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Topic: Have you ever been into Toxic Friendship ????
therapy30's photo
Tue 03/31/09 11:34 AM

Isent that the stage between engagement and marriage.........huh


what

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Tue 03/31/09 11:49 AM

Have you landed yourself with a friend who drains your self-esteem, confidence, social life or bank account? and whats your detox for such kind of friends ???


Good Morning everyone.




Have a winning day:thumbsup:



Most of my "toxic" friendships turned into "toxic" relationships which turned into "toxic" breakups which turned into where I am now...So I have no idea

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Tue 03/31/09 12:09 PM


Have you landed yourself with a friend who drains your self-esteem, confidence, social life or bank account? and whats your detox for such kind of friends ???


Good Morning everyone.




Have a winning day:thumbsup:



Most of my "toxic" friendships turned into "toxic" relationships which turned into "toxic" breakups which turned into where I am now...So I have no idea


just wondering, how a toxic friendship developed into a relationship.











Anyway, I am not thinking anymore.....very toxic for my mind.laugh

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Tue 03/31/09 12:41 PM
Cheers Therapy30, Self awareness is golden!
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Tue 03/31/09 12:45 PM
Edited by therapy30 on Tue 03/31/09 12:50 PM

Cheers Therapy30, Self awareness is golden!
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yeah right..stage 1, stage 2, stage 3 laugh
flowerforyou

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Tue 03/31/09 02:20 PM
I am happy this subject came up, because I still have problems with two female and we use to hang out years ago and now I know why I have out grow them, because they are still two faces and jealous. I am thinking about changing my phone number. I tell you some people can dain the hell out of you, if you let them. I no longer deal with my sister and I try to, but it did not work. She is jealous of me, she lied on me, call social service on me, because I will nat give her any money( Yes, I am a good parent and I take care of my business) and the list goes on with her. I believe she have an mental problem. Right now I don't have any friends and I rather be alone then to surround myself with silly people. Besides I rather have men friends, because you just can't get alone with some of these females and that is my opinion. Oh yeah, I just cut their azz loose.

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Tue 03/31/09 02:26 PM
I am still learning on having distance with people that aren't healthy for me, it seems that I attract all the needy as they feed off my strength and in return drain me.. Someone used the terminology of weeding, saying that I needed to sit down and weed the people out of my life didn't mean I couldn't help others out but they had to also be willing to help themselves... I sit back and think how many I have helped and when I needed help no one was around.. It really allowed me to see the type of people I was allowing to befriend me...


flowerforyou

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Tue 03/31/09 02:31 PM
Several. That's why I glow in the dark..,.laugh

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Tue 03/31/09 02:31 PM
Edited by Sandcrab on Tue 03/31/09 02:31 PM
rofl rofl rofl

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Wed 04/01/09 08:18 AM

I am happy this subject came up, because I still have problems with two female and we use to hang out years ago and now I know why I have out grow them, because they are still two faces and jealous. I am thinking about changing my phone number. I tell you some people can dain the hell out of you, if you let them. I no longer deal with my sister and I try to, but it did not work. She is jealous of me, she lied on me, call social service on me, because I will nat give her any money( Yes, I am a good parent and I take care of my business) and the list goes on with her. I believe she have an mental problem. Right now I don't have any friends and I rather be alone then to surround myself with silly people. Besides I rather have men friends, because you just can't get alone with some of these females and that is my opinion. Oh yeah, I just cut their azz loose.


flowerforyou

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Wed 04/01/09 09:36 AM

Have you landed yourself with a friend who drains your self-esteem, confidence, social life or bank account? and whats your detox for such kind of friends ???


Good Morning everyone.




Have a winning day:thumbsup:


Yeah. I've had dealings with people like that in some way or another. Heck- I've even had relationships with girlfriends who were like that in some way. It ain't fun under any circumstances.

I usually deal with them by NOT dealing with them- they usually get thrown out on their ass at some point.

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