welcome here and this is a great place to find that!! join the forums..

hi lucky dog.. welcome here. my advice to you.. is talk in the forums and make friends.. of all kinds!! i have met some for dating nah they did not work.. some dont meet but ill tell you this! i am so thankful for this site! for i have had many different situations arise in the 4 1 /2 yrs i have been on here.. and made threads.. sure helped me let me tell you!! i wish you luck.. even though i havent met the right person on here i sure have grown in the dating area.. i have learned to be a lil more assertive.. i have learned to try new things, i have learned a deeper me for people have made me think on here! i have been depressed, and turned it into a positive thing.. take everything as a learning lesson, have a open mind.. dont assume one is attacking you because they disagree..some of the best people i have met on here disagree with my thoughts.. and a lot of times they were right! a lot of life lessons can be learned on mingle.. for i have grown so much from this site.. i actually have self worth now and a lot due to being on here! i wish you the experience i have had... once again welcome here

laughter.. i gotta have that! and i like to be around fun people that dont take things too seriously all the time... that makes me happy

although......... hummm.i feel a new fantasy on the arise!

omg lol!!! it said it was 54 here today i think they lied felt like 44.. wont be hiking for a while in oregon....

communication is key! to everything... learn to ask... whatever you want to know! with whom you want to ask! if it is too much.. and thy do not answer... dont bother your time to ask anymore!

roflmao!! i like to give him crap u know me!omg gawd!! i gotta go get some peanut butter! lol! again i was joking id go in the woods anytime with him! i do know him... and have been in the woods before with him actually.. he is the most respectful guy i have ever dated probably in my life.. <no he never smeared peanut butter butter on me roflmao!> cant wait till next weekend if he ever gets here and off the phone< from me> im scared crapless though! sorry but this time i dont think im a letting go ever! and no one is gonna manipulate me.. or him... but wow shocked i know him so much better now there is no one more like me... pfft and i thought he was too good back then.. to many jealous people.. that will not get in the way this time with either of us.. this i do know.. funny how we can both still be so shy.. but somehow it has gone a bit.. does come back once in a while now.... im just one happy camper is all i gotta say.. ugg maybe not? as i see how much i wrote lol! im pretty happy.. though i do know he is as well its really strange though! and i seen him on just a regular site that im on.. though i have always looked for him... i had a mutual friend added from high school , and i had looked for him he wasnt there at the time.. then poof i looked at the mutual friends and omg there he was! he had been on for only a week.. we have been on the phone for the last 2 weeks every night! hours a night < yea 6 hours> lol!!! thats my story and im sticking to it!

seriously.. yes i do certainly judge! if i see a attractive person.. sometimes not always will i think oh hes cute or she is pretty or if there is a unusual look to someone.. yes the thought crosses my mind wow strange looking. or they look like they are on drugs.. these are things i will either think or say to my friends sometimes not always.. though.. i do never judge a person within.. with out knowing them.. and sometimes i do see actions of others i do not know.. though till i know them within unless they do something to someone i do know or me,, do i judge them.. rather it be a good thing or a bad thing. i dont deeply judge one.. till then and no im not gay... but i do compliment women.. im surprised actually i have such different views on beauty on the outside than men do about women..

he he he told me he would have a gun.. im like why do i want a bear walking in front of me? i was only joking anyway.. think i would be scared of the bear. i think he only wants me to know he would be there to protect me... actually im sure of that.. i know him.. just been yrs since ive seen him... 31 yrs lol!

gotta love a internet virgin!! grab them while u can lmao! been waiting for a pic and he cant upload them! roflmao! im thinking he told me i know too much about the internet.. he is taking me to the woods to see a bear.. omg!! getting me off the internet, and he has a cam that you put food by to take pics of the animals you put dogfood in.. will i be the new feed for the bears? lol!

does this mean... i should be poking you back? im bad at poking back tina. u know i love ya though!!

why ask? with a screen name of way2confident? no offense but with a screen name like that i would not assume that it matters? or that you have assumed the answer already perhaps. good luck on here

your still young darling!! maybe you will luck out and stay a virgin of bad meetings!!

geesh u both are hot! 2 so beautiful people!!!!!!!! yippie yi yah!! love u both too!!

i said this before and ill say once again after 25 months.. i found on here the grandest room mate ever!!! and it was when we met.. a place to meet new friends! and yes i did!! i have to say bye bye to him... for he found a love of his life... still i am so thankful for mingle for bringing us together for a friendship that will never end.. i wish polson the best in his life!! one of the best people you could ever meet!!!!!!!!!i am happy to have such a kind loving person in my life! oh ps call the attorneys for the custody of my loving scout! <thats his wild cat... not so wild anymore!> ha ha! pat is actually engaged! i wish him the best of luck!! him and beth! and both of them to be a part in my life in the future real good people! thanks again mingle for an awesome room mate for over 2 yrs! love ya!!

that i am the one luckiest girl ever!!!!! that all the hell i have been through the last 31 yrs since you held my hand was worth every second omg! and i cant wait to do it again!and glad you feel the same!

nothing wrong with that... just one should not end up expecting the other to cook the breakfast and buy the drinks all the time!

i do think communication is key though.. in the beginning and when u are spending time together . after all friends do communicate! and they dont do things to hurt the others feelings... when one cant stick to the agreement whatever it was discussed... then its time to end it

i agree with that!

myself... if i relied on this place for dates. my self esteem would be horrible!

for one as you can see how long i have been here.. this actually was a place to "meet new friends" they did have the same choices though back then.
again i am different... but actually i have had many emails with married men on here.. some of the most respectful guys overall if you ask me.. heck i have even talked to their wives as well.. on their emails as they read them together..
i do not seek out to just talk to married men.. nor just to talk to men alone.. i love meeting nice gals on here.. and i have no other intent than to be just friends with them. if i put on here just here for friends.. and put interested in women that would definitely not mean i am gay. or seeking a woman for anymore for what is simply put.. people use this site for what they want to.. not everyone has the same intents or ideas that others do.. everyone is individual..

lol! are you saying you are an addict? i dont think it is healthy to be on that long.. i actually know it isnt! yes speaking from experience!
sometimes i am on that long too.. when i am in a relationship i am not. for me it does cure loneliness. however i let it get out of hand and in the end it causes loneliness as well..
im a addict..i should probably go seek some help for it honestly.
once my computer crashed, and it took a month oh wow i did have withdrawals too! but i actually had a life and felt good at the same time.. strangely to say..