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Topic: How do I stop being a nice guy?
Squeeian Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 21	Sat 05/31/08 01:44 AM
So get this I get home, check my E-mail. This girl I really cared for tells me in no uncertain terms that she doesn't even want to meet me, though we have been having pleasent conversations sense last june. We made plans to get together durring dec., mar., and both times due to curcomstances beyond my control, namely loss of jobs, stopped me from going to see her. Here I'm 0/3 in the serious relationship department. Heck I even asked number 2 to marry me. Then she brakes up with me because we decided together to be intimate before we got married, in my mind didn't mean that I loved her any less. I mean I was going to marry her for god's sake. I even fell head over heels for her two boys and I wasn't even they're father. I'm just sick of everything, you try to be a good guy for the girl that you like, you try to listen to her, tell her that you value her option, tell her that you want an equal. And what do they all do, they rip your heart out. I don't know how my heart kept regrowing just to be ripped out yet again. The only difference this time is that I don't want the bloody thing to grow back, I want to become a callous, uncaring, jerk; Cause that's what girls and women want RIGHT??? So I appleal to all the people out there, tell me what to do to make this pain go away or numb it to the point that I don't feel it any more. I would go drink myself into oblivion, but for some strange reason I think that that would mean I let all those so called women win. And for all women who read this, could you please tell me why you all take some preverse pleasure in ripping a good caring man to pieces?

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Sat 05/31/08 01:46 AM
tomorrow just walk around kicking the cr@p out of everybody you see!!!!

Squeeian Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 21	Sat 05/31/08 01:47 AM
I would love to beat the ever living crap out of any poor soul stupid enough to give me a reason to go to jail, but that would also mean, yet again, loss of job and I can't afford that. Got bills to pay.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 05/31/08 01:48 AM
So get this I get home, check my E-mail. This girl I really cared for tells me in no uncertain terms that she doesn't even want to meet me, though we have been having pleasent conversations sense last june. We made plans to get together durring dec., mar., and both times due to curcomstances beyond my control, namely loss of jobs, stopped me from going to see her. Here I'm 0/3 in the serious relationship department. Heck I even asked number 2 to marry me. Then she brakes up with me because we decided together to be intimate before we got married, in my mind didn't mean that I loved her any less. I mean I was going to marry her for god's sake. I even fell head over heels for her two boys and I wasn't even they're father. I'm just sick of everything, you try to be a good guy for the girl that you like, you try to listen to her, tell her that you value her option, tell her that you want an equal. And what do they all do, they rip your heart out. I don't know how my heart kept regrowing just to be ripped out yet again. The only difference this time is that I don't want the bloody thing to grow back, I want to become a callous, uncaring, jerk; Cause that's what girls and women want RIGHT??? So I appleal to all the people out there, tell me what to do to make this pain go away or numb it to the point that I don't feel it any more. I would go drink myself into oblivion, but for some strange reason I think that that would mean I let all those so called women win. And for all women who read this, could you please tell me why you all take some preverse pleasure in ripping a good caring man to pieces? I dont think people set out to hurt other people........Its not you its them sometimes is true and they have their own stuff to deal with. Doesnt make the pain go away but after you seriously look at everything and what you may have done to push these people along with their reasons then you can maybe get a better perspective!

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Sat 05/31/08 01:48 AM
just be u... if it fits ya to be a jerk..do it.. somebody cld love u for just being you ya know?? and if not....screw it...buy some beer

atleedagod Joined Mon 05/26/08 Posts: 738	Sat 05/31/08 01:49 AM
nice guys finishing last <<< and yall women why we aint around no more

Squeeian Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 21	Sat 05/31/08 01:50 AM
PREACH ON BROTHER.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 05/31/08 01:51 AM
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA WERE JUST HERE TO MESS WITH YOUR HEARTS!!!! YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA THATS WHAT WE DOOOOOOOOOOOOO TO YOU LITTLE WHINEY BIOTCH MEN!!!!

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 05/31/08 01:52 AM
IM SORRY BUT IM BUSTING UP YOUR HEN PARTY!!!!

atleedagod Joined Mon 05/26/08 Posts: 738	Sat 05/31/08 01:53 AM
whos *****ing ? im used to it at this point

Fanta46 Joined Sat 11/11/06 Posts: 29361	Sat 05/31/08 01:53 AM
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA WERE JUST HERE TO MESS WITH YOUR HEARTS!!!! YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA THATS WHAT WE DOOOOOOOOOOOOO TO YOU LITTLE WHINEY BIOTCH MEN!!!! In the BOX Muriel

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 05/31/08 01:54 AM
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA WERE JUST HERE TO MESS WITH YOUR HEARTS!!!! YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA THATS WHAT WE DOOOOOOOOOOOOO TO YOU LITTLE WHINEY BIOTCH MEN!!!! In the BOX Muriel NO!!!!

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Sat 05/31/08 01:56 AM
Drink more alcohol. That turns us in to a**holes. Women dig that.

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Sat 05/31/08 01:56 AM
would mean I let all those so called women win. And for all women who read this, could you please tell me why you all take some preverse pleasure in ripping a good caring man to pieces? You might not believe this, and it's really okay if you don't, but there aren't any victims here. You stop being a "nice guy" when you start being an honest guy. Nobody normal is "nice" 100% of the time, unless they're planning a mass murder.

Fanta46 Joined Sat 11/11/06 Posts: 29361	Sat 05/31/08 01:56 AM
Terrible Muriel,,,, Im off to bed! Good night

Squeeian Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 21	Sat 05/31/08 01:57 AM
Hey Gypsy41, no disrespect, but I would say people have they're own issues. But if a two people who are in a serious relationship can't open up enough to talk honestly there is a problem. And when one of those people lie to the other and tell them everything is great and then only later after they have they're partner in a false sense of security they tell them that there was just something about them that lying person just couldn't get over and then dumps them what does that say about people, cause I've had my last two girlfriends tell me that I was the best thing that ever happened to them and then the recanted what they said and I am still wondering why?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 05/31/08 01:57 AM
So basically what youre saying is that you will become a jerk to women so they will love you??? Isnt that a bit of a oxymoron or just even a moron???? Ok lets do the math!!! YOU become jerk YOU make women like you YOU treat women like crap YOU make them cry etc Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm win win situation........YOU + HER = O!!! oK WHAT DO i WIN ALEX???? CAUSE IM HOPING FOR A TRIP TO COSTA RICA!!!

Squeeian Joined Thu 05/22/08 Posts: 21	Sat 05/31/08 01:59 AM
I would go to town drinking myself silly, but due to religious reasons and wanting to follow my faith, dispite all adversity. I can't do the drinking game.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 05/31/08 01:59 AM
Hey Gypsy41, no disrespect, but I would say people have they're own issues. But if a two people who are in a serious relationship can't open up enough to talk honestly there is a problem. And when one of those people lie to the other and tell them everything is great and then only later after they have they're partner in a false sense of security they tell them that there was just something about them that lying person just couldn't get over and then dumps them what does that say about people, cause I've had my last two girlfriends tell me that I was the best thing that ever happened to them and then the recanted what they said and I am still wondering why? That means lack of communication........and if there is lying then there is no real communication!!! a real relationship cannot be based on lies so NEXT!!!! WELCOME TO REAL LIFE!!!! BUY A HELMET!!! IT SUX!!!

Fanta46 Joined Sat 11/11/06 Posts: 29361	Sat 05/31/08 01:59 AM
So basically what youre saying is that you will become a jerk to women so they will love you??? Isnt that a bit of a oxymoron or just even a moron???? Ok lets do the math!!! YOU become jerk YOU make women like you YOU treat women like crap YOU make them cry etc Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm win win situation........YOU + HER = O!!! oK WHAT DO i WIN ALEX???? CAUSE IM HOPING FOR A TRIP TO COSTA RICA!!! Back in the box Muriel