with lust your needs are important
with love the other person's needs are important

In lust means that I don't care to meet her family, or know all there is to know about her, or care enough to want to feel something deep for her. My main objective?.....Getting laid, which we all call these types of guys "Manwhores".

ALL Bullshiii poopy Fairy Tale Hollywood American Brainwashed answer... and the false assumption that cause the 60% divorce rate.


From the Bible: (paraphrasing, because I am not a bible thumper).
The Heart will betray you.
Use your Mind.

Lust is the emotional feeling that you get from seeing someone attractive and making your heart skip a beat. That is ALL. You don't know the person. You don't know what they are like. You don't know how they react to situations. You don't know their parents and their relationship with them. You don't know their Stock. In Which, the starry eyed American lover would say... "Love is all you need." Plus having Sex before marriage continues to blind us from the truth that the other person might Lack Characteristics and Values that we personally hold dear by emotionally tying us and overlooking such major flause.(sp?)

Majority of us that are on this site remembers OUR FIRST LOVE and how that Lust/Love falls apart in the face of REality and everyday challenges, because it is based on only 1 or 2 legs to stand against the storm of life. The other factors can add a leg or strengthen a leg (ie. something like good communication with each other- by itself it is weak).


The everlasting Love is not just endurance and it doesn't just come from the heart. It is base on time, your Free Will to Choose and grow a relationship spent and build together.

got to go sleep.