Topic: Getting back to dating
amber030583's photo
Sun 07/06/08 11:59 AM
Alright, well I am out of a 4+ year relationship. It was my decision to break up. Lets just say he was a bad seed and I thought that he could change well I was wrong. Out of the 4+ years he was in the "correctional system" to put it nicely for over a year. So needless to say since he came home it just wasnt working out. As soon as i kicked him out he was back "in the system" less then two weeks later. We do have a kid together whom has not seen his dad in over two months and has only asked about him once.

So that is more then I was going to share. But lets just say I did learn what no to look for in someone and need some help with getting back to "talking to boys". (When i say "boys" I do mean guys around my age not kids or anything weird like that.) I am really shy and just need a nudge in the right direction. Any advice would be much appreciated.

beauty314's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:02 PM
watch out for the bad boys and good luckflowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:02 PM
OMG

Etrain's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:05 PM

watch out for the bad boys and good luckflowerforyou

hey...I resemble that remarksmokin

no photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:18 PM
Try not dating boys.......try dating men next time!!flowerforyou drinker

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:34 PM

Alright, well I am out of a 4+ year relationship. It was my decision to break up. Lets just say he was a bad seed and I thought that he could change well I was wrong. Out of the 4+ years he was in the "correctional system" to put it nicely for over a year. So needless to say since he came home it just wasnt working out. As soon as i kicked him out he was back "in the system" less then two weeks later. We do have a kid together whom has not seen his dad in over two months and has only asked about him once.

So that is more then I was going to share. But lets just say I did learn what no to look for in someone and need some help with getting back to "talking to boys". (When i say "boys" I do mean guys around my age not kids or anything weird like that.) I am really shy and just need a nudge in the right direction. Any advice would be much appreciated.



Post in the forums and get to know people .. easy way to hit it off with someone :wink:

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:35 PM


watch out for the bad boys and good luckflowerforyou

hey...I resemble that remarksmokin



pitchfork slaphead wow how right you are :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

amber030583's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:50 PM

OMG


Wow that makes a girl feel great.....seriously any suggestions?

chris1979's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:54 PM
come over here and i'll try and help you with your shyness.bigsmile

Puffins1958's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:57 PM
I agree....

post in the forums, people will see you...and respond. Good luck, I hope you find what your searching for

flowers

ArtGurl's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:57 PM
Post in the threads. You'll get to know people and even if you are shy, know that it does get easier.

Welcome flowerforyou

amber030583's photo
Sun 07/06/08 01:08 PM

come over here and i'll try and help you with your shyness.bigsmile

oh deary one could only imagine what you are thinking