But the iron on ones last a bit longer. And are cheaper. Thanks for the advice though.

First problem is you're meeting at a bar. It's like my friend Will's Dad used to say:

"How are you going to meet someone good in a bar? If they were a good person, they wouldn't be in the bar in the first place."

Ok, i'm gonna come out of the closet.

This is how I really look. I photoshop off my curly hair and mustache:

I disagree. Just because you like the night life doesnt make you a bad person. Thats what some people are into. If you choose to meet at a bar and have a drink, there absolutely nothing wrong with that. Sometimes a glass of wine or maybe a beer or two may open you up and become more talkative and not so shy so you can get to know eachother.

Some people like the social life...that doesnt mean anything other than thats what they like.

Still hot.

If you promise not to try and iron any tattoos on me, I'll buy you a drink in a bar sometime. We will have a blast being "bad".

Nah...we'll go get you a real one after you've gotten some liquid courage.

I disagree. I go to the bar to hang out with friends and to have fun. I don't pick up guys at the bar because I'm not looking for anything like that...but I am a good person.

To the OP....he just might not be your type (which is fine) but I fail to see why it is embarrassing

i go to observe people at nightclubs and such, but don't participate in drinking, and i've met some amazing people that were enjoying their life, cutting loose, and having fun dancing and what have you, and have met great clients, nice nerdy, geeky, people to date, and good quality friends......so you're saying what?

that i'm bad? oh my! i just may be, (i'm hidious to look at yes, so judge me on that too please) and everyone that has ever set foot in a bar, reguardless of why they are there, are less that human, evil, bad people?

are you going by first impressions? are you one of those people that need to put people in a box and category, so you feel safe?

you will hurt people's feelings here if you go by impression, for that does not allow people to grow out of what you have categorized them for. so..........how would you feel if it were you?

make the best of it....talk, laugh, drink!!!!