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i can't read where she WANTS you to move to her. does she?
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there is no point in moving to be closer to her unless
she is also interested in pursuing the relationship with a determinations similar to your own. |
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..its called the halo effect..or something like that..your only remembering the good things about her..which is normal...you never discussed the events that have led up to the break up...if you go to her..without a plan, you will have more to lose than her the second time around..i.e. house/job/dignity/..and most importantly...time..
roco p.s. -- do not go to her, have her come to you |
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i need some advice im 26 years old i have a wonderful job and and a house and yea im single most people are like huh but anyway my ex-girlfriend and i have been broke up for about 4 months and we still talk and im still in love with her well she just moved about 5 hours away back to her home town well the thing is she is 40 years old and i would love to spend the rest of my life with her but to give up everything i have here friends and family i just dont know im so confused |
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"if you love something let it go.. if it comes back to you then its yours forever.. if it doesnt then it was never ment to be"
point being.. if she loves you.. she will come to you.. if not.. then you will move on and find another.. i know it sounds a bit abrupt but thats kinda how it is... im thinking that the age difference is a bit more of an issue than you are letting on to as well as you mention your ages. but brush past them.. |
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If she wanted to be with you, wouldn't she have stayed close to you?
Why would you move to her if she is unwilling to STAY with you? I don't get people.... |
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..its called the halo effect..or something like that..your only remembering the good things about her..which is normal...you never discussed the events that have led up to the break up...if you go to her..without a plan, you will have more to lose than her the second time around..i.e. house/job/dignity/..and most importantly...time.. roco p.s. -- do not go to her, have her come to you Word |
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I guess you dont love her then..... or maybe she doesn't love you... Either way you need to move on. |
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well get over it........if she was the one you wanted you would go there. Its simple math...  Yeah, I hafta agree there. |
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