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Topic: Would you still marry them?
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/12/08 01:12 AM
If your fiance told you that he/she couldn't have children, would you still marry them?

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Sat 07/12/08 01:12 AM
yes

armbender Joined Thu 05/08/08 Posts: 177	Sat 07/12/08 01:16 AM
if she was a good person and would never cheat on me...yes

cryssy84 Joined Mon 03/24/08 Posts: 16	Sat 07/12/08 01:22 AM
Yes:)

907daydreamer Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 2829	Sat 07/12/08 01:24 AM
absolutely.

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Sat 07/12/08 01:26 AM
Uh yeah, I don't want kids anyway

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/12/08 01:26 AM
interesting

DrX Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 1539	Sat 07/12/08 01:26 AM
say your dad died when you was 11 and the only thing you have thought about since then was having a child, to do the things with, that you missed out on with your dad. I dunno

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/12/08 01:27 AM
Uh yeah, I don't want kids anyway me neither ( I wouldnt have a problem having a relationship with a woman with kids though)

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/12/08 01:28 AM
say your dad died when you was 11 and the only thing you have thought about since then was having a child, to do the things with, that you missed out on with your dad. I dunno interesting

907daydreamer Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 2829	Sat 07/12/08 01:28 AM
say your dad died when you was 11 and the only thing you have thought about since then was having a child, to do the things with, that you missed out on with your dad. I dunno adoption?

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Sat 07/12/08 01:28 AM
Adoption is always an option, there are kids out there with no parents that need love. Just sayin.

DrX Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 1539	Sat 07/12/08 01:30 AM
say your dad died when you was 11 and the only thing you have thought about since then was having a child, to do the things with, that you missed out on with your dad. I dunno adoption? adoption is honorable, but the same blood, the same spirit wouldnt be there.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/12/08 01:31 AM
say your dad died when you was 11 and the only thing you have thought about since then was having a child, to do the things with, that you missed out on with your dad. I dunno adoption? adoption is honorable, but the same blood, the same spirit wouldnt be there. With time it would be there. Especially if you got a baby

msmyka Joined Sat 03/22/08 Posts: 17079	Sat 07/12/08 01:33 AM
I would want one that was already potty trained

907daydreamer Joined Thu 06/19/08 Posts: 2829	Sat 07/12/08 01:33 AM
say your dad died when you was 11 and the only thing you have thought about since then was having a child, to do the things with, that you missed out on with your dad. I dunno adoption? adoption is honorable, but the same blood, the same spirit wouldnt be there. and if tomorrow you found out you couldn't have children...?

Donnar Joined Mon 09/17/07 Posts: 874	Sat 07/12/08 01:34 AM
I hope you men will really think about this. I had 2 surgeries before I graduated from High school. I did have a lovely pregnancy and a son, who was still born. 8 months after I got married, I had to have a hysterectomy. After that I could not have children. I offered to let my husband out of the marriage. He insisted that he was fine. We did later adopt a baby girl. We divorced 10 yrs after we were married, due, mainly to his lack of interest in the marriage. We remarried 3 yrs later and got divorced again. I found out from our daughter that he had asked the woman he was dating and planned to marry, if she would reverse the tubal ligation she had had because he wanted a child "of his own". That hurt me a lot and I say, that because I did not have a child with him, he never had a complete love for me. So before you say Yes so quickly, please think about this seriously. Every man I have ever known says he will always love the mother of his children, divorced or not, in some kind of way.

DrX Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 1539	Sat 07/12/08 01:38 AM
say your dad died when you was 11 and the only thing you have thought about since then was having a child, to do the things with, that you missed out on with your dad. I dunno adoption? adoption is honorable, but the same blood, the same spirit wouldnt be there. and if tomorrow you found out you couldn't have children...? I found out two years ago, when we was just dating she couldnt have kids, now we are engaged. I'm not gonna lie it's a heavy thought that lays on me.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sat 07/12/08 01:40 AM
I would actually prefer a woman who cant have kids or has already had kids and had her self fixed. I cant see changing my life as drastically as having kids would change it. And I sure as hell dont want to pay child support. Thats my main fear

DrX Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 1539	Sat 07/12/08 01:41 AM
I would actually prefer a woman who cant have kids or has already had kids and had her self fixed. I cant see changing my life as drastically as having kids would change it. And I sure as hell dont want to pay child support. Thats my main fear