it might only be my opinion....but I think on a personal level im not interested in someone 10 or 20 years younger than me, I would much prefer a wiser woman nearer my own age (54) because i think she would be more comfortable with who she is, what she wants etc and hopefully wouldnt be afraid to share those thoughts with me. After all how can I help those dreams or desires come true if you dont talk to me, except to slate me in with the ones that have hurt you in the past. Some of us guys have been badly hurt too you know. Trophies maybe for those more insecure in their lives, or chasing back after their youth but i get that from my motorcycle, love i will get from the woman i love (i hope) so i will keep looking for a woman near my own age because thats what i know will make me happy. Not all men are trophy hunters or need to prove their virility in that fashion.

For the most part, it's a painful experience for men. But for women, it's an enjoyable one. Totally unfair! How I would love to have hundreds of messages everyday, all from sexed crazed women wanting to have their way with me. Then women have the ordacity to moan about it, how ungrateful! I'd love to see how they'd like it if the roles were reversed. They wouldn't last a week. Having to send out hundreds of messages, half or which will be ignored anyway, and the rest will be rejections and fizzle out into nothing. Online dating is no place for a real man. We aren't appreciated here.