singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: Eventually all will realize that it isn't their concern to mandate who loves who as long as age and mental consent is considered. If they want to marry or have a civil union they should be able to do either or both if they want. most already realize they cant 'mandate' who anyone 'loves' nor do most want to the issue is who one beds and IM sure 'everyone' wont condone homosexual behavior anymore thaneveryone will condone incest but most will buy into the 'all that matters is consent' nonsense,,, I am pro same same-sex marriage between two consenting adults because I buy into the following definitions of equality, liberty, due process, and civil rights... Definition of LIBERTY 1: the quality or state of being free: a : the power to do as one pleases b : freedom from physical restraint c : freedom from arbitrary or despotic control d : the positive enjoyment of various social, political, or economic rights and privileges e : the power of choice Definition of EQUALITY 1: the quality or state of being equal Definition of DUE PROCESS n. An established course for judicial proceedings or other governmental activities designed to safeguard the legal rights of the individual. Definition of CIVIL RIGHTS The nonpolitical rights of a citizen; especially the rights of personal liberty guaranteed to United States citizens by the 13th and 14th amendments to the Constitution and by acts of Congress 
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: Eventually all will realize that it isn't their concern to mandate who loves who as long as age and mental consent is considered. If they want to marry or have a civil union they should be able to do either or both if they want. most already realize they cant 'mandate' who anyone 'loves' nor do most want to the issue is who one beds and IM sure 'everyone' wont condone homosexual behavior anymore thaneveryone will condone incest but most will buy into the 'all that matters is consent' nonsense,,, You keep comparing two very different things. Homosexuality and incest are not the same. 
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
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How many more times?
QUOTE: ME NO SPEAKY ENGLIS ... 
I've noticed. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
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How many more times?
QUOTE: singme, he was just ribbing you.
I'm sure that's what he was trying to do, but thanks for explaining for him. 
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
There are many people out there who are very judgmental about who others have sex with. My guess is those people are not having much sex themselves if they have to attack others for having sex with someone they disapprove of.
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
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QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: Exactly why KiK is here looking for love AND not already dating a hottie.
{snicker} QUOTE: Do you have a problem with women who mean what they say and don't play silly games?
Not at all Sing...just ones with no sense of humor... 
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Where did you say something funny? just like to politely interject here that I think that is a good question.... I guess he didn't like me giving my opinion. Not quite sure. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
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How many more times?
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Smile it aint ALL about you ! Sheesh hehehe... 
Where did I say it was all about me? I just gave my opinion about the OP. You commented, so I was trying to figure out what you meant. Apparently you don't like to be questioned. Noted. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
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How many more times?
QUOTE: QUOTE: Exactly why KiK is here looking for love AND not already dating a hottie.
{snicker} QUOTE: Do you have a problem with women who mean what they say and don't play silly games?
Not at all Sing...just ones with no sense of humor...
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Where did you say something funny? |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
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How many more times?
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: Ahha! Betcha thought this was a Led Zeppelin thread about their first album! Nope! I was curious as to how often do you try to land a woman after she expresses no interest? Do you say okay right away, or hang around a wee bit to see if she wants to be chased? Also, after rejection, do you put your hook back in the water right away and try to get back out there? It gets really annoying when a guy does not take "not interested" as actually meaning not interested. I don't play hard to get. If I say I am not interested, I mean it.
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
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How many more times?
QUOTE: Ahha! Betcha thought this was a Led Zeppelin thread about their first album! Nope! I was curious as to how often do you try to land a woman after she expresses no interest? Do you say okay right away, or hang around a wee bit to see if she wants to be chased? Also, after rejection, do you put your hook back in the water right away and try to get back out there? It gets really annoying when a guy does not take "not interested" as actually meaning not interested. I don't play hard to get. If I say I am not interested, I mean it. |
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singmesweet
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QUOTE: I'll have some of what he's smoking!
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singmesweet
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QUOTE: I'd call it heterophobia.
A strong distaste for normalcy. Hears a great quote the heterophobes could use. Eat chit. 100% of the homosexers can't all be wrong Sorry, man, but just because people disagree with your intolerance of homosexuals, it does not mean they're afraid of, dislike, or have an aversion to straight people. Many of us are straight and are disgusted by your attitude toward gay people. That's not me disliking straight people, though, that's me being disgusted with your attitude. |
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singmesweet
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QUOTE: Straight people aren't pushing their sexuality on others either.
Of course they are. Straight people flaunt their sexuality all the time. And those who are anti-gay keep pushing their sexuality on gay people, trying to make them live as they do.
Edited by singmesweet on Thu 05/16/13 11:43 AM
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: omg how is the united states so far behind?? us brits have had same sex legalised marriages for years now.nothing wrong with them.why the big hoohaa?i don't get it.good grief.gay people are allowed love and marriage just like anyone is.its no sin!!! As you can see from this thread, some in the us are still very homophobic, so they don't even want gay people to have sex, much less marry. I am personally not scared of anything, thus no phobia but just as I dont 'want' brothers and sisters lying down together, I dont 'want' men lying with men and women lying with women HOWEVER that is irrelevant due to people having control over their own bodies and decisions, including who they bed,, I HAVE NO SAY IN THAT AND IT IS HAPPENING AND WILL HAPPEN what I dont want is government to step in and , in effect, sanction the behaviors anymore than I would want them to make it a crime I accept fully that people can sleep with whomever they choose I dont accept a culture where children will be raised to see heterosexuality as just an 'option', and homosexuality and incest as equally healthy and natural options,,,, adults do what they want, but dont implement it into the culture as a 'protected' and therefore promoted behavior,,, As we all know, homophobia can also mean having a strong dislike or aversion to homosexuality. You have that. What is the opposite of homophobia? You have that too. A fear of, strong dislike of or aversion to straight people? No, not at all. I am straight and have no issue with other straight people. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: omg how is the united states so far behind?? us brits have had same sex legalised marriages for years now.nothing wrong with them.why the big hoohaa?i don't get it.good grief.gay people are allowed love and marriage just like anyone is.its no sin!!! As you can see from this thread, some in the us are still very homophobic, so they don't even want gay people to have sex, much less marry. I am personally not scared of anything, thus no phobia but just as I dont 'want' brothers and sisters lying down together, I dont 'want' men lying with men and women lying with women HOWEVER that is irrelevant due to people having control over their own bodies and decisions, including who they bed,, I HAVE NO SAY IN THAT AND IT IS HAPPENING AND WILL HAPPEN what I dont want is government to step in and , in effect, sanction the behaviors anymore than I would want them to make it a crime I accept fully that people can sleep with whomever they choose I dont accept a culture where children will be raised to see heterosexuality as just an 'option', and homosexuality and incest as equally healthy and natural options,,,, adults do what they want, but dont implement it into the culture as a 'protected' and therefore promoted behavior,,, As we all know, homophobia can also mean having a strong dislike or aversion to homosexuality. You have that. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
QUOTE: omg how is the united states so far behind?? us brits have had same sex legalised marriages for years now.nothing wrong with them.why the big hoohaa?i don't get it.good grief.gay people are allowed love and marriage just like anyone is.its no sin!!! As you can see from this thread, some in the us are still very homophobic, so they don't even want gay people to have sex, much less marry. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
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What about the men?
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: I was comparing your preference to have somebody " respectively disagree" opposed to "changing your ways" to you giving me a hard time about spelling. So no there wasn't a "specific incident" there wasn't an incident just a lack of a better word. The guote goes a follows; "Its better to be disliked as yourself than liked as somebody your not" Thats how I am & it sounded like your very true to yourself aswell The spelling thing is a Hot Button with me & its bellow the belt! Iam not saying, don't ask or dont correct somthing, i'm saying dont try figure out why or theses no excuse.
If I've asked you about a word, it's because I'm not even sure what the word is supposed to be. You choose to write your posts the way you do and that's fine. But, if you're going to get upset because someone asks you what a word means, or what word you actually tried to use, that's your own fault for not using spell check. If you choose not to use spell check, then don't get upset when people don't understand some of the words you use. If you're trying to say you dislike me, that's fine. I'm not here to please everyone. I'm laughting and I dont no why,, surprised realy! I haven't said anything of the sort, just clearly stated that i have no problem with being corrected & I've always been good explaining things that I felt i've made Clear I dont dislike you at all an if i've felt frustrated towards you well thats just moment to moment, I'm just not that guy. I dont have spell check??? I got a phone that dosent point out mistakes ...DUMB SMARTPHONE! 
Oh ok. That's not what I had gotten from your previous post. Thanks for clarifying. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
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What about the men?
QUOTE: I was comparing your preference to have somebody " respectively disagree" opposed to "changing your ways" to you giving me a hard time about spelling. So no there wasn't a "specific incident" there wasn't an incident just a lack of a better word. The guote goes a follows; "Its better to be disliked as yourself than liked as somebody your not" Thats how I am & it sounded like your very true to yourself aswell The spelling thing is a Hot Button with me & its bellow the belt! Iam not saying, don't ask or dont correct somthing, i'm saying dont try figure out why or theses no excuse.
If I've asked you about a word, it's because I'm not even sure what the word is supposed to be. You choose to write your posts the way you do and that's fine. But, if you're going to get upset because someone asks you what a word means, or what word you actually tried to use, that's your own fault for not using spell check. If you choose not to use spell check, then don't get upset when people don't understand some of the words you use. If you're trying to say you dislike me, that's fine. I'm not here to please everyone. |
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
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What about the men?
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: we don't think along the same lines. you don't get me and i don't get you, have a nice day lady
True, we never see eye to eye. I've tried in the past to ask you about things I didn't get and you never responded positively. Oh well. And people say opposites attract.
I've never been one of those who thinks opposites attract. Plus, I prefer guys who are respectful of our differences, rather than those who try to get me to change because they don't like how I think. "What am I rambling about".......lol... not a lot! So fair enough, so what's good for the goose in good for the gander! Right!....well said Singme
You're not making any sense. What does what you're saying have to do with me? Sorry, I didn't see your post, Well sure it applys to you, you said it, the metaphor just means if its good for you its good for me meaning everybody so we can't have expectations of others that we can't fulfill ourselves. Basically your want to be exepted for your own style opposed to changing your ways to suite others So by saying that, your are acutely sayings that you sooner be diliked as yourself that liked as somebody your not, well me to, the Frank Sinatra way! So if anybody thinks its just a one way street is just a hippocrate! Ps...I think you tend to take somethings literally. Like did you think I was talking about Geese..lol.. No, I think you were wondering if I was refering to a specific "incident" You say an awful lot, but you still don't make sense. What incident are yiu talking about? I didn't realize there had been one. And what does diliked mean?
Edited by singmesweet on Wed 05/15/13 09:13 AM
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singmesweet
Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 25451 |
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What about the men?
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: we don't think along the same lines. you don't get me and i don't get you, have a nice day lady
True, we never see eye to eye. I've tried in the past to ask you about things I didn't get and you never responded positively. Oh well. And people say opposites attract.
I've never been one of those who thinks opposites attract. Plus, I prefer guys who are respectful of our differences, rather than those who try to get me to change because they don't like how I think. "What am I rambling about".......lol... not a lot! So fair enough, so what's good for the goose in good for the gander! Right!....well said Singme
You're not making any sense. What does what you're saying have to do with me? |