Thanks for your reply. It's frustrating! I've used Craig's List personals frequently to the point that my account(s) have been suspended because I post too much. I don't have any close female friends and I go crazy. I don't know how to make a personal bond or connection with a twenty or thirty-something woman. There have been many days of late where I will just break down and cry.

I'm a SWM, 30 years old who is lonely with a lot of love and not able to find suitable dating partners. I live in the San Francisco Bay Area and have never been in a LTR. Another issue is, with my age, gender, and hormones, not being in a relationship means I want sex more because the loneliness I experience seems to kick my sex drive into higher gear--without my say. As a result, I can't find lonely, needy women who also want casual sex, while I struggle to find a woman with whom to befriend and eventually develop a relationship with. I'm currently seeing a psychotherapist intern do address these issues, but nothing helps.