Hi RedCarpet,

Yes I have to agree with you, everyone seems to be just surviving now as opposed to living...

I completely understand when you say "nowadays everyone has to work just too much to bring out a grain of gold" too... Its seems like you work hard and then the government with it's (stealth) taxes and fees and charges relieves you of your hard earned dollars...

Here in the UK there was such a thing as tampon tax, a levy on tampons, which only got removed when Boris came to power and gained his priminister role, that's the 2000's...

We may have AI and robots and gone to Mars but back home on earth we have not progressed that far at all

Still though, there's lots to be greatful for, like health, deep down I feel health is the real wealth

None one is perfect. We are all flawed.
There is no perfect relationship. They are hard work and continually need attention.

So in the beginning of a relationship, if a red flag appears we need to speak up and address the issue. But if it keeps happening, that is a different situation.

I've dated a woman 4 times. I always take her to a nice restaurant and I pay for everything. On our last date, the waiter gave me the bill. It was $50.00. I gave him my credit card. I got up from the table to go to the restaurant. In the corner of my eye, I saw my date run to the waiter. I thought that was weird.

When I got back, the bill was paid but it was $70.00. I waved the waiter over to complain. But my date interrupted me and said she ordered a take-out meal for her landlord. I told her this wasn't right. She defiantly said, "Why Not!!?" I told her she shouldn't treat people this way, sneaking around.. She then interrupted me and said she would pay for it. I accepted her money.

My friend said this is a huge red flag and should end the relationship. But don't you think all relationships have red flags in the beginning?

None one is perfect. We are all flawed.
There is no perfect relationship. They are hard work and continually need attention.

So in the beginning of a relationship, if a red flag appears we need to speak up and address the issue. But if it keeps happening, that is a different situation.

I've dated a woman 4 times. I always take her to a nice restaurant and I pay for everything. On our last date, the waiter gave me the bill. It was $50.00. I gave him my credit card. I got up from the table to go to the restaurant. In the corner of my eye, I saw my date run to the waiter. I thought that was weird.

When I got back, the bill was paid but it was $70.00. I waved the waiter over to complain. But my date interrupted me and said she ordered a take-out meal for her landlord. I told her this wasn't right. She defiantly said, "Why Not!!?" I told her she shouldn't treat people this way, sneaking around.. She then interrupted me and said she would pay for it. I accepted her money.

My friend said this is a huge red flag and should end the relationship. But don't you think all relationships have red flags in the beginning?

WOTS Red is taking a poll on what quotes to use on his profile to attract the ladies.

1. “The red carpet is a beautiful situation for people. I think everyone appreciates it and loves it and honors it. No one really acts a fool because they know it's a one-time thing.”

2. “I'm always on the red carpet, the other day I thought this isn't bad. You can meet other people on it.”

3. “That red carpet has to be felt to be believed.” .

4. “You don't have to be famous to live out your own red carpet dream.” My pick Red.

Welcome back Red.

Just don't give it if you don't wish to. The choice is yours.