two sides to every issue. what women don't remember, is we have the same thoughts as you do. how do we know your telling the truth? sometimes it helps to meet someone more than once, just to weed out the shyness or trying to figure out who's telling what lie. pictures can say a thousand words, but sometimes that's not enough. we when chat with someone without talking or seeing them in person, we tend to get a picture of who and what the are by reading what they say. then when you meet them in life, it might be completely different than what you thought. it's like when they make a movie out of book you read, you may r may not like the characters based or what you thought they were while reading the book.