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Topic: sexual relationship befor marrige..good or bad
varunchauhan Joined Sat 02/26/11 Posts: 61	Sun 02/27/11 02:26 PM
hi...i just want to know from all the guys and girls, why sex is bad and why it is good before marrige? becouse we never think about if girl will be pragnent then who is responsible?

artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Sun 02/27/11 02:30 PM
In principal, there is absolutely nothing wrong with sex of any kind with anybody at any time or at any frequency. It's all the contingencies and those nasty consequences. I don't think I really have to tell your that.

varunchauhan Joined Sat 02/26/11 Posts: 61	Sun 02/27/11 02:33 PM
In principal, there is absolutely nothing wrong with sex of any kind with anybody at any time or at any frequency. It's all the contingencies and those nasty consequences. I don't think I really have to tell your that. with anybody means what?

artlo Joined Sat 01/29/11 Posts: 3085	Sun 02/27/11 02:48 PM
with anybody means what? Your girlfriend, her boyfriend, your cousin, your sister, a vacuum cleaner, a goat. All you're doing is sticking your weenie into something and having an orgasm. It's those pesky consequences that shut down your options.

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Sun 02/27/11 02:52 PM
Brother would you buy a tv without seeing the quality of the picture?........

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Sun 02/27/11 02:54 PM


drgnflychaser Joined Mon 01/10/11 Posts: 29	Sun 02/27/11 02:57 PM
Sex before marriage is a personal choice. It is deemed good or bad, morally speaking, depending on who you are talking with. Some people choose not to have sex before marriage based on religious beliefs. While others feel that you must test the sexual chemistry before marriage just in case its bad sex. For some bad sex is a deal breaker. As far as pregnancy goes, it takes 2 to make a baby so both parties are responsible. I personally believe that if a girl gets pregnant before marriage, that marriage is not required. I feel its better to have parents that are not married and happy and civil towards each other than to get married when you are not ready and hate each other because if it.

kc0003 Joined Fri 05/11/07 Posts: 26382	Sun 02/27/11 02:59 PM
consensual = good ruffies = bad....or so i hear

Riding_Dubz Joined Wed 05/21/08 Posts: 22110	Sun 02/27/11 02:59 PM
if i don't get past second base on the first date ..well you know the rest

varunchauhan Joined Sat 02/26/11 Posts: 61	Sun 02/27/11 03:10 PM
Sex before marriage is a personal choice. It is deemed good or bad, morally speaking, depending on who you are talking with. Some people choose not to have sex before marriage based on religious beliefs. While others feel that you must test the sexual chemistry before marriage just in case its bad sex. For some bad sex is a deal breaker. As far as pregnancy goes, it takes 2 to make a baby so both parties are responsible. I personally believe that if a girl gets pregnant before marriage, that marriage is not required. I feel its better to have parents that are not married and happy and civil towards each other than to get married when you are not ready and hate each other because if it. well...iam very inspired from your views your partner is so lucky. can we become a good freinds....i already send a freind request.plz accept

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sun 02/27/11 03:31 PM
hi...i just want to know from all the guys and girls, why sex is bad and why it is good before marrige? becouse we never think about if girl will be pragnent then who is responsible? any consequences of premarital sex are shared equally by the lady & gentleman involved. whether or not it is good or bad is a value judgment left up to the individuals involved. A lot of people postpone marriage these days or don't marry at all, so it had become more acceptable for long term partners to be intimate even if they might not condone casual sex , one niters, etc, they have a commitment.

ajagirl Joined Wed 10/20/10 Posts: 2256	Sun 02/27/11 07:36 PM
hi...i just want to know from all the guys and girls, why sex is bad and why it is good before marrige? becouse we never think about if girl will be pragnent then who is responsible? For me it is not good to have sex before marriage, because God specifically said so in the Bible.

JJ_Richmond07 Joined Fri 10/30/09 Posts: 602	Sun 02/27/11 07:43 PM
Really you ever seen 2 virgins on a honeymoon? that's something i'd pay to see....."Honey where does it go?" "I don't know i've never done this before" "Call room service maybe they can help"

GravelRidgeBoy Joined Thu 01/06/11 Posts: 505	Sun 02/27/11 08:36 PM
I am not saying sex needs to happen on the first date but long before any talk of marriage, at least give the guy some incentive to commit himself...lol

varunchauhan Joined Sat 02/26/11 Posts: 61	Mon 02/28/11 01:31 AM
hi...i just want to know from all the guys and girls, why sex is bad and why it is good before marrige? becouse we never think about if girl will be pragnent then who is responsible? For me it is not good to have sex before marriage, because God specifically said so in the Bible. hi sweetheart...there is lots of things mention in the BIBLE but no one follow all the things..if you beleaved sex is not good before marrige..its may be true and i realy respect to your views. but according to me it is just a part of life and we have to do..but never cheat with our partner if you make a sexual relation with any1 then you should spent your whole life as a life patner too.

ajagirl Joined Wed 10/20/10 Posts: 2256	Mon 02/28/11 04:20 AM
hi...i just want to know from all the guys and girls, why sex is bad and why it is good before marrige? becouse we never think about if girl will be pragnent then who is responsible? For me it is not good to have sex before marriage, because God specifically said so in the Bible. hi sweetheart...there is lots of things mention in the BIBLE but no one follow all the things..if you beleaved sex is not good before marrige..its may be true and i realy respect to your views. but according to me it is just a part of life and we have to do..but never cheat with our partner if you make a sexual relation with any1 then you should spent your whole life as a life patner too. I know a lot of people don't follow the Bible and it is sad,,. well at least I do follow it, and I will live with that. Thank you for respecting my views though I appreciate it.

red_lace Joined Sat 04/17/10 Posts: 7247	Mon 02/28/11 05:48 AM
I pretty much agree with drgnflychaser. Having sex before marriage is a personal choice. It doesn't make it right or wrong, and someone who chooses to practice this freedom is not made less of a person because of it.

sherry1225 Joined Sun 02/06/11 Posts: 142	Mon 02/28/11 10:32 AM Edited by sherry1225 on Mon 02/28/11 10:33 AM
It is a personal choice, but I feel if you have any self-respect you will wait. Just my opinion, please don't throw rocks

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45337	Mon 02/28/11 11:21 AM
Sex is a natural thing. It is only societies 'mores' that dictate when, where, why, who and how. Self respect is only involved if you alone go against your own standards. Holding others to your own ideals is simply the act of judging without facts.

sherry1225 Joined Sun 02/06/11 Posts: 142	Mon 02/28/11 11:33 AM
I agree with what you are saying soufiehere. What I am saying is that I will not give up my self-respect for someone elses sexual needs. I do realize it is a personal decision and I do respect your views