hi im having trouble with the guy im seeing he hits me all the time and calls me names and i even have profe that he is cheating on me i dont know what to do i love him so much but i cant be with a guy like that and i have told him how i feel but he dont care.

If he is hitting U he is NO man!! Get out as soon as U can cause it is not gonna stop!!! dont believe his sorry excuses, and if U have a child, U owe it to the young one to get the hell away!!

thanks for your help i know i need to but its hard bacause i do love him

What Mikey said -- Get away from him! He doesn't love you if he's abusive. Period.

ok i will thank you guys and gals for the help i really appreciate it alot

Good luck

thank you

Get out!!!!

Love is never supposed to hurt!!!

You need to leave him! he doesn't respect you at all.

ok i will i know i deserve better

A man that hits a women better keep clear of me cause I DO hit back and it will never happen it I see it!!! any man worth his weight will do the same!!

Learn to love yourself and you will see the scumbag is not worthy of you. I see a small child in the photo with you, (yours I assume?)...cut off all ties with this low-life NOW...or your child could become his next punching bag. YOU have to be the one to make the change. Protect yourself and your child!

You know it's so easy to say get out. But, that's so much easier said than done. I've been in this situation myself for 7 months & couldn't get away. I've even been held in a motel room hostage for several hours & couldn't get to the phone or door to get away. He pulled the phone out of the wall so I couldn't call for help. Once I did get out I was scared to call the police. There's a certain amount of fear when living with someone like that. I tried to leave & he'd track me down. The only thing keeping him away from me now is prison. You get to a point that anyone you turn to for help can put that person in danger too. Sexy, if you need someone to talk to feel free to email me & I'll offer whatever I can to help!! ((((Sexyin07))))

When one door close then other opens,think abt the open door.Tht person never loved you or he is coward.And stayin life wid one coward is worthless to live.So move on:0)

Ya know...

There's a wonderful mingle member who started a thread awhile back dealing with domestic violence

it pops up every now and then

if anyone knows the link. This is a great time to post it

Ummm, what you do is LEAVE. He HITS you and calls you NAMES and CHEATS on you and you still think that's 'LOVE' ... ? You may 'love' him, but he does NOT 'love' you. This is called an ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP and you are BEING ABUSED. LEAVE NOW. This will not get better with time.

Sounds like a DV case to me. You have two options. If you love him still, you can just leave. If you don't love him, you can leave and call the cops on him for domestic battery. The choice is yours.

Hi I have a friend who is going through the same thing as you. She won't leave her man cos she's been with him for years. She talks to a social worker. You don't deserve to have it happen to you. You need to get away from him fast. He is bad news. He doesn't just beat you up, but also decides to cheat on you. How unfair is that? He can't have his cake and eat it. I just dread what would happen if you never leave him. He must be quite manipulative. Get out while you can. xx

Does he use sex as a weapon to make you stay?