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Topic: psssssst hey new people..
DKD1 Joined Tue 04/06/10 Posts: 13	Fri 04/09/10 10:44 PM
ok ok I'm posting did my numbers go up? j/k I do agree that is with any board/site. Thanks for the advise.

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15104	Fri 04/09/10 10:47 PM
ok ok I'm posting did my numbers go up? j/k I do agree that is with any board/site. Thanks for the advise. Welcome

bedlum1 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 5335	Fri 04/09/10 11:36 PM
ok ok I'm posting did my numbers go up? j/k I do agree that is with any board/site. Thanks for the advise. your gonna do just fine... very good attitude...and welcome sweety..

bedlum1 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 5335	Sat 04/10/10 09:31 AM
i see a lot of impatience with some of you and then i look at the amount of posts that some of you have made and see very very low numbers....do me a favor and take a look at the numbers below mine or other peoples pics.... alot of people are still looking after many posts....HAVE PATIENCE.... and you would do better if you joined some of the threads and join in the sillieness and discussions for awhile before you started randomly emailing people...you see if you participate in these threads and (rember this part)honestly be youeself,you will make friends and people get a chance to see a snap shot of your personality(not just what you write in your profile because lets face it WORDS ARE CHEAP) you give them a chance to know you and make educated decisions then.....so relax , post, and be patient... your mingle2 friend (((jeff))) ps...good luck

DKD1 Joined Tue 04/06/10 Posts: 13	Sat 04/10/10 12:55 PM
ty ty, I kinda hang out and lurk and learn then I will be all in it before I know what hit me. plus I have some help :)

bedlum1 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 5335	Sat 04/10/10 12:58 PM
ty ty, I kinda hang out and lurk and learn then I will be all in it before I know what hit me. plus I have some help :) your doing good

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sat 04/10/10 01:15 PM
<-------------------------------bwah hahahahaha!!! I must have the patience of a zen monk!!!

bedlum1 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 5335	Sat 04/10/10 01:16 PM
<-------------------------------bwah hahahahaha!!! I must have the patience of a zen monk!!! yep but too much cynicism to be one

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Sat 04/10/10 01:20 PM
<-------------------------------bwah hahahahaha!!! I must have the patience of a zen monk!!! yep but too much cynicism to be one dunno what you mean.......... I'm just the gate keeper of lecherous predators for unsuspecting newbies... ...really....I am.... I have a badge and everyfink!

bedlum1 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 5335	Sat 04/10/10 01:22 PM
<-------------------------------bwah hahahahaha!!! I must have the patience of a zen monk!!! yep but too much cynicism to be one dunno what you mean.......... I'm just the gate keeper of lecherous predators for unsuspecting newbies... ...really....I am.... I have a badge and everyfink! put down the badge and step away from the emoticons!!!

Iaasc Joined Sat 04/10/10 Posts: 1	Sat 04/10/10 08:59 PM
But what people like me that just lurk around and read posts and such but never post, I mean I'm a crazy shy person D:

bedlum1 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 5335	Sat 04/10/10 09:15 PM
But what people like me that just lurk around and read posts and such but never post, I mean I'm a crazy shy person D: its better to try and join in that way people get to know you and befriend you...otherwise you probably wont meet anyone...i mean most people i know wont answer a random email from a stranger specialy for a hook up...lol..... maybe you can use the site like therapy for your shyness

zanne46 Joined Sun 07/01/07 Posts: 5610	Sat 04/10/10 09:24 PM Edited by zanne46 on Sat 04/10/10 09:25 PM
But what people like me that just lurk around and read posts and such but never post, I mean I'm a crazy shy person D: its better to try and join in that way people get to know you and befriend you...otherwise you probably wont meet anyone...i mean most people i know wont answer a random email from a stranger specialy for a hook up...lol..... maybe you can use the site like therapy for your shyness what I did when I started coming on quite a few different sites.... was.....I read some post for a time, introduced myself by jumping in,then went back to reading, I learned the ppl's personalities and their humor, and passions in life, and alll the other sillly stuff. Then, I started....I followed a few ppl I really enjoyed what they had to say. After that...I was a pro....lol Now I'm back at little league but I'm progessing towards better..what ever.. Lot of cool, good ppl here... Come play..... point....ur shyness will...be less....

bedlum1 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 5335	Sat 04/10/10 09:44 PM
nice back up...thank you zanne

gstaats7938 Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 515	Sat 04/10/10 10:12 PM
man...ive got a long way to go...my numbers are way low and im on here all of the time...guess im just not as big of a talker as i thought...its either that or im doing way to much homework and need to cut that down and post more on here...lol

bedlum1 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 5335	Sat 04/10/10 10:25 PM
man...ive got a long way to go...my numbers are way low and im on here all of the time...guess im just not as big of a talker as i thought...its either that or im doing way to much homework and need to cut that down and post more on here...lol you could do that...it might help your studies

gstaats7938 Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 515	Sat 04/10/10 10:27 PM
man...ive got a long way to go...my numbers are way low and im on here all of the time...guess im just not as big of a talker as i thought...its either that or im doing way to much homework and need to cut that down and post more on here...lol you could do that...it might help your studies naaa...maybe i should study more...make good grades so i can get a job where i dont have to do much and then post a lot to get mine higher...lol

bedlum1 Joined Tue 05/12/09 Posts: 5335	Sat 04/10/10 10:32 PM
man...ive got a long way to go...my numbers are way low and im on here all of the time...guess im just not as big of a talker as i thought...its either that or im doing way to much homework and need to cut that down and post more on here...lol you could do that...it might help your studies naaa...maybe i should study more...make good grades so i can get a job where i dont have to do much and then post a lot to get mine higher...lol or you could do it from your phone when your bored like me....or just stay on it for years......the point is if you dont join in threads or create your own here and there it is harder for people to get to know you...thats all..

gstaats7938 Joined Sun 03/22/09 Posts: 515	Sat 04/10/10 10:37 PM
man...ive got a long way to go...my numbers are way low and im on here all of the time...guess im just not as big of a talker as i thought...its either that or im doing way to much homework and need to cut that down and post more on here...lol you could do that...it might help your studies naaa...maybe i should study more...make good grades so i can get a job where i dont have to do much and then post a lot to get mine higher...lol or you could do it from your phone when your bored like me....or just stay on it for years......the point is if you dont join in threads or create your own here and there it is harder for people to get to know you...thats all.. yeah i def understand that...guess ill just have to take a little longer than others getting myself known...oh well...good things come to those who wait

jetlions Joined Fri 04/09/10 Posts: 742	Sat 04/10/10 10:40 PM
Im a newbie and read this post. Thanks!