I think every woman I was with was, at least in their own mind, another man's woman

The ex Mrs had one of these phone calls a few of years ago.
She handed the phone to me after trying to explain to the caller we weren't interested but he seemed insistent we had some serious problems with our Windows 7.
Very professional sounding chap he was, spoke English with a strong accent, there were dogs barking, kids screaming & people yelling in the background etc..
I kept asking him for some kind of proof he was who he claimed to be, he gave me the web address of some company in the UK that sold ski equipment I think it was.
I kept asking him how he knew there was a problem with our computer but he wouldn't answer that, he insisted he could show me what the problem was if I followed closely his instructions.

So I played along a bit more, he kept saying "do this, this, this and this" and I kept saying "but I can't find that or that or that" so he tried a few other things & I kept telling him I couldn't find what he wanted me to click, this went on for about 10 minutes then he appeared to lose it as he got quite upset.
Poor fella, started yelling at me in some gibberish I couldn't understand though I'd guess most of it was bad language, all this while the dogs, kids & others were still being noisy in the background, real professional, not quite what you'd expect from a Microsoft tech department.

After ranting and raving a bit more he ended up hanging up on me
What I didn't tell him was the reason I couldn't find any of the things he wanted me to click on was because I was using a Linux Ubuntu operating system, not Windows.
Haven't had any more of those types of phone calls since then

Things have changed around here.

When I first came on here I caught hell from women asking me why I'm only separated and on a dating site.

Now it looks like anything goes.

Ask to see her bank accounts

Hire a private investigator to report her comings and goings

Ask her to support you financially
Insist on sex multiple times a day .. That way she will be too tired to use you

..........Or you could just trust your instincts .. Lmao ... Men know when they are being used as do women

too funny :-)

I've learned that it's possible to break up with someone that you weren't dating.

one of the things i have learned here, is that no matter what beachfarmer is talking about, half of us ask, what the hell is he talking about!!!?

i've also learned that every 2.3 days someone will ask if distance is a factor in relationships.

another thing i have learned is that people always say they want the truth, but when you give it to them in plain and simply fashion, they usually don't like it.

what have you learned here?