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The internal fight
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your have the tools,.. my friend,..
you need to re-examine your past relationships,.. "what did you learn about yourself ? " |
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I want to have someone. I want to settle down and start my life. that`s it,..right there,.. "start your life" maybe you already have,. 
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Honest advice wanted
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get off the bench & get up here
the ball won`t just fall in your lap,.. you have to play first
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I don`t mean BUSH per say,.but who ever is behind the scenes running the country,..
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I totally agree with you in that it is an unjust war,..what are we even fighting for over there ?? can anyone tell me ?
there`s no doubt,.in my mind,.. that Bush was behind 9/11 ,.he needed an excuse to invade their country,.for what ? weapons of destruction ???? ,.......no,.......oil,... and it is sickening to think that what we witnessed in WW2,.all the atrosities bought down on so many people,.. could happen here,.. where there is no God,..there is no crime,.. |
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when she walks away.....
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beautiful 
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cause we were conditoned to want what we can`t have,.. ,maybe love to you is the "wanting " of someone emotionally detached,. think back,.who`s attention did you need but never got,.. growing up ? This strikes me, since I've not always felt love from people in my family, from either side really, especially my mom and dad both. Perhaps in seeking relationships now, I seek that love I never really felt, which is why I feel like I'm missing something without it. sadly our parents or caregivers are not experts in loving,..( they did the best they could ) but that is why we must be the parent now,.and give ourselves what we didn`t get growing up,..why leave that to total strangers miles away,..we`re truly the only ones who know what is good for us,.. how to look after us,.. |
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I cant just stop doing it, thats the point. It feels good at first, great actually and the more challenging it is (like for example due to distance) the more determined i get! that`s obsession,..nothing to do with actual love,.. very few of us actually know what actual love is suppose to feel like,. we think if it`s a challenge or hard,.. it must be the real,..not always,.. it`s almost like an addiction,.and addictions are not good for us,.. |
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in other words,.we`re just following familar patterns we learned growing up,..what`s familar,..
the only way to break the pattern,.. is to take a chance on someone maybe you`re not falling for,..and let it evolve,..( if it will ) check out the movie " Kevin" |
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cause we were conditoned to want what we can`t have,..
,maybe love to you is the "wanting " of someone emotionally detached,. think back,.who`s attention did you need but never got,.. growing up ? |
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pop a pill no,..  you don`t want to bury it for it to come back another day,.. the only way to release 'it',.is to feel 'it' and go through 'it',.. and find out 'it' really isn`t as bad as what we believe 'it' to be,.. cause on the flip side is our happiness
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Topic:
Mingle Poetic Justice...
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 totally freakin awesome
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it`s a very calm place to be,..but hang on,.cause on the other side is a new appreciation for everything you already do have,..
maybe some of us are meant to find a mate,.maybe not,.but I don`t think it`s the most important part of our lives,.. at times like this,..we just need to sit still,...very,.very still,..and just watch what is goin on,.. on the inside,..for a discovery is waiting within ,.. enjoy the journey |
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just pieces...
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awesome pieces
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Quitting smoking.
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Thrusday I am going to attempt to quit smoking for about the third time. I picked this day because I can stay away from most people for about four days. That should be long enough for the physical cravings to go away I think. Anyone have any advice? cannot give advice before knowing why you started smoking. excellent point I`ll have to think about that,.. |
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Quitting smoking.
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I have been smoking for about 30 years. When I've tried to quit in the past I'd make it about about two days before people were pushing cigs at me. It seems I can get pretty intense. Not angry exactly, but short tempered for sure. think of it as goin on a journey you`ve never been before,..inward,..addictions block uncomfortable thoughts,..just feel them,..don`t react,.. and let them pass,..you`re NOT your emotions,...(ego) don`t let them contol you,.take charge ! you have to be a tough parent,.. there is a whole nother layer to you that smoking has been choking out,..take the journey,..
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If Only, As If
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 so relate,.. doesn`t matter how many times you repeat,. cause when you have a  that`s all you do,.. is go over & over & over it again  so very appropiate
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BROKEN TOY
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sometimes we have to break,..the only way we become who we`re truly meant to be,..
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Topic:
Sportsmanship?
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you`re in school ?
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Quitting smoking.
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I also must of quit a 1/2 dozen times,..over the past 6 yrs,.
at the moment I`m at 2 months,.. I found if I could get just 1 day under my belt,.that made a huge difference,. and I chew gum,..lots & lots of gum (nicorettes),.. and NO BEER. ( that`s what always gets me started ) |
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