Topic: Deal Breakers -part II- unique no compromises
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Fri 08/28/09 07:23 PM
Ok. Part I of Deal Breakers, I messed up. I didn't ask it correctly.

Clearly no one wants to be lied too. If they assassinated a world leader, deals over. Ya, I get it. No kidding.


What are unique, unto yourself, that maybe no one else would quite understand - in fact - they might even give u the noway look in mid conversation.


This is what I'm trying to figure out. I all ready know I dont want a girl to lie to me, or call me dip$**** everyday and treat me like crap. Clearly.


Unique, or maybe THE biggest deal breaker of em all - maybe something you've broken up with somebody before - maybe you didn't like the way the cooked - couldn't stand there style of clothing so it ruined the whole thing.

Your own unique deal breakers - or are there none? I really dont know, maybe we all want the same thing basically.

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 08/28/09 07:25 PM
He can't be a jerk to my sons..or try to be their dad.

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Fri 08/28/09 07:26 PM

He can't be a jerk to my sons..or try to be their dad.



That is what I'm looking for.

No.

I don't mean I'm looking to be someones dad.


I mean,that type of answer.


gracias

Cambolaya65's photo
Fri 08/28/09 07:28 PM
a day to day negative outlook.........sick deal broken!

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 08/28/09 07:30 PM
:smile: If they are reptilian,its over:smile:

Ladylid2012's photo
Fri 08/28/09 07:31 PM


He can't be a jerk to my sons..or try to be their dad.



That is what I'm looking for.

No.

I don't mean I'm looking to be someones dad.


I mean,that type of answer.


gracias


rofl rofl

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 08/28/09 07:36 PM
Treating wait staff or store clerks badly

Calling me names

Passive-Aggressive Behaviour

Addictions: Alcohol, Drugs, Gambling, Porn

If they are a parent - being irresponsible with their children or not paying child support

Being mean to animals

Bully behaviour

Being narrow-minded and overly judgmental

Possessiveness and jealousy

LewisW123's photo
Sat 08/29/09 03:53 AM
Weed 'em out before you get into a relationship - my post in your first thread:

Before you get into a relationship with them, like on the first few dates:
1. Are they rude, disrespectful to others, like wait-staff, cab drivers. etc?
2. Are they uncomfortable with or even scared to be around people of different ages, children, elderly?
3. Are they self-centered, talk about themselves incessantly, reveal WAY too much on the first date, blame all their problems on other people (parents, siblings, exs)?
4. Do they have a plan? For next week, next year, 10years, life?
5. Do they like their career, and if not, what are they going to do about it?
6. Do they listen, give well thought, sound advice (even if you don't agree with it)?
7. Do they have a sense of humor?
8. Inflexible. They kinda freak out if things don't go as planned. It's o.k. to be neat and organized, but even that type of person should be able to roll with things once around.

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Sat 08/29/09 02:58 PM

Weed 'em out before you get into a relationship - my post in your first thread:

Before you get into a relationship with them, like on the first few dates:
1. Are they rude, disrespectful to others, like wait-staff, cab drivers. etc?
2. Are they uncomfortable with or even scared to be around people of different ages, children, elderly?
3. Are they self-centered, talk about themselves incessantly, reveal WAY too much on the first date, blame all their problems on other people (parents, siblings, exs)?
4. Do they have a plan? For next week, next year, 10years, life?
5. Do they like their career, and if not, what are they going to do about it?
6. Do they listen, give well thought, sound advice (even if you don't agree with it)?
7. Do they have a sense of humor?
8. Inflexible. They kinda freak out if things don't go as planned. It's o.k. to be neat and organized, but even that type of person should be able to roll with things once around.



Hmmm I would say being controlling. A biggie for me is also not truly understanding who I am. On the other hand, I am complex and have multiple levels, so I get that is is difficult.

Gossipmpm's photo
Sat 08/29/09 03:00 PM
A whining man!!

Really

It's so Girly to me!!

MeChrissy2's photo
Sat 08/29/09 04:22 PM

Weed 'em out before you get into a relationship - my post in your first thread:

Before you get into a relationship with them, like on the first few dates:
1. Are they rude, disrespectful to others, like wait-staff, cab drivers. etc?
2. Are they uncomfortable with or even scared to be around people of different ages, children, elderly?
3. Are they self-centered, talk about themselves incessantly, reveal WAY too much on the first date, blame all their problems on other people (parents, siblings, exs)?
4. Do they have a plan? For next week, next year, 10years, life?
5. Do they like their career, and if not, what are they going to do about it?
6. Do they listen, give well thought, sound advice (even if you don't agree with it)?
7. Do they have a sense of humor?
8. Inflexible. They kinda freak out if things don't go as planned. It's o.k. to be neat and organized, but even that type of person should be able to roll with things once around.



Lewis, I will be sending all my prospective dates to you. Please send back any that qualify.

Cflowerforyou

Quietman_2009's photo
Sat 08/29/09 05:05 PM
Noooooooooooooooooooooooooo psychobeetches!