Topic: I need some pointers
74Drew's photo
Wed 01/28/09 10:46 AM
Could I get some serious advice regarding older women with kids? I don't have a lot of relationship experience and am just wondering what an older woman will expect. Especially when she's got kids. I'm not talking about a huge age difference but something like 7 years.

franshade's photo
Wed 01/28/09 10:50 AM
Questions like this really baffle me.

You will get too much info from a wide range of people which will then only further confuse you.

Why not just be yourself, treat others with respect and go with the flow.

74Drew's photo
Wed 01/28/09 10:51 AM
I'm just wondering what she might expect from me.

Tazz42's photo
Wed 01/28/09 10:51 AM

Could I get some serious advice regarding older women with kids? I don't have a lot of relationship experience and am just wondering what an older woman will expect. Especially when she's got kids. I'm not talking about a huge age difference but something like 7 years.


Life is a learning experience, you just jump in and learn as you go....can't really give ya advice, just treat her and her kids with respect and consideration.
Good Luck!flowers

franshade's photo
Wed 01/28/09 10:53 AM

I'm just wondering what she might expect from me.


ask her

she's the best person to ask anyway waving

prisoner's photo
Wed 01/28/09 10:56 AM
:smile: just be a gentleman and treat every woman you date, no matter what her age, with respect (make sure you always date women over 21) anything else i can help with? be seeing you

Cristina4fun's photo
Wed 01/28/09 12:24 PM


I'm just wondering what she might expect from me.


ask her

she's the best person to ask anyway waving
Kudos, best advice ever!!!:thumbsup:
Be open to activities with the kids, but don't be pushy or offended if she takes awhile to include you in her family activities. Remember when it comes to this, she's the boss.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Wed 01/28/09 12:27 PM

Could I get some serious advice regarding older women with kids? I don't have a lot of relationship experience and am just wondering what an older woman will expect. Especially when she's got kids. I'm not talking about a huge age difference but something like 7 years.


Well, for starters, if you're going to take her seriously, it's a good idea to take her kids seriously too. Kids are a bit more fragile than adults and it's not good to see a new guy walsing into their lives for a one nigher.

DragonFlyTat's photo
Thu 01/29/09 07:55 AM
Don't try to be a father to her children and don't disipline them. That is her job not yours. Other than that treat them all with respect.

Drago01's photo
Thu 01/29/09 08:09 AM

Could I get some serious advice regarding older women with kids? I don't have a lot of relationship experience and am just wondering what an older woman will expect. Especially when she's got kids. I'm not talking about a huge age difference but something like 7 years.

Just dont make any major commitments until you are satisfied that this is what you want.
When I was younger I dated alot of older women because it didnt make much difference about our ages. Now that I am older, I much prefer to date younger women. Im trying to show you that your perceptions may change with time as well.

74Drew's photo
Thu 01/29/09 09:51 AM
all good advice, thanks for the input.