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Topic: why is it
Jhavez Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 15557	Mon 07/13/09 04:26 PM
Of course the "dumpee" doesn't want the "dumper" out there banging someone right away, but it happens. sorry I was the dumper not the dumpee and it was 3 months ago If you are the dumper, why are you crying? If that person is out there ho-bagging, then you made the right choice. Move on girl.

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Mon 07/13/09 04:33 PM
BB, in my experience, I think those who go right for the physical are looking for a band aid. They want to feel better and moving on to someone else makes them feel wanted, loved, appreciated, blah blah blah. I'm more of the stay home and feel what I feel kind of person. You feel your emotions, own them, evaluate the relationship, what you could have done better, what you did well. I'm hoping the time I took made me better. As a person, as a lover, even as a friend.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Mon 07/13/09 04:35 PM
after a breakup men can sleep with every hobag in town and the chicks stay home and cry? because i can sleep with every hobag and you can't

Buttah Joined Fri 06/19/09 Posts: 2382	Mon 07/13/09 04:45 PM
I would sleep with every RKISIT in town!

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Mon 07/13/09 04:47 PM
I would sleep with every RKISIT in town! me too

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Mon 07/13/09 04:59 PM
I would sleep with every RKISIT in town! You might of just bagged a ho....

simple_me Joined Sat 06/27/09 Posts: 6	Mon 07/13/09 07:48 PM
hooh...

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 07/13/09 07:52 PM
I would sleep with every RKISIT in town! me too Those RKISIT's are everywhere

Rockmybobbysocks Joined Thu 10/30/08 Posts: 3961	Mon 07/13/09 08:23 PM
some people find they cannot be alone or handle being without a partner so they find one sexually. others however stay at home and become hermits.

earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Mon 07/13/09 08:27 PM Edited by earthytaurus76 on Mon 07/13/09 08:27 PM
Ive come to the conclusion that much like women who sleep around because they have "daddy issues" Need to be loved, need a father figureee.. acceptancee,..need whateverrr.. Men are the same.. Mommy issues. They are not freakin invincible.

7z3r05 Joined Thu 09/04/08 Posts: 9434	Mon 07/13/09 08:28 PM
after a breakup men can sleep with every hobag in town and the chicks stay home and cry? i didnt do that. i sat at home and suffered. thanks.

Slyther83 Joined Sat 04/18/09 Posts: 645	Mon 07/13/09 08:29 PM
men have an easier time of repressing their emotions i think. ...which is why women arent allowed in combat. ONO HE DINT GO THERE. oh i did, i most certainly did.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 07/13/09 08:29 PM


earthytaurus76 Joined Wed 04/08/09 Posts: 6603	Mon 07/13/09 08:32 PM
men have an easier time of repressing their emotions i think. ...which is why women arent allowed in combat. ONO HE DINT GO THERE. oh i did, i most certainly did. I agree they should be the ones in combat, but I think men are more conditioned to hide it, thats all.

AdventureBegins Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 7666	Mon 07/13/09 08:35 PM
The op is just not cool. this man takes a time out after the breakup of a long term relationship. Assimulating data and coping...(we get into them as much as do some women - long term ment we WANTED to be there). Only then do I 'jump every ho-bag in sight' Not really... that is when I stick my head out of my burrow s l o w l y and sniff the air... Cause some O' yall are preditors!