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Topic: met amazing girl, unsure of her relationship status
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Fri 08/15/08 06:03 AM
geez man, live a little

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Fri 08/15/08 06:05 AM


I went into physical therapy the other day and immediately I noticed this attractive young woman sitting on a bench next to a guy that I know who is in a wheelchair. As I walked around I more or less gawked at her; I knew who she was. I'd heard about her from other guys. She is this girl that comes and helps the guy with his physical therapy. She actually ended up helping ME for a while with my therapy and we were introduced and started talking and I straight up asked her if he was her boyfriend. SHE said NO, they are good friends and she is going to school for physically therapy. What I heard from OTHERS HOWEVER who asked him, is that he and she used to date and they are sort of together(whatever that means) she is still in love with him but he isn't interested. I don't know how to take that. As soon as I saw her I got that rare feeling. I'd like to ask her out but I don't want to be some guy she settles for if she is in fact really still in love with him. She definitely must feel something for him to keep coming on her own time and helping him with his therapy regardless of whether she is training to be a PT or not.


Rule number one, don't listen to the gossip of others, rarely is it 100% correct. You asked, she answered. Their "information" may be old as the hills. Yeah, she might care for him, as a friend. Lots of people stay friends with their ex's, doesn't mean she's still in love with him. Could be she wants to help AND she needs the experience, simple as that.



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Fri 08/15/08 06:07 AM



you should ask her out, whats the worst thing she can say, no soup for you? :)
A couple things could happen; that being one of them. She could also say yes but just as a rebound even though she really loves him and I don't want to be that guy a woman settles for.
if she not interested him anymore and they r just friends than ur not a rebound but a potential mate t u
ASK HER OUT AND ASK ALL THOSE ?s u ask b4 drinker drinker smokin smokin glasses
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Fri 08/15/08 12:31 PM
You have one life. Live it. This other guy is not interested you wrote? That would be the only thing holding me up if I was in your shoes. I do not want to be someone who breaks apart a relationship. There is no BF/GF relationship from what you said. What is the hang-up? Are you making things up in your head why you can't ask her out? Get rid of that defeatist attitude. If it's a no-go with her then go for another you find attractive.


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Sun 08/17/08 05:55 AM

You have one life. Live it. This other guy is not interested you wrote? That would be the only thing holding me up if I was in your shoes. I do not want to be someone who breaks apart a relationship. There is no BF/GF relationship from what you said. What is the hang-up? Are you making things up in your head why you can't ask her out? Get rid of that defeatist attitude. If it's a no-go with her then go for another you find attractive.


I know. You're all right. I've been taught to act as if I'M THE PRIZE but I guess because I heard so much about her from other guys salivating over her (and wonder why none of them have asked her out) I have her on this pedestal. Essentially she is the princess of the Rehab. Institute of Michigan. If others hadn't made such a big deal of her before I met her, then I'd probably just ask her out but now I have her in my head as larger than life I think. I will ask her though:thumbsup:

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