Is it still ok for one of those persons to log into an online dating site? the girl I'm seeing says she talks to a girl and that's it... I want to belive her but at the same time should I?

We've been seeing each other a little over a month now without the "gf,bf" title. I've treated her very well and I feel that she likes me but there shouldn't be a reason for her to be on a dating site.

why are you on a dating site????

Maybe she really is talking to her friends and if you try to tell her what to do>?>>>>??? ohhhhhhhhhhhh NOT PRETTY!!

Shouldn't be...but...maybe she found friends there...still if she wanted to...she could just chat with them on yahoo...hmmm...tough call

I haven't been on the site since meeting her, I asked her one day out of the blue and she admitted that she did.

hmmm,why are you on here? also maybe she want to keep her opyions open? or she could just be talking to friends...but you just never know

Let it ride my man. Life is to short for all the drama. She likes chat rooms is all . Just be glad she is talking to a girl and not you all the freaken time. Some girls can verbally wipe a guy out.ya know what I mean. Some women like to talk and talk and talk. Plus ya might not want to tell her what ta do so soon.Just my view.

if you don't trust her...you might as well dump her...thats not a good relationship

hahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!! I dont talk too much!!!

Correct me if I'm wrong here, but aren't you infact logged into a dating site?

So you asked her and she was honest, and now you take issue with it.... Sounds like she needs a new boyfriend, or lie to you...either way.

Well son, I think if you have to ask the question, you already know the answer.

That being said, it doesn't sound like you're relationship-ready, if you not only cannot accept someone you profess as a "gf" to be honest with you, without taking issue with it.

Either you fish in the ocean, or fish in the kiddie pond. I suggest getting your feet wet, truly, before you do either.

Best of luck to you and the "gf".

Hey, I qualified it . I said some women like to talk and talk. I like the ones who let me speak once in a while…Hell I love all women. Who am I kidding.. All shapes, sizes and colors with class. I am the United Nations of feminine acceptance.

You are soo sooo....forward mmmmm no......Brutally honest yes thats it.
LUV IT!!

I agree. Re-examine your relationship and your own thoughts.

Quote from her on Myspace 4 days ago

"So as some of you know, I was seeing someone for about a month. Well after all the jelousy crap ... I couldnt take it anymore .. so yea I'm completely free again!!!! "

RIGHT... she should have lied to you to make you happy....

1). You cannot OWN another person...hence you cannot control them via jealous insinuations...
2). She may very well JUST be talking to her friends on that site...I personally have made several friends on this site that I intend on keeping...even if I start a relationship with someone...
3). Trust is a must...If you cant have trust...you have nothing....if you dont trust her...you already lost her to begin with...

Ouch.

I like a little jealousy personally. It shows concern and caring that I matter to them. Too much though is a killer. The trick is finding the right balance.

Is this a dating site? Hmmmmm Some people regard it as a singles community. You need to get consistent, Bro! On one hand you say you have no bf/gf titles but on the other hand you are already acting possessive. Maybe you need to get off the fence with this gal if you both feel so strong towards each other because until you do, you have no right at all to ask her to remove herself from what you call a dating site. Personally I have quite a few friends on several sites like this and if someone asked me to T-Totally be off of them I would balk at the idea. Where there is no trust there can be no love

Normally I'm not jealous but come on hearing her admit that she's still on a dating site has to spark up some emotion.