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Topic: ex's or not
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Sat 08/15/09 10:38 AM



what do you mean?


i'm just complimenting u mate, don't worry bout it drinker


Hey i appreciate that man i do. I dont get alot of compliments anymore. my name is Sgt. A$$hole from my new boots. By the way, the names Dex.


u don't get many compliments? are the women blind u meet? :wink:

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Sat 08/15/09 10:41 AM
I would at least make a general statement about how its a turnoff to hear about the man your datings ex. Boundries.

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Sat 08/15/09 10:43 AM
I dont know man. I just aint got the luck. The ones ive been with have been psycho! But really if any girl wants to be with me, they gotta realize, ive got two little ones that come along.

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Sat 08/15/09 10:50 AM
well i've had the male psycho's then. i don't see u havin a problem 2 little boys or not :smile:

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Sat 08/15/09 10:53 AM

well i've had the male psycho's then. i don't see u havin a problem 2 little boys or not :smile:

well any girl here recently thats found out that i have 2 sons, have tucked tail and ran the other way.

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Sat 08/15/09 10:56 AM


well i've had the male psycho's then. i don't see u havin a problem 2 little boys or not :smile:

well any girl here recently thats found out that i have 2 sons, have tucked tail and ran the other way.


be positive Dex, they obviously weren't worth ur time, better they run now than later.

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Sat 08/15/09 10:57 AM

I would at least make a general statement about how its a turnoff to hear about the man your datings ex. Boundries.


Agree. I would let them know right away and also see their reaction. It is always possible they can stop this behavior.

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Sat 08/15/09 10:59 AM
ya know what, youre right. Thanks

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Sat 08/15/09 11:01 AM
drinker drinker flowerforyou

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Sat 08/15/09 11:01 AM
I would be so out of there..I once had a ex who always talked about his ex wife.He kept on trying to make me into his exwife.I told him to go back to her.He never did.Last I heard he's on his 4th wife.laugh

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Sat 08/15/09 11:02 AM
How bout it everyone??

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Sat 08/15/09 11:02 AM
I have another perspective on this. Maybe they feel comfortable talking to you about how they feel about their ex. Maybe they have mixed emotions or unresolved issues and they feel safe expressing that to you. Maybe you can give them a perspective they can't see and appreciate your insight.

Just a thought.

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Tue 08/18/09 12:44 PM

I have another perspective on this. Maybe they feel comfortable talking to you about how they feel about their ex. Maybe they have mixed emotions or unresolved issues and they feel safe expressing that to you. Maybe you can give them a perspective they can't see and appreciate your insight.

Just a thought.



WoW Chrissy, you are pretty smart.:smile:

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Tue 08/18/09 12:47 PM

if you are talking to someone and they keep talking about their ex all the time when does it get to be too much ..and if they refer to them as their wife instead of their ex wife ..i mean whats up with that??noway



My ex did that all of the time. Turns out it was because he found that thin line between love and hate. He wasn't/isn't over her and it will be a while before he is. He and I are still friends and I listen when he needs to talk.

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Tue 08/18/09 12:48 PM




what do you mean?


i'm just complimenting u mate, don't worry bout it drinker


Hey i appreciate that man i do. I dont get alot of compliments anymore. my name is Sgt. A$$hole from my new boots. By the way, the names Dex.


u don't get many compliments? are the women blind u meet? :wink:



Don't believe him Fife...Teri and I both told him he was a cutie :tongue:

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Tue 08/18/09 12:54 PM

I have another perspective on this. Maybe they feel comfortable talking to you about how they feel about their ex. Maybe they have mixed emotions or unresolved issues and they feel safe expressing that to you. Maybe you can give them a perspective they can't see and appreciate your insight.

Just a thought.


Well put....flowerforyou

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Tue 08/18/09 01:01 PM
Edited by AGoodGuy1026 on Tue 08/18/09 01:01 PM

I have another perspective on this. Maybe they feel comfortable talking to you about how they feel about their ex. Maybe they have mixed emotions or unresolved issues and they feel safe expressing that to you. Maybe you can give them a perspective they can't see and appreciate your insight.

Just a thought.


I would agree, if you wanted to be a friend, or their shrink... BUT - it seems he is not letting go...

I don't think it's good to mix relationship partner with issues fit for a shrink... I mean - it's not her job to "fix" him... he needs to fix himself... i.e. it may be too early....

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