,lol,all-the-time... This will help me to really see ME, as to who you feel, I am...? THANK YOU all for reading,,,now ,,,,,go spill my beans,,, even if you hate me,,its all good,,,and COOL,,,I will NOT come back to this post in ANY MANNERS of QUESTIONS as to your opinions. This is in a sense,,,MY understand to have a positive -reinforcement to evaluate, and TRY and CHANGE who I show I am like,,,if thats possible wink.... Thanks again.....
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
For me,,,good health, and many more years to feel it. wink
for others,,EVERYTHING they feel they need this year. GOD, Good health Money, Food, family, Friends, Love, romance, Gifts under their trees. And the refreshing out-look on life that their tomorrows will be brighter and shared with all who they love and who love them in return.
THATS IT FOR ME,,,,,,,,,wink I'm happy now,
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: I'm bored out of my freakin skull..lol..hope you're all having a better day than I am! SURE,,,come here ONLY when you get bored,,,,
How does THAT make us feel,,,,huh?????how
Hello me Lady,,,,,,lol,,I am giving you a hard time,,,, How is life and ,,,,,
YOU didn't eat to much did you?????
T..I'm ALWAYS here..lol..If not for this site I'd have no life at all..YOU just never notice me because you're busy flirting with the other girls..lol...and yes I ate way too much..lol. You know ,,,lol,ya say that,,and I never really thought about ,,,that,wink,YOUR RIGHT,,,I bet to many here,,I seem like a
big time flirt......lol OK,,,now I must go look in my reflections and change who YOU ALL feel I am,wink,lol I call it playing, wink,,,but,,its true,,many would call me a flirt. THANK YOU ME LADY OF WISDOM AND MAGIC,,,for allowing me to see, me better And as for YOUR always here HUH
YOUR suppose to TYPE SO WE KNOW THAT,,,,dang it..
I been here for two days,,and this is the first I have seen of ya,,sorry AND YOU ATE TO MUCH,,,after being warned,,,,,,shame-on-ya-girl... I need to talkn with your momma and she will beat-ya,,,,,lol I hope your have a great weekend,wink big hugs,,,,,
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
QUOTE: Lets see describe geek, well, high waisted pants for one thing, hair slicked down like alfalfa, made funny childish faces all night, shall I go on? As for me being faceless, well, I can tell ya I'm no geekette... Now a GEEKETTE???? OMG???? We have a new form of life in our world.... How's this,,,he was really a smart minded man, and me, well I like and enjoy MY MEN,,,to have NO REAL INTELLIGENT AT ALL... lol
Because,,,what you said,,,makes YOU "SOUND" this way.... But was it RIGHT,,,for me to SHOW THAT to everyone here??? I am merely trying to get you to be a little better with your abilities to communicate with ALL walks of people,,,who,,right-now- you feel are a lesser breed of human than your-self. It reads this way through your words and actions in wanting to talk about it on here,wink and calling THEM your own selected GROUP words of slang against THAT culture of minds and people.. again,,just my thoughts,wink, I am NOT, trying to put you down,just trying to get you to SEE,,,all of US better.....
WE ALL SHARE THIS LIFE---TOGETHER as a people....we live EQUAL |
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
QUOTE: I'm bored out of my freakin skull..lol..hope you're all having a better day than I am! SURE,,,come here ONLY when you get bored,,,,
How does THAT make us feel,,,,huh?????how
Hello me Lady,,,,,,lol,,I am giving you a hard time,,,, How is life and ,,,,,
YOU didn't eat to much did you?????
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
QUOTE: Yes, it happened to me the other night.....how embarrassing. OK,,see its like this. I have been thought many things, I'm sure, lol But a geek,,,not that one yet?? But, who do you think you are to be EMBARRASSED by this man,?? I mean really,,,did a spot-light come-on and say,,,,LOOK HERE? It's women like you, I feel must be the ones I meet. To be above that guy,(you don't even know) to CALL him any-words? YOU choose to be there, and that makes everyone there open to be there to You didn't say if he walked up to you, or you said hi to him first? But,,,,damn it,,,if he sounded a bit out there, ya just drift away from him,or politely tell him your not there for him...simple huh. But what bothers me is that you come here and talk MORE about this man who you have no-idea his heart and thoughts... YOU could have seemed a Geek to him? in his mind, But I would bet he didn't? He probably saw you,and thought ,,WOW,,she's freaking HOT!!! So he tried,,,humbly to approach you with some conversation. and YOU,,,,,,,,,done what? we don't know as yet? Everyone is who they are,,,, but, who are we that we FEEL the need to talk poorly of them without knowing who they are on the inside as well as their outside? If I went-up to a lady in any surroundings and talked a bit, and she talked back,,we shared a small bit there, if she would stay actively talking with me,,cool,if she wondered away,,cool,, But I wouldn't judge her for her reasons at all,,,? Nor think I was above her in any manner as to say I thought she was a tramp,,,,NEVER,,,,WHY? I just move away,or get away from them,, SHE'S just there like me,,,enjoying her time, and trying to be a part of that place,,,,, It comes down to, I dis-like stereo-typing others w/o even having a real clue to THAT human beings heart. Please,,,for all the (in your mind) geeks and punks, and studs and low- liefs in these places,,,,,TRY, and allow them to be a equal to you. Or at least, let their actions and words for MORE than five minutes, filter through your mind before determining who they really are,wink. hey,,you asked? Just my thoughts here....
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
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okay....why
QUOTE: Okay, we know we can't turn the clock back, why do we keep turning our minds back? Do you ever find yourself there? What do you do to pull yourself out?
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
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Dreamt Love
QUOTE: I awoke this morning from another one of those stupid dreams where I'm in love with someone.
I'm not sure what purpose this has, if any. I despise it but at the same time I kinda feel thankful that at least I can have that "in love" feeling, albeit a very short lived one. I've been alone forever (okay, years isn't really forever but close enough) and wonder if subconsciously this fulfills the need we all have to love and be loved. Since I can't accomplish it in real life, perhaps I attain it in my dreams as a coping mechanism. So the question is...Consciously I believe I'm perfectly fine being alone forever and just don't see love in my future. I see these rogue dreams as my brain's acceptable alternative to the real thing. Have I completely lost my mind? Or do you think my subconscious is trying to tell me to get off my arse and find a man?
Oh yeah...I should mention...these dreams are not erotic in nature (most of the time )...and it's not with a particular person...just some guy I'm with but I know we're in love. It's really all very strange.
your internal subconscious feelings. They miss love, yet, consciously YOU have accepted it you THINK,wink.. Sure, you can tell your mind to not think about-it,,,yet it, or YOURS, still wants to wonder in that area.... so you dream..about that fulfillment. A hearts desire to feel, and what you tell it not to feel,,,will still, live in the subsconsious areas of your mind. Which is better than monster's and murderers crawling around up-there,wink No sure fixes for this,,,but to find warmth in someone to share a caring compassion with while awake, might help you... wink, yet in dreaming, they may become your dream of love, so be careful its real, in the awake parts,wink. And complete tired or drained at bed times might help ya to. If not,,,have a drink before going to sleep........lol |
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
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My love...
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so happy, so glowing, her heart feeled with your love so showing. This is her soul, smiling today. Knowing in your arms she'll forever stay So proudly her pose, so full of delight, living in loves special flight. You sir must be in bliss, to know you have these lips to kiss. So boldly you show her here, as the lady you fell in love-with so dear. Just a poem is all I can do, to show the two of you how happy this makes me feel, to see you both, to hear you both, all the dreams in my head. You get to live-out my dreams, with all that both now have found. This is the goal here of many, and the dreams of many more. You must keep us in your thoughts and actions as we all shall live through YOU. Its not very often we get to board a flight, where LOVE is beside us, as we sit in first class company, and share but a small part of your love feeled plans, knowing you both have met the dream of your hearts. Thank you for sharing, I CONGRATULATE YOU BOTH WITH A HOPE FOREVER LOVE.
Edited by iam4u on Sat 11/28/09 10:24 AM
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
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Even Christmas trees die
This, as most you do, was very, very heart felt and good.
and made me also think to much,wink I hope you won't mind.
another for others to feel your write. Precious is life, so bold and free beauty becomes it, all yearning to see. we strive to take its life kill it, slowly, sawing, like a knife No remorse, no sorrow, will have it up, tomorrow dress it to shine, as we drink our wine. Its life now leaving, pleading, to let it go we hear not its crackling cries, so soft and low Dried to its core, its needed no-more. off with its shinny coat, as we drag-it out the door its tiny remains scattered, all over the floor Christmas is past, and we all had a blast as mother nature wipes away her tear, she waits in mourning, until next year.
Edited by iam4u on Sat 11/28/09 10:27 AM
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
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Summer's Lovin
QUOTE: New to Mingle. Looking for a nice guy to explore JERUSALEM WITH... I am playful, fun, and energetic with a heart of gold and I'm a photographer. LOVE PHOTOS! I just wanted to welcome you to our zoo. I hope you have some good times on here, and meet some real cool brow's. I', not sure if I would be looking forward to where you said you will be going to, wink, but if you feel happy about it cool..... To close to all the fighting for me,lol Play in the posts and just be you, Friends just happen here. I hope you post some of your pic's as I will check-out your blog there. I'm curious to see what kind of photography your into....Be safe..
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
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Tears
While alone and wondering in the night
I heard the cries of tenderness so light. Searching and finding where they became As all of them started chanting their name. On here, past Testimonials so lovingly expressed wanting me to find them, as I was a little depressed Longing for them back here with me Knowing for some, that can never be. Memories so vivid still dancing in my head Reading them all once again, before going to bed. Such beautiful people, all the love we did share These were my friends who really did care. They gave me great strength to know they were near Now it gives me such grief to know their no longer here. Passions of heart, memories we shared every night and day Some just left, it was their way, and some so sweet, passed away. Tears on my cheek, as I read how they felt of me. Wondering if they ever think back, to how we use to be.
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
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is it true?
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: Hey, I'm just quoting 2. Can any woman be a lesbian? Not every woman is a lesbian, but many women do have lesbian feelings. Most women are involved with men or married. Some of these women are lesbians. If a woman chooses to be a lesbian, she is one. Many women do not have a free choice about the way they want to live and love, but they may be lesbians also. Any woman can be a lesbian: your neighbor, your doctor, your sister, your teacher, your daughter. 3. How many lesbians are there? According to surveys done at different times and in different countries, one to two out of every 20 women are lesbians. Some research has found that 50 percent of the women interviewed had lesbian experiences and feelings. There would be many more lesbians if women had a free choice. But currently it is considered 'normal' in most societies to be heterosexual (women loving men) and 'abnormal' to be homosexual (women loving women). 5. What causes lesbianism? Can it be cured? Some lesbians believe they are born lesbian, others feel that they have chosen to be lesbian. http://www.is.lt/sappho/doc/stq.html MIS-INFORMATION,,,,,,,,,,,,wink,lol,lol One only has to turn a page or push a button to see some Else's false-hoods showing that THEY HAVE THE RIGHT ANSWER!!!! Pssssst,,their still in-exclusive to a factual basis of reality to account for this desire or excitability in EVERY man or woman. Because trust me,,,lol,if SOME government officials KNEW the true why's,,,,THEY would be TRYING to OPERATE and REMOVE that why....lol Our Country's like THAT ya know......wink,lol Come on now..you are ruining my shock-and-awe post. I'm waiting for at least 50% women on mingle to admit they are lesbians.
LADIES,,,,Atlantis here needs for you all to come-out and tell him your over half gay, on here...... PLEASE,,,he'sbeen waiting all night,,,,,cheer him up,,,,wink THERE ya go man,,,GLAD I could HELP,,,wink ![]()
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
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For the Men!!
QUOTE: Men, would you rather a woman ask you out, or the other way around? What makes you men tick?
I tick, and I tock, but if it was talked about anf thought about,,it wouldn't matter,,,,both would fit,,or just one.
I ask, she ask,,,we ask,,,,lol But I would say its better to KMOW she has that thought, as us guys might take longer to get to that asking stage,wink,,,lol |
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
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Dear scammers
Edited by iam4u on Fri 11/27/09 08:39 PM
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
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Dear scammers
Keep um knockin and keep US rockin, we shall over-come,wink
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iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 21107 |
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Road, and Rage..
So many years driving down these roads, life's big highways.
C.B. by my side, always along for the ride. Chit-chat,,,breaker breaker, whats everyone slowing down fur. I answer and tell them, it's a big rig on its side. Years ago their first question would be. Is the driver OK, can anybody see. But not todays world, they now yell back, well get it the hell out of my way. I refuse to become Callas, and give in to that way of thought. So I come-back and tell them, It will move when its all safe. Then they turn to fight and rage, about anything they can find. Racial wars of black and Mexican put-downs. By all these smart-azz white guys. So I do my part and come in and tell them off. And fight till the road clears-up. This has been this way, for the past twenty years. The ten before that, was how it should still be. Everyone worried about the other, and helping you if you broke-down Now they pass-ya,,and laugh, with jokes and put-u-down. So again I grab my mike, and tell them they ain't right Maybe someday,,,it will be them broke-down on the road at night. Nobody cares about the other, its a sorry road I drive down. Everyone in such a hurry, yet not even sure where their bound. I fight their with strangers everyday of my life. trying just to let them hear, I will speak, its still my right. construction zones mean nothing to them, as they fly on past. Makes me want to run them down, and kick their freaking azz. How do you make this whole world see, that living involves, all of us, to care about each other, and to try and be kind. This slaps me in my face, yet I say a PRAYER out laud. And ask GOD to forgive them and me, as my anger wants to scream. I won't give-up, trying to set them right. It has stayed in me this long, its at least, some light. Because if they keep going,where they try to go each day. No-one will be safe to drive, on these life's highways. I tell them, hate breeds hate, and they need some respect. As they just tell me where to go, and speed on down the road. We have many women drivers who turn their CB's off. Because all the animals hound them and then tell them off. If a woman talks on her CB, guys instantly do swear. Then talk about her and what kind of underwear. It never should have gotten this bad, its really very sad. Yet everyday, this is my job,and to GOD and me I will so stride. Some will hear me and heed my advice, others just yell with vice. trust me I know all your fears,,as you drive in your little cars. I yell for them to get off your azz, but they again just pass. WE all take a roll in keeping this life right. Its all our jobs to stand up for all thats right. No ego's no slangs, just a real solid care to succeed. I have seen more people killed than I ever want to remember. And all of what WE DO,,will help how we all will be. Signal every move, don't pass just to brake in front of a truck. HE WILL KILL YOU,,in three seconds flat,,,if he's not watching So be aware, please don't give them a dare. 80,000 pounds is a 65 mile per hour TANK. And we won't stop rolling till many cars are all crushed. If your getting on the free-way, and a truck flashes his lights or high beams low then high,,,he wants you to know he's watching and its OK for you to speed-up and get in front of him. IF HE HONKS,,,worry,,,,and see why? As snow and ice will be here soon,,also will come the slides and pile-ups,,,so be careful and be alert,, I want you all here in spring, MAY GOD BLESS YOU..
Edited by iam4u on Fri 11/27/09 08:27 PM
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SURE,,,come here ONLY when you get bored,,,,
How does THAT make us feel,,,,huh?????how
lol
)...and it's not with a particular person...just some guy I'm with but I know we're in love. It's really all very strange.