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Topic: if you thought it would
itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 04/08/08 11:22 PM
be a long time [years] before you found the one would you consider a friends with bennifits?

aims84 Joined Wed 12/12/07 Posts: 207	Tue 04/08/08 11:23 PM
hmm probably not. Ive done that in the past & it just ended up with someone developing feelings, things getting awkward & people getting hurt.

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Tue 04/08/08 11:23 PM
thats just stupid in my opinion but again its only my opinion

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Tue 04/08/08 11:24 PM
hmm probably not. Ive done that in the past & it just ended up with someone developing feelings, things getting awkward & people getting hurt. I am living the life now, and no, I wouldn't. Well the thought crossed my mind, but I couldn't pursue it

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 04/08/08 11:25 PM
hmm probably not. Ive done that in the past & it just ended up with someone developing feelings, things getting awkward & people getting hurt. I am living the life now, and no, I wouldn't. Well the thought crossed my mind, but I couldn't pursue it we r in agreement

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Tue 04/08/08 11:25 PM
i turn down friends with benifts all the time... it seems that that is all most people want... and I know wat I want and its not that!!!

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Tue 04/08/08 11:27 PM
You know what I would do though? If I had a really good friend that was a female, I would love to sleep next to a woman again, and just cuddle with her. I miss that feeling a lot. Pillows are ok, but it just isn't the same

briank66 Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 2335	Tue 04/08/08 11:27 PM
be a long time [years] before you found the one would you consider a friends with bennifits? Several...it's a beautiful thang

lv420z Joined Thu 04/03/08 Posts: 58	Tue 04/08/08 11:27 PM
i prefer a one night stand myself.....12 hour relationship.....

LIJOMA Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 2591	Tue 04/08/08 11:29 PM
I think that a FRIEND WITH BENEFITS is ok, as long as you both understand what is going on, and what will be going on afterwards- feelings, emotions, etc... Sometimes, in my case, I work so much, and the kids keep me going, it is nice to call up my friend and tell him I am on my over for 30 minutes, or 4 hours,or to spend the night, whatever.... It works for him too... Not looking for a relationship, if it happens, it happens then the FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS would stop of course, but it is not meant for me to be in a relationship at this time of my life, so I say, Whatever works...

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 04/08/08 11:29 PM
You know what I would do though? If I had a really good friend that was a female, I would love to sleep next to a woman again, and just cuddle with her. I miss that feeling a lot. Pillows are ok, but it just isn't the same thats will power rob

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Tue 04/08/08 11:32 PM
You know what I would do though? If I had a really good friend that was a female, I would love to sleep next to a woman again, and just cuddle with her. I miss that feeling a lot. Pillows are ok, but it just isn't the same thats will power rob nah, not if she was just a friend. I hug my friends that are girls all the time, and sometimes a quick "peck" on the lips. nothing lingering, no ass grabbing. I have a couple really gorgeous friends that are women, but none that I would trust to do that with

dejavieu Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 255	Tue 04/08/08 11:33 PM
Nope...I already know from experience you can't actually starve without it...so why sell my soul now? Besides, if I get all diseased before I meet him, he might not want me after all. Seriously though, I already know that I'll respect him, why should I wait until I meet him to start?

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 04/08/08 11:33 PM
You know what I would do though? If I had a really good friend that was a female, I would love to sleep next to a woman again, and just cuddle with her. I miss that feeling a lot. Pillows are ok, but it just isn't the same thats will power rob nah, not if she was just a friend. I hug my friends that are girls all the time, and sometimes a quick "peck" on the lips. nothing lingering, no ass grabbing. I have a couple really gorgeous friends that are women, but none that I would trust to do that with are you waiting for love or just taking a break?

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Tue 04/08/08 11:37 PM
You know what I would do though? If I had a really good friend that was a female, I would love to sleep next to a woman again, and just cuddle with her. I miss that feeling a lot. Pillows are ok, but it just isn't the same thats will power rob nah, not if she was just a friend. I hug my friends that are girls all the time, and sometimes a quick "peck" on the lips. nothing lingering, no ass grabbing. I have a couple really gorgeous friends that are women, but none that I would trust to do that with are you waiting for love or just taking a break? love. I have had three sexual partners in my life, and I wish it had just been one. It is important to me, but not in the bed post notch way.

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 04/08/08 11:38 PM
well thats cool

dejavieu Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 255	Tue 04/08/08 11:45 PM
You know what I would do though? If I had a really good friend that was a female, I would love to sleep next to a woman again, and just cuddle with her. I miss that feeling a lot. Pillows are ok, but it just isn't the same thats will power rob nah, not if she was just a friend. I hug my friends that are girls all the time, and sometimes a quick "peck" on the lips. nothing lingering, no ass grabbing. I have a couple really gorgeous friends that are women, but none that I would trust to do that with are you waiting for love or just taking a break? love. I have had three sexual partners in my life, and I wish it had just been one. It is important to me, but not in the bed post notch way. There are a lot of men who say things like that. Wonder why I actually believe YOU?

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Tue 04/08/08 11:47 PM
You know what I would do though? If I had a really good friend that was a female, I would love to sleep next to a woman again, and just cuddle with her. I miss that feeling a lot. Pillows are ok, but it just isn't the same thats will power rob nah, not if she was just a friend. I hug my friends that are girls all the time, and sometimes a quick "peck" on the lips. nothing lingering, no ass grabbing. I have a couple really gorgeous friends that are women, but none that I would trust to do that with are you waiting for love or just taking a break? love. I have had three sexual partners in my life, and I wish it had just been one. It is important to me, but not in the bed post notch way. There are a lot of men who say things like that. Wonder why I actually believe YOU? because I am brutaly honest even when it does not serve my purpose. There are tons of people coast to coast who can vouche for me. My guys call me reverend sometimes because of the advances I turn down when we go to bars after a job, lol

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Tue 04/08/08 11:49 PM
yeah if i could just get the thoughts out of my head

dejavieu Joined Sun 03/16/08 Posts: 255	Tue 04/08/08 11:50 PM
You know what I would do though? If I had a really good friend that was a female, I would love to sleep next to a woman again, and just cuddle with her. I miss that feeling a lot. Pillows are ok, but it just isn't the same thats will power rob nah, not if she was just a friend. I hug my friends that are girls all the time, and sometimes a quick "peck" on the lips. nothing lingering, no ass grabbing. I have a couple really gorgeous friends that are women, but none that I would trust to do that with are you waiting for love or just taking a break? love. I have had three sexual partners in my life, and I wish it had just been one. It is important to me, but not in the bed post notch way. There are a lot of men who say things like that. Wonder why I actually believe YOU? because I am brutaly honest even when it does not serve my purpose. There are tons of people coast to coast who can vouche for me. My guys call me reverend sometimes because of the advances I turn down when we go to bars after a job, lol My point was that I DO believe you darlin'.