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Topic: Advice for the inquisitive....
Citizen_Joe's photo
Wed 07/09/08 02:28 PM

If you start talking to someone and the other person is over cautious because of past relationships and wants to take things slow relationship wise but wants to be F*** Buddies, should you stop talking to other people?

Say this other person wants to date you, but doesn't want to call you their girl/boy friend just yet? They want to take things one step at a time...you know oral and sex and then get to know you????? laugh



That would simply be grossly insufficient, and a waste of time for me, and a downgrade from what's going on now. Without getting too personal about it, if I'm not committed to getting to know 1 person without distractions, I know I'm not ready for the real deal.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Wed 07/09/08 02:31 PM


It depends on what you wantflowerforyou


I told the guy that I was ok with that for a while but I am looking for a boyfriend, someone exclusive. He said that is what he wants to, but he is being cautious because of the past 3 girls he was with turned out to be psycho.



And you're still moving forward? Wow. Maybe he's a psycho magnet. It really sounds empty, so I'd suggest keeping your expectations low. Gutter low.

SuperMom30's photo
Fri 07/11/08 12:56 PM



It depends on what you wantflowerforyou


I told the guy that I was ok with that for a while but I am looking for a boyfriend, someone exclusive. He said that is what he wants to, but he is being cautious because of the past 3 girls he was with turned out to be psycho.



And you're still moving forward? Wow. Maybe he's a psycho magnet. It really sounds empty, so I'd suggest keeping your expectations low. Gutter low.


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