Maybe its the way you are looking at it. We are all growing and experiencing new things at every age. The fact that you have dated a lot tells me that you are experiencing different kinds of woman, different shapes, emotional states, education levels, backgrounds, etc. So now is the time when you can be deciding for yourself what type of shape, personality, etc. you like in a woman. So maybe there its a good thing you haven't found her yet. Then maybe you will know her when you see her.

Put out,or get out....

in every relationship i have been in everything seems fine. after about a month the relationship ends. they always say the same thing " you really are a great guy" if i am, what happened? i just dont understand where these relationships are going bad. im not mean, although i will occasionally joke around, along the lines of calling them a big head or something. the only thing i can really think of is what we are both looking for. im not here for sex (celibate), i am trying to find someone to be with for a long time or for the rest of my life. and for the most part i think they are trying to get something physical out of me or just not looking for a serious relationship.

Kids these days. Want everything yesterday and for it to last forever. Take a chill pill and pace yourself.

How many of these "relationships" have you had??? I'm lucky someone knows anything but my screenname in a month...and this is with me have met them in person. I say if the person is still around 6 months from the time we meet, he'll find out. No use in getting too involved too soon. )

You are 18...of course, you think a month is forever in terms of connecting with someone and consider it a long term relationship. Heck, that's like half a summer even. Where does the time go????

Look, you seem like a nice enough kid. No use in getting wrapped up in one person. I'm not saying go screw your brains out with a bunch of different people...but you got a whole life ahead of you to find your forever person. Go to school and get an education then worry about other things. (Dammit, I just turned into my mom there

i have been in 3 relationships. i always know the person for a long time before we date, at least 3 months. it just takes me a while to commit to a relationships due to not wanting to get hurt (like that works).

yea i know that, just sucks. i guess its just my situation that i am kinda wanting to get into something fast. and theres nothing wrong with turning into your mum.

You will have more relationships. Some gonna last longer, some gonna be short. If you're lucky you might hook on the next one or the one after. I'm 34, I had 5 relationships. The shortest one was about 4 months. The longest one was 5 years. I've never been married. You aren't missing out on anything. It's not you who is the problem, but the world. Over the years, i have noticed it's harder and harder to find anyone who is serious about to commit for a serious relationship, but hopefully things will change for the better.

Age doesn't matter in regards to who wants a serious relationship. I've known men in their 30s who didn't want one, and I've known men in their 20s who did. So it just depends on the person. It helps if you talk to them upfront about what they want so you don't waste time on someone who doesn't have the same goals as you.