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Topic: Lesbian Cougar . . . Cool or Creepy?
panchovanilla Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 5396	Sun 05/04/14 10:31 AM
Not creepy. Creepy, is people using stealth mode.

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Sun 05/04/14 10:42 AM
I think finding someone your ocmpatible with is hard enough. SO if you find someone your interested in, and they feel the same. Then go for it. And being a cougar is not so bad. Age is after all just a number. ..^^^^^. this works for me..

TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Sun 05/04/14 11:05 AM
You're probably going to hav to be dealing with some people thinking that you're "creepy" when you date people that are a lot younger than you are, or want to. I asked a younger woman that I was seeing if her friends thought that I was a dirty old man and she said no and how some friend of hers couldn't talk because she was nineteen and with a guy in his late thirties. You're only being "creepy" when your attention isn't apreciated. Can happen with people of any age or gender. I had a gay guy being "creepy" by having a crush on me and that's happened to me more than once. It was creepy to me because that's not my trip. Maybe some younger women find me creepy and think that I'm an old perv and some are into older guys. Best just not to worry about the people that think that you're creepy.

Zolile Joined Mon 05/05/14 Posts: 3	Mon 05/05/14 06:01 AM
M 18 nd m attracted 2 older women 2 nd i lv it....way too cool...

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Mon 05/05/14 10:25 AM
While I love women my own age I'm attracted to much younger women as well. Obviously there's a physical factor, but I also like spending time with someone who's fun, confident, intelligent and excited about the future. Men who date younger women and women who date younger men are fairly visible and accepted, but I don't see a lot of information or recognition about women in my situation. I don't know if it's not something that's talked about or if it's just rare .... maybe there aren't a whole lot of girls in their 20s interested in older women. What do you think? Is my attraction to younger women pervy or acceptable? Do girls want to have anything to do with older women? Am I the only middle-aged, suburban lesbian trying to meet girls half her age? Do I stand any chance of finding someone or should I just throw in the towel and stop wasting my time? Lesbian Cougar?it's cool. creepy would probably be me peeking through ones bedroom window trying to watch.that's what i've been told anyways

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/05/14 10:52 AM
^^. so they tell you that 2.A.. now I just do it when their lights are on. it is hard to look out a lit window.. ..

Hermosa_bfly Joined Mon 10/13/14 Posts: 4	Sat 07/23/16 09:37 PM
May-december romances... Actually very common in the lesbian community to have such age gaps!

Maxsterx Joined Mon 03/07/16 Posts: 2314	Sat 07/23/16 11:21 PM
This is definitely subject material for a "Late Night Discovery Channel" show.

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10669	Sat 07/23/16 11:28 PM
As long as it is legal age for everyone you should be able to look for a relationship with who you want.

Robxbox73 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 5302	Sun 07/24/16 01:43 PM
Lesbian Cougar . . . Cool or Creepy? I just like your title :-) Yea sure Soufie, um you like the title... common gurl, let your freak flag fly! ;^) Cool or Creepy... Yes.... Plus as is habit for RobXbox73,,, ahemm.. Men, the original Lesbian!!! HuhaHuhaHuha

ibisopoks Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 3	Sun 07/24/16 02:22 PM
Hello

ibisopoks Joined Sat 03/26/16 Posts: 3	Sun 07/24/16 02:24 PM
Don't understand this chat

Robxbox73 Joined Sun 12/27/15 Posts: 5302	Sun 07/24/16 02:30 PM
Skoposibi, your name backward. Yes it is a hard topic to follow. Welcome to mingle, please join us in the forums, its a lot less confusing!!!!

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21434	Sun 07/24/16 03:27 PM
Uhhhhhm, OP posted this in 2011 people. I find it kind of creepy someone would revive a three year old thread and then someone else would revive it yet again two years after that.

BreakingGood Joined Tue 07/01/14 Posts: 3182	Sun 07/24/16 05:10 PM
I don't understand! PLEASE POST LOTS OF PICTURES

Maxsterx Joined Mon 03/07/16 Posts: 2314	Sun 07/24/16 05:14 PM
Uhhhhhm, OP posted this in 2011 people. I find it kind of creepy someone would revive a three year old thread and then someone else would revive it yet again two years after that. A Cougar never dies.

BreakingGood Joined Tue 07/01/14 Posts: 3182	Sun 07/24/16 05:28 PM
Uhhhhhm, OP posted this in 2011 people. I find it kind of creepy someone would revive a three year old thread and then someone else would revive it yet again two years after that. A Cougar never dies. It's a great topic!

Hermosa_bfly Joined Mon 10/13/14 Posts: 4	Tue 07/26/16 01:54 PM
Uhhhhhm, OP posted this in 2011 people. I find it kind of creepy someone would revive a three year old thread and then someone else would revive it yet again two years after that. New here, but based on observation it seems that old threads seem to resurface a lot ...It is an interesting topic :)

Hermosa_bfly Joined Mon 10/13/14 Posts: 4	Tue 07/26/16 01:54 PM
Uhhhhhm, OP posted this in 2011 people. I find it kind of creepy someone would revive a three year old thread and then someone else would revive it yet again two years after that. New here, but based on observation it seems that old threads seem to resurface a lot ...It is an interesting topic :)

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Tue 07/26/16 03:13 PM
While I love women my own age I'm attracted to much younger women as well. Obviously there's a physical factor, but I also like spending time with someone who's fun, confident, intelligent and excited about the future. Men who date younger women and women who date younger men are fairly visible and accepted, but I don't see a lot of information or recognition about women in my situation. I don't know if it's not something that's talked about or if it's just rare .... maybe there aren't a whole lot of girls in their 20s interested in older women. What do you think? Is my attraction to younger women pervy or acceptable? Do girls want to have anything to do with older women? Am I the only middle-aged, suburban lesbian trying to meet girls half her age? Do I stand any chance of finding someone or should I just throw in the towel and stop wasting my time? maybe you should post some pics so we can get a good idea on who you're dating... of the younger ones, of course...