good topic

i like open mindness and able to talk and communicate, opening doors,
yes, dressing sexy is good, eye contact, a good smile..

You are on your way to being the perfect gentleman.
Next thing I recommend is to listen, not just hear what she is saying.
Actually listen to what she is saying. Don’t interrupt.
If there is any chemistry, you will know when a second date is a good
idea.

I really dig it when a woman says thank you after buying her anything.

having lots of money, and a nice car.

lol@cboy

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hahahahahahahahahahaha !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Biggest thing. Even if you do have to look her over once in a while, or
if you do have to excuse yourself for whatever reason (bathroom, gas,
etc.) LISTEN to whatever she says, and then bring it back up later in
the date. SHOW her that you were listening. A suggestion would be to
say ok " you like going to the beach, right? how would you like to join
me at the beach for whatever event next weekend?" Obviously fill in the
blanks here, but you get the idea. Nothing is more important than
knowing that you are respected enough to be paid attention to. And
ladies this goes for you too. listen and pay attention.

Daniel, you and Bigpappi, don,t really have any advice on dating.

sure i do

Just kidding.

It's better to hated for who you are than liked for who you're not. Be
yourself in the beginning cause that's who you are in the end. It all
comes out in the wash.

That,s the million dollar answer.

Thanks cboy. I found that out the hard way. A lesson learned.

By the way I'm the female that believed everything he told me and fell
for the chivalry. After 18 months out his ass should still be burning.

Damn Stay, i am proud of you!!! If the chivalry was an act and lasted
that long, the his ass better be burning a hell of a lot longer than
this!

Thanks but it was 5 years, he's been gone for 18 months. And I cared
about him for who I thought he was. Come to find out he's been a con man
for so long that he doesn't know who he is.

Have a great night everyone.

Like everyone has said i think communicating on the date is important i
dont want to date someone that has nothing to talk about, i also enjoy a
good listener and not someone that is looking around the room after they
asked the question. I love eye contact and reading people so when the
guy is willing to look into my eyes it tells me alot about them. To me
it doesnt matter where you go on a first date i wouldnt care if it was
mcdonalds , your dating the person not their wallet, and besides
sometimes its in odd circumstances where you both try new things that
you find out more about them and even yourself and i love that cause
then you know you could see yourself and if anything progresses being
able to grow.

Thanks everybody for all of your advise. And trust me I'm
taking down notes and you can bet I'm going to use them on my next date.
Thanks again.

honesty, being open to try new things. understanding. giving massages
always helps.