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Topic: Party Girl & Bad Boy Image
LoveAlina's photo
Tue 11/09/10 03:37 PM
Do you think that the "Party Girl" and/or "Bad Boy" image provide emotional fulfillment or can it hinder emotional fulfillment?

Mayhem_J's photo
Tue 11/09/10 03:38 PM
I think it provides for a good night in the sack.

LoveAlina's photo
Tue 11/09/10 03:39 PM

I think it provides for a good night in the sack.


Oh really how so?

Mayhem_J's photo
Tue 11/09/10 03:40 PM


I think it provides for a good night in the sack.


Oh really how so?



I have no facts or theories to back up my statement. I'm shooting off at the mouth. LOL!!!

LoveAlina's photo
Tue 11/09/10 03:41 PM
okay I was just curious...

RKISIT's photo
Tue 11/09/10 03:46 PM
w/o party girls high school and college parties would have been boring

LoveAlina's photo
Tue 11/09/10 03:51 PM
Edited by LoveAlina on Tue 11/09/10 03:52 PM

w/o party girls high school and college parties would have been boring


Yeah I remember those times, they were fun, but there was a downside to it as well. I still party but not like in those days.:banana:

no photo
Tue 11/09/10 03:56 PM
i'm not sure if you would file me under the "bad boy" look, but i'll tell you this. i like my privacy, so i sport a look that makes people think twice about approaching me. if they do make the initial contact, it is almost always serious, no jokes, no drama, no bull.
the web takes all that away.

LoveAlina's photo
Tue 11/09/10 04:02 PM

i'm not sure if you would file me under the "bad boy" look, but i'll tell you this. i like my privacy, so i sport a look that makes people think twice about approaching me. if they do make the initial contact, it is almost always serious, no jokes, no drama, no bull.
the web takes all that away.


People usually portray bikers as the "Bad Boy" image, however that is not always true, and it depends what people perceive the "Bad Boy" image as well. Why would you want people to think twice about approaching you especially for women I can see the men point of view..

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Tue 11/09/10 04:08 PM


i'm not sure if you would file me under the "bad boy" look, but i'll tell you this. i like my privacy, so i sport a look that makes people think twice about approaching me. if they do make the initial contact, it is almost always serious, no jokes, no drama, no bull.
the web takes all that away.


People usually portray bikers as the "Bad Boy" image, however that is not always true, and it depends what people perceive the "Bad Boy" image as well. Why would you want people to think twice about approaching you especially for women I can see the men point of view..

in person i like to make the first move. of course there are some women who will make the first move on anyone, but if they do make a move, they don't act weird. take this next sentence anyway you want. if a woman can get past my "look" she will be delighted with my mind.

LoveAlina's photo
Tue 11/09/10 04:11 PM



i'm not sure if you would file me under the "bad boy" look, but i'll tell you this. i like my privacy, so i sport a look that makes people think twice about approaching me. if they do make the initial contact, it is almost always serious, no jokes, no drama, no bull.
the web takes all that away.


People usually portray bikers as the "Bad Boy" image, however that is not always true, and it depends what people perceive the "Bad Boy" image as well. Why would you want people to think twice about approaching you especially for women I can see the men point of view..

in person i like to make the first move. of course there are some women who will make the first move on anyone, but if they do make a move, they don't act weird. take this next sentence anyway you want. if a woman can get past my "look" she will be delighted with my mind.


It is the mind that counts...:banana:

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Tue 11/09/10 04:17 PM
Edited by esebulldog on Tue 11/09/10 04:19 PM

Do you think that the "Party Girl" and/or "Bad Boy" image provide emotional fulfillment or can it hinder emotional fulfillment?

the "look" in itself is not any kind of a fulfillment. it is a means to the end. i think alot of men alter their look to attract specific types of women. it's hard to maintain a "look" that is unlike the popular ideals, yet when you don't stay true to yourself, in the end you end up with someone you don't want. imho

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Tue 11/09/10 04:20 PM
Sometimes image is what attracts people too them. Then when you talk to someone with a Party girl/ Bad boy image they turn out to be the sweetest thing. I say take a chance if anything about them interests you.You have to get to know someont to have "emotional fulfillment" And think about this, most hard core rockers are married family men. But onstage you would never imagine them mowing the lawn, or playing with thier kids.

LoveAlina's photo
Tue 11/09/10 04:21 PM


Do you think that the "Party Girl" and/or "Bad Boy" image provide emotional fulfillment or can it hinder emotional fulfillment?

the "look" in itself is not any kind of a fulfillment. it is a means to the end. i think alot of men alter their look to attract specific types of women. it's hard to maintain a "look" that is unlike the popular ideals, yet when you don't stay true to yourself, in the end you end up with someone you don't want. imho


I have to agree, I think that being true to oneself is so much easier, I rather see that in a potential partner, than an unreal image... less hassles in the end.

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Tue 11/09/10 04:23 PM

Sometimes image is what attracts people too them. Then when you talk to someone with a Party girl/ Bad boy image they turn out to be the sweetest thing. I say take a chance if anything about them interests you.You have to get to know someont to have "emotional fulfillment" And think about this, most hard core rockers are married family men. But onstage you would never imagine them mowing the lawn, or playing with thier kids.

:thumbsup:

LoveAlina's photo
Tue 11/09/10 04:44 PM

Sometimes image is what attracts people too them. Then when you talk to someone with a Party girl/ Bad boy image they turn out to be the sweetest thing. I say take a chance if anything about them interests you.You have to get to know someont to have "emotional fulfillment" And think about this, most hard core rockers are married family men. But onstage you would never imagine them mowing the lawn, or playing with thier kids.


This is true, I just sometime wonder about the negative connotations that come along with the party girl or bad boy image, and how that can impact certain areas in a relationship.

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Tue 11/09/10 05:44 PM
Thats why you have to take the time to get to know people. I had friends who's dads were Hardcore bikers, Scary looking as ever. And they had hearts of gold. Perfect example--Bulldog, looks a lil scary and hardcore. But clearly if you see his posts is a sweet guy.

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Tue 11/09/10 05:46 PM

Thats why you have to take the time to get to know people. I had friends who's dads were Hardcore bikers, Scary looking as ever. And they had hearts of gold. Perfect example--Bulldog, looks a lil scary and hardcore. But clearly if you see his posts is a sweet guy.

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fireflysgirl's photo
Tue 11/09/10 08:38 PM

Thats why you have to take the time to get to know people. I had friends who's dads were Hardcore bikers, Scary looking as ever. And they had hearts of gold. Perfect example--Bulldog, looks a lil scary and hardcore. But clearly if you see his posts is a sweet guy.


Most bikers do have hearts of gold! Raised by 'em and married one, they are the funnest guys to be around.

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Wed 11/10/10 01:45 AM

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