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Forgiveness is a tricky thing........especially with yourself. I think most people are harder on themselves than others.
Its a different kind of unforgiveness. Then there is trying to forgive another....and that can be harder than one may think. It all takes time but eventually you do.....after years of hate and finally realize that you wasted all those years hating someone who already moved on. What a waste of energy!!! 
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forgiveness? I'm learning not to give it.
you do what mean you say who you sre you do what you do if someone needs forgivenes for that then they arent worth it |
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forgiveness? I'm learning not to give it. you do what mean you say who you sre you do what you do if someone needs forgivenes for that then they arent worth it 
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forgiveness? I'm learning not to give it. you do what mean you say who you sre you do what you do if someone needs forgivenes for that then they arent worth it motives is a whole nother story |
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forgiveness? I'm learning not to give it. you do what mean you say who you sre you do what you do if someone needs forgivenes for that then they arent worth it motives is a whole nother story   I try to read people alot.......some people call it analyzing but I call it smart. Ive been screwed over too many times. I used to be this really trusting nice person and then found out there are many bad people in this world just in it for themselves without a care of who they crap on. But Ive also learned to forgive because....it only hurt myself in the end.
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Always way harder to forgive myself. I find it easy to forgive others, but, yes, I tear myself apart over things at times.
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Depends on the argument. But I do not tend to hold grudges on anybody. I cannot stay mad. And I am not sure if I have ever been mad at myself. Not even sure how I would eve do that.
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for me it's harder! to forgive other's if they messed up with me.
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for me it's harder! to forgive other's if they messed up with me. 
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Is it harder for you to forgive yourself or others?? Are you too hard on yourself when it comes to stuff like that?? I am not a very forgiving person. But it is harder to forgive others I think. The things I do that cause the effect is my own fault and it is a learning experience. Just try not to do it again. |
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Is it harder for you to forgive yourself or others?? Are you too hard on yourself when it comes to stuff like that?? I am not a very forgiving person. But it is harder to forgive others I think. The things I do that cause the effect is my own fault and it is a learning experience. Just try not to do it again.  both is vital |
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after my divorce i spent years trying to figure what i had done wrong and what i could have done differently. I still cant figure it out 16 yrs later
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