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GRIFFIN_LIZZARD Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 7186	Tue 07/28/09 02:29 PM
How much stock do you put into something someone tells you about someone you like that is not a good thing, do you ask the person if it's true or not or do you just take the word of that person telling you and never get the friend's side?

Tazz42 Joined Fri 02/29/08 Posts: 9660	Tue 07/28/09 02:32 PM
Griff, You make your own judgement...what you think is what matters Always ask. Trust your instinct! If you don't, you may make a big mistake that could have been the best thing that has ever happened to you.

daytime Joined Sat 04/25/09 Posts: 2735	Tue 07/28/09 02:35 PM
*********** DO NOT EVER LISTEN TO GOSSIP'S********BIG TIME TROUBLE MAKERS

seamac Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 3104	Tue 07/28/09 02:36 PM
That would depend on how well I know and trust the friend telling me the bad stuff. Usually I would ask the 'new' friend - there may be truth in what you were told but from a different perspective. Things are not always what they seem. I found out a lot of stuff about my son's "biological sperm doner", as we call him, after it was to late. Wish my friends had fessed up sooner...not that I would want to be without my son, just that they knew bad stuff about this man. Said they were hoping he had changed so kept quiet. So I guess I say listen, then ask.

prisoner Joined Tue 01/06/09 Posts: 5129	Tue 07/28/09 02:37 PM
Can you repeat the question? be seeing you

seamac Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 3104	Tue 07/28/09 02:37 PM
*********** DO NOT EVER LISTEN TO GOSSIP'S********BIG TIME TROUBLE MAKERS that too, add that to my post!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 07/28/09 02:37 PM
How much stock do you put into something someone tells you about someone you like that is not a good thing, do you ask the person if it's true or not or do you just take the word of that person telling you and never get the friend's side? I always believe the worst about people

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Tue 07/28/09 02:39 PM
Always listen to you gut feeling.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 07/28/09 02:39 PM
I'm stubborn, so if I like someone, I like them til they give me reason not to. Not sure if this is good or bad...

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 7186	Tue 07/28/09 02:40 PM
I'm stubborn, so if I like someone, I like them til they give me reason not to. Not sure if this is good or bad... So you say make the friend show you they are bad, don't listen to rumors and accept they are.

prisoner Joined Tue 01/06/09 Posts: 5129	Tue 07/28/09 02:41 PM
How much stock do you put into something someone tells you about someone you like that is not a good thing, do you ask the person if it's true or not or do you just take the word of that person telling you and never get the friend's side? I always believe the worst about people I agree. be seeing you

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 07/28/09 02:45 PM
I'm stubborn, so if I like someone, I like them til they give me reason not to. Not sure if this is good or bad... So you say make the friend show you they are bad, don't listen to rumors and accept they are. Yeah, I guess I'm too loyal. And if someone tries to tell me I shouldn't hang out with someone, or do something, that only makes me want to do it more. I'm a typical hard-headed Capricorn.

evilbabe277 Joined Thu 02/19/09 Posts: 2751	Tue 07/28/09 02:47 PM
How much stock do you put into something someone tells you about someone you like that is not a good thing, do you ask the person if it's true or not or do you just take the word of that person telling you and never get the friend's side? It's as simple as this, if you are going to listen to the friend verses the one you like whats the sense of liking her when apparently you already don't trust her? Sometimes we have to stop and ask ourselves these little questions... Hope all goes well

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 7186	Tue 07/28/09 02:47 PM
I'm stubborn, so if I like someone, I like them til they give me reason not to. Not sure if this is good or bad... So you say make the friend show you they are bad, don't listen to rumors and accept they are. Yeah, I guess I'm too loyal. And if someone tries to tell me I shouldn't hang out with someone, or do something, that only makes me want to do it more. I'm a typical hard-headed Capricorn. LOL... I see....

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 07/28/09 02:48 PM
How much stock do you put into something someone tells you about someone you like that is not a good thing, do you ask the person if it's true or not or do you just take the word of that person telling you and never get the friend's side? It's as simple as this, if you are going to listen to the friend verses the one you like whats the sense of liking her when apparently you already don't trust her? Sometimes we have to stop and ask ourselves these little questions... Hope all goes well good point

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 7186	Tue 07/28/09 02:51 PM
How much stock do you put into something someone tells you about someone you like that is not a good thing, do you ask the person if it's true or not or do you just take the word of that person telling you and never get the friend's side? It's as simple as this, if you are going to listen to the friend verses the one you like whats the sense of liking her when apparently you already don't trust her? Sometimes we have to stop and ask ourselves these little questions... Hope all goes well No No, thats not exactly it... a friend gets told something by someone and then the friend decides that has to be true and no more friendship... without even asking about the truthfullness of the rumor. Thats the senario.

Calleigh12 Joined Tue 04/01/08 Posts: 17193	Tue 07/28/09 02:52 PM
How much stock do you put into something someone tells you about someone you like that is not a good thing, do you ask the person if it's true or not or do you just take the word of that person telling you and never get the friend's side? It's as simple as this, if you are going to listen to the friend verses the one you like whats the sense of liking her when apparently you already don't trust her? Sometimes we have to stop and ask ourselves these little questions... Hope all goes well No No, thats not exactly it... a friend gets told something by someone and then the friend decides that has to be true and no more friendship... without even asking about the truthfullness of the rumor. Thats the senario. That's not a true friend then, that's a sheep, I don't trust sheep.

Tazz42 Joined Fri 02/29/08 Posts: 9660	Tue 07/28/09 02:53 PM
How much stock do you put into something someone tells you about someone you like that is not a good thing, do you ask the person if it's true or not or do you just take the word of that person telling you and never get the friend's side? It's as simple as this, if you are going to listen to the friend verses the one you like whats the sense of liking her when apparently you already don't trust her? Sometimes we have to stop and ask ourselves these little questions... Hope all goes well No No, thats not exactly it... a friend gets told something by someone and then the friend decides that has to be true and no more friendship... without even asking about the truthfullness of the rumor. Thats the senario. Sounds to me like that "friend" wasn't willing to see two sides to a story.....Maybe it is just as well.

GRIFFIN_LIZZARD Joined Mon 02/16/09 Posts: 7186	Tue 07/28/09 02:54 PM
Bummer

evilbabe277 Joined Thu 02/19/09 Posts: 2751	Tue 07/28/09 03:00 PM
Bummer It sounds a bit back to grade school to me, but when I am faced with someone telling me something about someone else I'm like really lets go talk to so and so face to face and get this cleared up, if they back off its a lie and well if they face the person they are speaking about it normaly gets settled...