Topic: Differences??
Dreamer01's photo
Sat 10/18/08 06:27 PM
Ok...I was wondering, would differences matter in a relationship for you?
For instance, if your partner is a bit wasteful and you're more frugal....if he has everything handed to him and you don't.

shoesmonkey's photo
Sat 10/18/08 06:35 PM
Edited by shoesmonkey on Sat 10/18/08 06:36 PM

Ok...I was wondering, would differences matter in a relationship for you?
For instance, if your partner is a bit wasteful and you're more frugal....if he has everything handed to him and you don't.

It was like that with my ex bf of 13 year's so, I guess the answer would be no. You may benefit as well. His dad bought him a LARGE shed, he did put it together tho. It was his, for his bike mind you. I did not use it. But, his dad also bought us a washer and dryer so, you see, you don't know how it could help you as well.

beauty314's photo
Sat 10/18/08 06:41 PM

Ok...I was wondering, would differences matter in a relationship for you?
For instance, if your partner is a bit wasteful and you're more frugal....if he has everything handed to him and you don't.

differences matter when they cause resentment flowerforyou

no photo
Sat 10/18/08 06:42 PM
Yep, I guess you have to decide if the difference is enough to be a deal breaker.

BertDCaveman's photo
Sat 10/18/08 06:45 PM
It's a two way street but your both riding in the same car. It comes back to the basics of good communication in a relationship

Goofball73's photo
Sat 10/18/08 07:23 PM
The only difference that matters to me is if she has a different sex drive than mine....cause it has to be equal to mine or else....well, you can see where this is going.laugh laugh

Dreamer01's photo
Sat 10/18/08 08:13 PM
Thank you for all of your replies. I was just thinking about this today.

no photo
Sat 10/18/08 08:26 PM
Since you're done with the thread, I would like to comment that you look like sarah michelle gellar in your thumbnail angle, but then you look like cute lil kimmy gibler in your other pictures.


cute either way :wink:

galendgirl's photo
Sat 10/18/08 09:51 PM
How about the difference in views about fidelity? I think that matters a great deal, or at least it did (ultimately) to me and probably still would...