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friendship
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why boys no want friendship [/quot BECAUSE THEY DO NOT WANT TO BE STUCK IN THE ''FRIENDS ZONE''....BECAUSE YOU HAVE WHAT THEY WANT.....MEN AND WOMEN AT NOT THE SAME....WOMEN WANT SEX TO FEEL CONNECTED, MEN WANT SEX FOR PLEASURE......THERE A LOT MORE WAYS MEN AND WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME........READ, ''MEN ARE FROM MARS WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS BY JOHN GRAY.....GOOD LUCK.... |
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Topic:
in sex experienced partner
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ITS BEST YOU BE ALONE.....NO WOMAN COULD NEVER GET
CLOSE TO YOU, YOUR MIND CLOSED...A RELATIONSHIP EBBS AND FLOWS , IT CAN NOT GROW WITH DAM'S BLOCKING ITS GROWTH...... |
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Topic:
feelings are different age
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I believe different feelings and different age connection ..in my experience women more active YES AS A RULE WOMEN MATURE EARLIER THEN US ON SOME LEVELS.....THEY START TO MATURE SEXUALLY AROUND 37.....HORMONES PLAY A LARGE PART..AT AROUND 37 THERE TESTOSTERONE LEVELS START TO INCREASE... |
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Topic:
in sex experienced partner
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Experience in other areas of life is a benefit.....in a relationship, its not. I could never be with anyone with previous experience, as to me it's a lack of self-respect to have sex outside of marriage. AT YOUR AGE YOU COME UP WITH THIS....YOUR A LOT OLDER THAN YOUR EMOTIONAL AGE...I EXPECT THIS FROM A NAIVE 18 YEAR OLD ..... |
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Any Cannabis Lovers?
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The plant has helped me in every aspect of my life and I Blaze quite often. How about you? I KNOW I AM TALKING TO A ROCK....BUT HEAR GOES,,,TOBACCO DESTROYED THE LIVES OF A LOT MY FRIENDS AS WE HAVE AGED....WEED IS MUCH WORST BECAUSE HOW MUCH DISTORTS ONE'S THINKING PROCESSES...... I DISCOVERED THE CRAP MY DAD TOOK WAS TURNING DOWN THE NOISE IN HEAD TO MAKE HIS LIFE MORE BEARABLE FOR HIM......YOU ARE SO WRONG IN SO MANY WAY'S.... |
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why is so hard to be faithful to one person? SIMPLE....ITS YOUR VALUE SYSTEM THAT ALLOWS IT.....ITS NEVER O.K. TO CHEAT......... |
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That’s what most guys want nowadays ..with no sort of commitment and this is really poor for relationships to survive MEN ARE NOT BROKEN, MEN HAVE ALWAYS GONE AS FAR AS THE WOMEN LET HIM GO......THEY GIVE IT AWAY TO EVERY GUY BECAUSE OF FEAR THEY WILL LOOSE HIM. LADIES YOU WANT ''THE ONE'' YOU SET LIMITS YOU WANT AND ''THE ONE'' WILL UNDERSTAND, OTHERS NEED TO GO...... |
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Edited by
cleve
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Sun 01/16/22 08:45 AM
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A guy & a girl who had met once before over a decade prior as just friyears later & become a very intense ,very physical relationship;; she brings him home to meet her family, let's him stay over repeatedly...now mind you they are absolutely inseparable...then after not even a couple months she calls him & gives him a load of copout horseshit that all a sudden they're no good for each other & he gets the 86. Now he Knows this is horseshit & after agreeing to meet up in the near future she blocks him & finally calls & tears him a new one! Why she pull a jeckyl&Hyde & why is she denying her true emotions to seclude herself in various alleged personal issues... Anyone? IT MAY BE A GAME CALLED RAPO PLAYED BY THE WOMEN. ERIC BERNE DESCRIBED IT IN DETAIL. ITS MORE COMMON THAN FIRST BELIEVED....ITS A WAY TO GET BACK AT MEN......I BELIEVE ITS IN HIS BOOK -GAMES PEOPLE PLAY: THE PSYCHOLOGY OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS...THE PROBLEM IS THEY TRY TO HURT SOMEONE WHO DID NOT CAUSE HER TO BE WOUNDED....ON THE OTHER SIDE THEY GET TO RECYCLE FAVORITE FEELINGS, AND VALIDATE THE NEGATIVE BELIEFS THEY HAVE FOR MEN..... GAMES ARE A WASTE OF TIME BECAUSE EVERYONE IN THE TRIANGLE END UP AS A VICTIM..... You may have a point here. I would have just said "because she's a woman" but that's perhaps a bit dismissive. I long ago gave up trying to understand some of the incredibly strange, emotionally and irrationally charged things some women do out there. Whether its out of anger, guilt, "suppression", or revenge, its definitely out there. I see it online fairly often. A woman who might be a 2 or 3 in the real world and barely gets any male attention in the real world, suddenly becomes a "9" upon logging online into a dating site. It doesn't matter that 99.9% are just messaging her for sex, it goes to their heads. Suddenly, it's "payback" time to all the men who "hurt" her. She gets cocky, mean, rude, entitled, etc and acts out in her own strange ways. Probably makes her feel good after all those years of inattention out in the real world. If your story here is accurately told (I have no reason to believe it isn't), then that definitely sucks and would make most people wonder. However, it is what it is. I'd venture to guess its her own weird reasons (perhaps she was in another relationship and now feels guilty so drops you like a hot potato?) and have little to do with you. MEN ALSO PLAY DESTRUCTIVE GAMES,,,, WOMEN DO NOT KNOW THE EMOTIONAL NEEDS OF MEN AND MEN DO NOT DO NOT KNOW THE EMOTIONAL NEEDS OF WOMEN....EVERY COUPLE NEEDS TO SIT DOWN AND HAVE A INTIMATE CONVERSATION ABOUT THERE EMOTIONAL NEEDS BECAUSE EVERYONE VARIES.......THE TRUTH IS MOST ARE THE OPPOSITE OF THE OTHER GENDER.....BY THE TIME A GIRL BECOMES A WOMEN THE BEAUTIFUL GIRL INSIDE HER IS WOUNDED IN MOST CASES.... IT TAKES A LOT OF PATIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING FOR THOSE WOUNDS TO HEAL.....WE NEED TO LISTEN MORE AND WORK HARD ON NOT TRYING TO SEE THE SENSE IT MAKES TO US...WE NEED TO HEAR THE SENSE IT MAKES TO HER AND '' LET IT STAND''. EVERYTHING WE DO OR SAY EFFECTS THEM..... GOOD LUCK..... |
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A guy & a girl who had met once before over a decade prior as just friends come together many years later & become a very intense ,very physical relationship;; she brings him home to meet her family, let's him stay over repeatedly...now mind you they are absolutely inseparable...then after not even a couple months she calls him & gives him a load of copout horseshit that all a sudden they're no good for each other & he gets the 86. Now he Knows this is horseshit & after agreeing to meet up in the near future she blocks him & finally calls & tears him a new one! Why she pull a jeckyl&Hyde & why is she denying her true emotions to seclude herself in various alleged personal issues... Anyone? IT MAY BE A GAME CALLED RAPO PLAYED BY THE WOMEN. ERIC BERNE DESCRIBED IT IN DETAIL. ITS MORE COMMON THAN FIRST BELIEVED....ITS A WAY TO GET BACK AT MEN......I BELIEVE ITS IN HIS BOOK -GAMES PEOPLE PLAY: THE PSYCHOLOGY OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS...THE PROBLEM IS THEY TRY TO HURT SOMEONE WHO DID NOT CAUSE HER TO BE WOUNDED....ON THE OTHER SIDE THEY GET TO RECYCLE FAVORITE FEELINGS, AND VALIDATE THE NEGATIVE BELIEFS THEY HAVE FOR MEN..... GAMES ARE A WASTE OF TIME BECAUSE EVERYONE IN THE TRIANGLE END UP AS A VICTIM..... |
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BORED ???? GET A LIFE !!!
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Topic:
Feeling bored
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Any new friends here I'm feeling bored BORED ? WOMEN ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO NEEDY MEN.... |
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I saw it in a couple of people profiles, but I am new so I am not sure what it means in the context of this site IT REALLY DEPENDS ON WHO YOU ASK.......I WILL SAY SOME PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN ACTIVITY PARTNERS FOR OTHERS END UP FEELING USED WHEN THEY DO NOT GET WHAT THEY ASSUME THEY ARE GOING TO GET.....IN OTHERS WORDS NEITHER HAVE CLEAN HANDS.... |
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Love is a beautiful thing YEP,,,WHEN IT'S SHARED IN A REALITY RELATIONSHIP.... |
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Topic:
RECREATIONAL COMPANIONSHIP
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MEN AND WOMEN HAVE DIFFERENT VIEWS AND BELIEFS,
THIS IS ONE OF THE CONVERSATIONS EVERY COUPLE NEEDS TO HAVE TO BUILD A STRONG RELATIONSHIP. ROMANTIC ATTRACTION CAN LAST A LIFE TIME.... |
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Topic:
INTIMATE CONVERSATION
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HOW IMPORTANT DO YOU BELIEVE INTIMATE CONVERSATION
IS TO A RELATIONSHIP ??? AND IS IT O.K. TO HAVE DIFFERENT VIEWS AND STILL HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP... |
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THEY ARE OUT THERE.....ONE THING I BELIEVE IN WITH ALL MY HEART AND 78 YEARS LIFE EXPERIENCE IS THAT YOU HAVE WHAT WE WANT , YOU HAVE THE POWER TO GET WHAT YOU WANT. YOU SET THE RULES FOR US TO GET IT......IN OTHER WORDS '' WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US BY WHAT WE WILL EXCEPT, NOT EXCEPT, AND WHAT WE REINFORCE.....SOME PEOPLE HAVE AN INJUNCTION THAT WILL PREVENT GETTING WHAT THEY NEED. ONE COMMON EXAMPLE, BELIEVING THAT YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO GET YOU NEEDS MEET.....WE ALWAYS HAVE A PART IN HOW WE ARE TREATED IN RELATIONSHIPS.......IN TODAY'S WORLD WOMEN WILL DO A LOT OF UNHEALTHY THING'S BECAUSE THEY FEAR LOSING THE GUY........GOOD LUCK....
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Topic:
RECREATIONAL COMPANIONSHIP
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I BELIEVE RECREATIONAL COMPANIONSHIP IS ONE OF
THING'S COUPLE'S MUST DO DO TO KEEP THE BOND WITH EACH OTHER......WHAT DO YOU THINK ??? |
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Topic:
Looking for Christian woman
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Hello, I am looking for a Christian woman who can be one with me along with God, as our center. HAVING A SACRED SPACE BETWEEN A MAN AND WOMAN YOU YOU WILL FIND WORKS BETTER THAN HAVING THE SAME RELIGION....I KNOW SOME HEATHEN'S THAT HAVE GREAT RELATIONSHIPS AND MARRIAGES...... |
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ONE MORE THING ....WOMEN NEED INTIMATE CONVERSATION
AND AFFECTION FROM THERE MATE, FOR EXAMPLE THEY FIND THAT THEY ARE GETTING IT AT WORK AND THERE MATE IS ''TO BUSY''SHE WILL GROW AWAY FROM HIM....READ HIS NEEDS,HER NEEDS, BY WILLARD F. HARLEY JR.....HIS VIDEO BY BAKER PUBLISHING GROUP I ENJOYED THE MOST......ISBN 978-0-8007-2099-5 |
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A PERSON'S VALUE SYSTEM IS REALLY IMPORTANT......
THERE ARE WOMEN WHO WILL NEVER CHEAT....... YOU NEED TO PAY ATTENTION TO THE WOMAN'S VALUE SYSTEM, IN THAT WAY YOU WILL MAKE BETTER CHOICES....THAT ALSO GOES FOR THE GUY'S..... WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US BY WHAT WE EXCEPT, WHAT WE WILL NOT EXCEPT, AND WHAT WE REINFORCE.....EVERY ONE HAS A PART IN THE SUCCESS OR FAILURE OF OUR RELATIONSHIPS.....WHEN WE PUT THE BLAME ''OUT THERE'' WE CAN NOT GROW AND SUCCEED IN LIFE AND GET OUR NEEDS MET....EVERY COUPLE NEEDS TO HAVE A INTIMATE CONVERSATION ON THERE NEEDS AND EXPECTATIONS... GOOD LUCK....... |
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