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Topic: i have her attention now what?
nickelback9's photo
Tue 03/10/09 05:09 PM
pitchfork happy pitchfork

nickelback9's photo
Tue 03/10/09 05:11 PM
what do the women think about this one , honest openion

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Tue 03/10/09 06:52 PM
she wants to take it slow cuz of comfort, you need to build on comfort, you 2 known each other for a while, you need to hook up.

ioi's - indicator of interest

iod's indicator of disinterest

dhv- demonstrate higher value

dlv- demonstrate lower value

these how man and women talk, through body language, and this theory.

when you talk to her give her iois, but be carful, she might view it to bold, so you have to take it away, when you give her iois, heres a example

"the last time i saw you we got along great and i like that, i think your like a very nice girl and i like you" (these are all iois)
whatever the ioi be prepared to take it away!
"but me and you known each other for a while, to bad i cant say this in person to you, i mean you know how i feel, i should stop saying nice things to you, unless your around, so thats it no more, i dont like you, your not a nice girl and i dont like you.......

just kidding i really do like you baby and i wish you were here (ioi)




nickelback9's photo
Sat 03/14/09 06:29 AM

she wants to take it slow cuz of comfort, you need to build on comfort, you 2 known each other for a while, you need to hook up.

ioi's - indicator of interest

iod's indicator of disinterest

dhv- demonstrate higher value

dlv- demonstrate lower value

these how man and women talk, through body language, and this theory.

when you talk to her give her iois, but be carful, she might view it to bold, so you have to take it away, when you give her iois, heres a example

"the last time i saw you we got along great and i like that, i think your like a very nice girl and i like you" (these are all iois)
whatever the ioi be prepared to take it away!
"but me and you known each other for a while, to bad i cant say this in person to you, i mean you know how i feel, i should stop saying nice things to you, unless your around, so thats it no more, i dont like you, your not a nice girl and i dont like you.......

just kidding i really do like you baby and i wish you were here (ioi)


this strand is now invalid , so whats new guys , people always change there minds , like they change there underpants


suncandy25's photo
Sat 03/14/09 07:28 AM

i just need to know what to do at this point for real , any womans point of view would be greatly apr.

Yes send her flowers, every women likes to recieve flowers.

therapy30's photo
Sat 03/14/09 07:34 AM

she wants to be friends right now and take it slow how should i approach this relationship?



Thats your speed breaker...go slow.....drinker

nickelback9's photo
Sat 03/14/09 10:02 AM


i just need to know what to do at this point for real , any womans point of view would be greatly apr.

Yes send her flowers, every women likes to recieve flowers.


its to late for flowers , she hasnt talked to me for two days sence she called me about some money, of course i said no, and now have not heard from her , so oh well there are so many more out there for me , just got to keep looking lolbigsmile biggrin

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Sat 03/14/09 12:11 PM
are you retarded? do you not want advise? dont give her flowers! thats lame its been done to death! the more mundane the gift the better like instead of buying her flowers pick some! instead of buying a card make one!

heres a good tip, the next time you talk on the phone, talk about the things your gonna do that night, even if its lame, like staying in watching tv, and keep talking about the movie and **** your doing that night WITHOUT inviting her! after a while she will be interested about the things your doing and ask if she can come along! see! instead of asking her "do you want to hang out" just say the things your gonna do WITHOUT inviting her! it lowers your value if you keep calling and asking "what are you doing" who cares!

i have a really good book if your interested, it could help you.
but of coarse, im all wrong right.. yeah no wonder i get laid alot cuz im all wrong!.

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Sat 03/14/09 12:13 PM
And you need to flirt and make physical overtones or else you end up in the friend zone.

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Sat 03/14/09 12:18 PM
you see now that was a good response, yes you do need to flirt, its called "negs" ultimate way to flirt.

like...

i should really stop thinking about you.

i need to stop thinking how much i want you here

you need to stop looking so cute, i cant even talk to you right now.

wow you want money babe? i might give it to you if i could stop thinking on how much i want you here, come over!

wow your so hot, i need to STOP thinking how much i want to have sex with you tonight! god im so wrong to think like that!

your so cute you need to stop, im thinking bad thoughts baby!

i like your look! you know i like you! but i dont know if i can trust you, i need to stop thinking i can, cuz i like you alot.



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Sat 03/14/09 07:06 PM

turns out she had to go to the hospital she got sick , that is why i didnt hear from her


So you don't hear from her for a day and you freak, dude your really too much.

nickelback9's photo
Sun 03/15/09 06:27 AM


turns out she had to go to the hospital she got sick , that is why i didnt hear from her


So you don't hear from her for a day and you freak, dude your really too much.


hear is the update , me and her stoped talking days ago, she just doesnt know what she wants , and thats cool with me because i have found my lady ( so sorry ladys , im takin again ) well have a great day guys and gals, i will keep checking in,

this string was for fun anyway dudes , everyone is so serious !!!!laugh :wink: bigsmile slaphead waving

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Sun 03/15/09 06:57 AM
So within the span of 5 days you have moved on from this lady you have been after for 2 years, and found a new one.

Are you saving up money for the next divorce? Vegas sounds fitting. Maybe a nice drive through chapel with elvis at the window.

nickelback9's photo
Sun 03/15/09 07:09 AM

So within the span of 5 days you have moved on from this lady you have been after for 2 years, and found a new one.

Are you saving up money for the next divorce? Vegas sounds fitting. Maybe a nice drive through chapel with elvis at the window.



it is what it is , she was just playing me for money anyway , wich she never got from me, and yes i am going to get my divorce soon, but not going to get remarried again !!!!rofl ill slaphead noway

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