LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
QUOTE: The holidays can be great, but can also be a sad time, especially with the loss of a loved one or family that can't be here....or you're just plain all alone! how many of you like myself, have such mixed emotions about the holidays? Just another day to me. I'm no more alone on a holiday than I am any other day. |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
Topic:
Why are all women so stupid?
QUOTE: Because i said so. Hey, women are NOT stupid! They're just evil. |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
"IAM SEACHING FOR A MAN WHO HAS A GOOD SENCE OF HUMOR,WHO WOULD LIKE A CERIUS RELACION , A WHANT A PERSON THATS HAS A ESPIRIT OF AVENTURE MY TASTE IS MAN THAT HAS BLUE,GRAY AND GREEN EYES."
Most of us only have two eyes. |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
"I AM A LITTLE BIG OLD FASHION."
Well, which is it? |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
"I hope to find an enjoy person for to walk in the beach and to do very funny things."
Walking IN the beach might be kind of funny....! Now you've done it, you've ruined a perfectly good cliche.... |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
"I have never been to fond of describing myself, I always like to have other people tell me how I am, they sometimes tend to give a more thruthfull idea of what we're like."
Well, I hope at least one of them mentioned the spelling thing. |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
"I AM A GIRL THAT WANT TO BE A CHEMESTRY."
I think I'd like to be an anthropology. That's not easy, though. |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
"Ask me about***********************************
************************************************" OK, so what's the deal with all the *s? |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
QUOTE: lex: hm, interesting response. even though, i'm younger. you sound like who i was. sometimes you gotta try and listen to what people DON'T say. say "hi, how are you?" depends on the person, situation ...etc. has different meaning. it could be - uh, hey it's that guy...maybe i should say something - hey, haven't seen that guy for a long time, i wonder how he is - arg, it's that guy again...oopse he saw me, "hi, how are you?" - err, it's weird if we i don't say anything. - hm, i want to get to know this person. if i say "hi" he says "hello" conversation is finished, "how are you?" will keep the conversation going longer. words are just words, they're tools we use. a tool can be used by the right person/wrong person, the right way/ wrong way. words don't matter much to me, intention is what really counts and is the hardest to determine. I have the attention span of a hamster on crack, so I'm really no longer much interested in having to analyze situations to the extent you mentioned above. I studied psychology for seven years, and, while it was a tremendous learning experience, what I use of it now us more reflexive/automatic than planned/thought out. I agree with you about words -- they really are tools. But most people use words like a turtle uses a xylophone. QUOTE: OP: please excuse us, tend to make this post about us. Well, I think there's an understanding that we all are going to relate to questions/posts/etc. from within the context of our own lives/experiences. And there tends to be a certain level of "topic drift" (I actually made up that term a couple years ago!) running through a lot of threads. |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
QUOTE: i get what you mean, lex. im the same, if a person asked me an honest question he/she deserves an honest answer. but sometimes you got to explain your point/ ease people in. you're the type that walks in bang bang, get the job done and leave. That's true, I really don't see much point in tiptoeing around things, especially in a situation where the person (ostensibly) wants an honest answer. I mean, diplomacy, per se, has its place but I think profiles are basically pretty clear-cut -- for me, anyway -- I have an idea of what I want to see, what it takes for me to be able to make some sort of assessment (albeit limited) of a person -- and if they can't provide that much, then I'm just not going to be very interested regardless. QUOTE: but if you slow down a bit you'll notice that sometimes people asked something, they don't really want to know the answer. I think that's probably the case more often than not. People tend to operate on automatic pilot a lot, and "How are you?" is SUPPOSED to elicit "I'm fine, how are you?" regardless of the underlying realities. QUOTE: not direct at any1 in particular here; but some females asked me questions i pretend that i don't know the answer, because i know they already have the answer. to the OP, im thinking she already knows her "rating" and just want to make more friends. but she was able to take criticism. i had worse. girl with bad hair asked me what i think about her new hair. i said you look like a broom stick. you can guess what her response was, lol Well, that gets back to the "diplomacy" I was talking about earlier -- !! -- |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
Topic:
If you were asked.....
No, I would have to read somebody else's manual about how to find someone to flirt with....!
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
QUOTE: you: 8/10 impression: cheeky rolf, thought there was a war goin on between lex and sean. this is where the age difference kicks in. older people always try to guide the young ones while the young ones think the older ones are annoying. ^^ nice post, full of variety. each person in this post is so different to the rest. It's just that I think if you're going to ask people for an honest opinion, you shouldn't be surprised if not everyone is 100% complimentary towards the whole thing. Profiles are like people, nobody's perfect, and we all have some room for improvement. Not directed at the OP here, but I have run into a lot of people who become offended when offered constructive criticism. Seems to me that if you don't want to hear what people think, you shouldn't ask for those opinions! But that's just me....
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
Topic:
WHO
There isn't anybody who I'm even remotely interested in or attracted to....this is going to be difficult....!
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
Topic:
If you just
If I just had access to someone compatible who wasn't fully committed to the idea of turning me into a goat....
I know it's a little long, but sometimes you have to specify a little in order to get these things right....! |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
I have seen the entire gamut in my time here -- from people who get offended just because someone has a differing opinion, to those who couldn't get offended if their life depended on it, which it rarely does.
Just like any other situation where you're dealing with large numbers of people -- some extremes on either end, but most fall somewhere in the mid-range. |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: I can assure you I am who I say I am. I can assure you I'm a nice guy. I'm SO sick of that crap. I'm tired of hearing that stuff, only to find out they're nothing like they say they are and are far, far from a nice guy. Exactly. "Law of Opposites." A really nice guy won't have to drone on and on about what a nice guy he is. I sometimes wonder, when these people get into their elaborate self-assessments, just who it is they're trying to convince. |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
QUOTE:  Myspace is on a downward spiral, have you seen their new homepage? It's beyond awful.
Haven't been there in ages. Once I discovered there was no one worth stalking there, what was the point? |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
QUOTE: I retort. I'm a nice guy who goes down on chicks, tickles them with feathers, rubs butter on thier nipples, gives them oily massages, and pays close attention to thier ticklish nerve endings for hours until my back gives out. What's wrong with me? I get mine in the end and I strike a fair balance. It's fun to be good, and there's nothing like making a woman smile. Us romantic's are a dieng breed. You obviously have way too much energy to qualify as a card-carrying "nice guy"....
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: QUOTE: This is why I worship the Great Lex.
Me too. You guys are the best! Seriously....I wish there were more like you around here. Especially once we get all the shorts passed out. We should add cloning to the Commandments. 
Hey, I wanna see clones, I'll go visit MySpace.... |
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LexFonteyne
Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 23542 |
QUOTE: QUOTE: Nice guys. Nice guy threads. Nice guy towels, socks, and underwear. Purina Nice Guy Chow. It's all a waste of time, people. Nice guys are....well, too nice. Boring. Safe. Passive. Non-threatening. Goatlike, in many ways, although perhaps without the horns. That's another topic for another day. I want to make it clear that I am NOT a nice guy. People have ALWAYS told me "You're really really difficult to live with." It got worse after I turned 6. OK, so for all you women who CLAIM to want a nice guy, and for all you guys who SAY "Hey, I'm a nice guy," then tell me, O Wise Ones (I'm being sarcastic here; it works better verbally but what can you do?), WHY are all of you not getting together? It's because all of you are TOO NICE to tell the truth. Yeah, that's right. That's why I can sit here and say (or type) I'm NOT a nice guy. I don't HAVE to be. I have no NEED to try to be anything for anybody. I don't CARE what they think. I will just go ON capitalizing RANDOM words FOR no reason because IT'S fun to do THAT. Wait, I got a little off-track there. Creative people, like myself, who write books and do whatever the hell else is considered creative anymore, tend to be a little bit narcissistic. I think we need that, because it spurs us on to be more creative and someday get huge movie option deals and T-shirts and coffee mugs with our books' logos on them, and then maybe get to meet important people and celebrities like Billie Piper who is British but really incredibly gorgeous anyway. As I was saying.... So don't blame me if you think being a "nice guy" will get you anywhere. Maybe it will, but if you're the kind of guy who likes to lie down in front of a door and write "WELCOME" on your shirt, people are probably going to step on you. ====================================================== All people who are creative and write books are Not narcissistic. I am a published author, including a book. 
Then you should be familiar with the term "hyperbole." |