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A strong sexual desire that cannot be met with just one partner? I'd say that sums it up. Let's not overthink this....It seems pretty simple. Thanks, I thought it was a GREAT answer as well  IT WAS! I hate to become the enemy here, but I have cheated once, (I wasn't married), but sometimes the heart just wants what it wants. My lady and I were drifting apart, and I met someone who was interesting, and good looking and........ WOW, it takes a lot to admit that here. I applaud you for admitting it. I am also certain, that you know next time to "end" the relationship first, if it should ever come up again. I hope? |
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A strong sexual desire that cannot be met with just one partner? I'd say that sums it up. Let's not overthink this....It seems pretty simple. Thanks, I thought it was a GREAT answer as well IT WAS! I hate to become the enemy here, but I have cheated once, (I wasn't married), but sometimes the heart just wants what it wants. My lady and I were drifting apart, and I met someone who was interesting, and good looking and........ WOW, it takes a lot to admit that here. I applaud you for admitting it. I am also certain, that you know next time to "end" the relationship first, if it should ever come up again. I hope? Absolutely. It was wrong, wrong, wrong. It was an unbelievably selfish act. (Do I sound like Tiger Woods?) The most selfish thing I've ever done actually, and would never do it again. But to answer the question WHY? It wasn't complicated. You summed it up nicely. |
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Thank you!
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Fri 04/16/10 07:06 PM
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Why do you think people cheat? Not whether it's right or wrong or what you would do, but why. The chemistry is broken. They are out to seek a thrilling adventure, which means that their partner couldn't provide what they were looking for. It's a lack of understanding and trust. I used to have a new dirty idea now and then and whisper it into her ear. Sometimes she said "eeww, you'd do that??" But I know she liked it..just playing hard to get. 
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Thank you! It happened 3 years ago and I still feel bad about it. There's nothing I can do to change it, just learn from it, understand the regrets I still have, and apply them towards the future. They say "Once a cheater, Always a cheater." I can't blame anyone who feels that way, because I have also been cheated on (afterwards) and it hurt soooooooooo bad. But I know I won't. |
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Thank you! It happened 3 years ago and I still feel bad about it. There's nothing I can do to change it, just learn from it, understand the regrets I still have, and apply them towards the future. They say "Once a cheater, Always a cheater." I can't blame anyone who feels that way, because I have also been cheated on (afterwards) and it hurt soooooooooo bad. But I know I won't. I have never agreed with that statement WHEN it comes to someone that openly admits to it. I have the highest respect for you in the admitting part. It took guts. |
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Thank you! It happened 3 years ago and I still feel bad about it. There's nothing I can do to change it, just learn from it, understand the regrets I still have, and apply them towards the future. They say "Once a cheater, Always a cheater." I can't blame anyone who feels that way, because I have also been cheated on (afterwards) and it hurt soooooooooo bad. But I know I won't. I have never agreed with that statement WHEN it comes to someone that openly admits to it. I have the highest respect for you in the admitting part. It took guts. Not really......I was just reading all the horrible things everyone was saying about cheaters....And they weren't wrong......but I felt compelled, as someone who doesn't view himself as the scum of the earth to offer a thought on why it might happen. It didn't feel so wrong at the time.......but it was so hurtful......How could I hurt someone that I cared about like that?? And not be a bad guy?? The truth is, if you hurt someone like that you ARE a bad guy. I can't hurt anyone like that again. (Sorry for the rant) |
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Temptation.
Sometimes you do not know how good you have it until things are gone. I don't buy into people cheating just for the thrill. I think people cheat because they can't resist the temptation. Shiny toys are always more appealing than the old ones for little kids. Same line of thinking. |
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They are always looking for greener grass....
even when the grass is as green and beautiful and smooth to the touch and view......they don't know how to embrace what they have.... They think it's manlyyyyy or if a woman..womanly.....F*cked up... They have no clue or ability in themselves....thee..have intamisy issues....yep, yep....!!!!!! I could go on with the true facts...but I must move onto other post...to see what I missed today..  
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I just read this whole post...I agree with all said..
therefore...I don't have to put out any more thought.... wow..that was easyyyyyyyyyyy...  
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I just read this whole post...I agree with all said.. therefore...I don't have to put out any more thought.... wow..that was easyyyyyyyyyyy... now that isn't the rule 
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Maybe their partner isn't kinky enough for them
Some are very sexually frustrated at home! |
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I'll take a wild guess. Maybe some couples don't spend enough time with each other.
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