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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
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What is RELIGION?
QUOTE: QUOTE: the biggest joke in human history... one can be a spiritual person without religion. Not true at all. I have no religion and am spiritual. I believe in the spirit of life in general. Kind of like a life energy that effects everything around it. There is no omnipotent being or anything like that. There is the spirit or energy of life. Like all energy it effects the things around it in good or bad ways depending on which source inside itself that it utilizes. When you die this energy dispells and joins the energy of the universe. So being spiritual without being religious is completely possible. Religions are man made. Spirituality is how you look out at the world from inside of you. Thats wat she said, i think u misread! |
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
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help need advice!
QUOTE: The man I love(who dumped me)started talking to me again and we've seen each other a few times.The problem is,I've been with someone for 3 months who loves me,but I can never love him because my heart is with the other guy. What should I do?
Go single. If u dont have any long term intentions with the guy ur with, let him go free, and ur ex can take time to prove hes changed, he can start dating ya slowly when u decide thats wat u want. |
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
QUOTE: Shy women, with less confidence tend to fall for insecure manipulators. Seems like your gf there fell for whatever bullshyt he gave her or she's using him as an excuse to get rid of her myspace account. IMHO |
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
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Think I'm venting...
Well firstly, im sorry u have been let down, secondly, welcome to online dating! u can never believe anything till u know a person properly, as in spent some real time with. This is why u should NEVER let ur feelings grow online, keep things in perspective, u cant possibly feel that strongly for someone u have never met, therefor, u havent lost much, just mostly ur time.
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
Love never dies....
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
QUOTE: Does the experience of lifes ups and downs matter. When a woman loves a man ? Life defo matters, whether u have a loving relationship or not, it just helps when u have someone to share the hard times with, someone to comfort ya when these ups n downs occur. |
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
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Psychoanalyze Yourself
1. You are walking in the woods. You are not alone. Who is with you?
Dan 2. You are walking in the woods. You see an animal. What kind of animal? Deer (well it is wat u would expect in the woods!) 3. What interaction takes place between you and the animal? we just glance at eachother 4. You walk deeper in the woods. You enter a clearing, and before you is your dream house. How big is it? 3 teir cottage 5. Is your dream house surrounded by a fence? Yes 6. You enter the house. You walk into the dining room and see the dining table, what is on the table? Candles 7. You exit the house and a cup is on the ground, what kind is it? Coffee mug 8. What do you do with the cup? Put it in the sink (isnt that where u put dirty dishes?) 9. You walk to the edge of the property where you find yourself standing at a body of water, what type of body of water? Stream 10. How will you cross the water? Jump 1. The person who you are walking in the woods with is the most important to you now. Dan 2. The size of the animal is representative of your perception of the size of your problems in your life. Deer, overcomable! 3. The severity of the interaction you have with the animal is representative of how you deal with your problems. We glance at eachother! lol! 4. The size of your dream home is representative of the size of your ambition to solve your problems. My ambition is right on then! 5. A lack of a fence is indicative of an open personality. People are welcome at all times. The presence of a fence indicates a closed personality. You'd prefer people not drop by unannounced. Wouldnt say i have a closed personality! just like warning! 6. If your answer did NOT include food, flowers, or people, then you are generally unhappy. I am actually very happy! 7. The durability of the material with the cup is made of is representative of the perceived durability of your relationship. Coffee mug, pretty solid 8. What you did with the cup is representative of your attitude. i put it in sink! how does that relate to my personality?! 9. The size of the body of water is representative of the size of your sexual desire. A stream, is this meant to mean i have a low sex drive?! Dan will be disappointed lol! 10. The way you cross the water is representative to how easy or hard you expect your life to be. Jump....its all just steppin stones man... |
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
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i think i am pregnant...
U said u hadnt had sex for 3 months? but u said u had it on July 30th....im confused?
That was only less than a week ago. Wait until u actually miss a period, then have a test.
Edited by Pink_lady on Thu 08/06/09 02:09 AM
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: One of the biggest factors in relationships failing, is a breakdown in communications. Would i expect a partner to tell me everything? if it was something that bothered him in our relationship, yes. Quite right. If it involves the relationship, then yes. But if it's just something that I have to deal with at that particular point, and it isn't something she can fix or doesn't directly concern her, then why bother her with it? Because a problem shared is a problem halved. |
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
One of the biggest factors in relationships failing, is a breakdown in communications.
Would i expect a partner to tell me everything? if it was something that bothered him in our relationship, yes. |
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
QUOTE: when a woman truly loves a man, nothing in the world matters...so long as he truly loves her Except for the kids! |
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
Eventually, yes.
It may take me a while, but when im bothered, the only way it gets better is if i communicate it. |
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
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What is RELIGION?
Thankfully, im spiritual rather than religious
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
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Twitter on Mingle Part II
Just awoke to the sound of the pathways being pulled up. Aint it a bummer when u r on holiday from work, and u still cant sleep in cos theres a massive digger outside ur front window!
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
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What is RELIGION?
Religion is man made theories of belief systems, which ppl adopt in order to have a moral structure to their life.
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
QUOTE: Does the experience of lifes ups and downs matter. When a woman loves a man ? Only when those those experiences leave her with emotional baggage. |
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
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is it weird...
This is not just a dating site....its a SOCIAL NETWORK...
Ppl come on here for various reasons, mines is to chat with Dan and keep up with friends, nothing more. And no, its not weird being on a social network! |
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
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Pregnant again !!!!!
As long as the parents r unwilling to accept help, i believe the children SHOULD be taken from them.
Change happens after acceptance of who we are, she cant change till she acknowledges she has a problem. Hence the risk remains. Just wanted to add another piece of info that shocked me....she claims she was accused of abandoning her latest child... QUOTE: She said: "I gave birth at 7.25pm and at 10pm I was told he was being taken into intensive care and I couldn't see him.
"I went home as I wanted the support of my friends and family. We went to the hospital with Toney's mum the next day to see the baby - and he'd gone. Wat kind of a mother up sticks and leaves hospital only after a few hrs of giving birth?!! and then not going in again till next day?! if i had a baby in intensive care, i would be at their side till they were outta danger, and im sure my family would be there, by my side, at the hospital.
Edited by Pink_lady on Sun 08/02/09 06:59 AM
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
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Pregnant again !!!!!
QUOTE: The first four children were taken away from the parents after their second birthdays.
These parents were given a couple of yrs with each of the first 4 children, they had plenty opportunities to brush up on their parenting skills. After the first child was taken, they wouldve been offered help in their parenting skills, why did it happen another 12 times after that? Im sorry, but i DO blame the parents for not accepting help. if they genuinely wanted to have a family, they wouldve done wat they needed to to get there. If this woman is so mentally unsound, she should be sectioned. This is a thread i am merely opinionating on, i enjoy a good debate. |
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Pink_lady Joined Sun 08/24/08 Posts: 2507 |
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just freinds?
QUOTE: please help me understand guys. i like this guy i am seeing he is sweet and cute we dated a couple of times before our second date he said he was looking for a one on one relationship after the second date he says we are just freinds he said before he wanted to be freinds but is that all he wants or is there hope for more should i be patient or continue to look i told him i would like to be his girlfreind he said in capital letters freinds but he had said before he wanted to take it slow am i hoping for somthing that will never be HELP!!!!!!! Let me try help u understand....if u have been on 2 dates, and the guy says he wants to take things slow...DONT tell him u want to be his gf. |
The man I love(who dumped me)started talking to me again and we've seen each other a few times.The problem is,I've been with someone for 3 months who loves me,but I can never love him because my heart is with the other guy.