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Topic: Hey!
Ky4giraffe's photo
Wed 06/15/11 03:46 PM
I am 19 my birthday is 9/1/91
I am a single mom with a little boy 7/16/10
I go to NWTC and I'm living at home until I graduate.
I have realized after graduating high school that I lost most of my friends.
I need people to talk too!

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Wed 06/15/11 03:50 PM

Wolfy23's photo
Wed 06/15/11 03:50 PM
hey welcome

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Wed 06/15/11 04:09 PM
Hello; Welcome to the site indeed wish you all the luck.

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Wed 06/15/11 04:17 PM
No better place to bebigsmile ...jump in the forums and have a ton of fun. Good luck and welcome homeflowerforyou tongue2 waving

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Wed 06/15/11 04:54 PM
Hey! I have a daughter, one year old and her name's Jade. Adorable girl with explosive blue eyes, hehe thanks to me xD Anyways I'm looking for some friends too and for a 19 yr old you seem very mature and organised. Anyways hit me up, take care of yourself. drinks

Ky4giraffe's photo
Wed 06/15/11 07:51 PM
Thank you everyone.

Shawnix85, Jade is a very pretty name for a little girl. Dakota has my big blue eyes as well.
Being a single mother has really changed me in every great way possible. I don't act like most people my age for the most part, but then again most people my age don't have a child to take care of. My son is my whole life.

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Wed 06/15/11 07:53 PM
Welcome to the both of you!

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Wed 06/15/11 07:59 PM

Hey! I have a daughter, one year old and her name's Jade. Adorable girl with explosive blue eyes, hehe thanks to me xD Anyways I'm looking for some friends too and for a 19 yr old you seem very mature and organised. Anyways hit me up, take care of yourself. drinks


There's nothing mature about already having a child at 19.

Desperate and foolish yes, but that's how we are getting so many single parents, and a silly over crowded population.

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Wed 06/15/11 09:14 PM
Wow, you are very rude. You know nothing about me.
I am a great mother and am blessed to have my beautiful baby boy.
Desperate and foolish?
How does motherhood make me desperate and foolish?
I am still going to college and I was in a monogamous relationship with a guy who I was in love with.
I don’t consider my son to be a mistake. He is a surprise blessing from god.
I highly suggest you do some maturing yourself and stop harshly judging others.

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Wed 06/15/11 09:41 PM
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Thu 06/16/11 12:14 AM
waving Howdy and I'm staying out of this one.

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Thu 06/16/11 12:27 PM
Thanks :), and that's great. Against all odds, you're doing great and an even better person whos able to maintain everything and take care of your son. Don't listen to other people critisizing you for being a young mother...just like my daughter, she was a surprise.

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Thu 06/16/11 12:45 PM
Welcome...waving

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Thu 06/16/11 07:04 PM
Edited by Troublebug on Thu 06/16/11 07:05 PM

Ky4giraffe's photo
Thu 06/16/11 07:52 PM

Thanks :), and that's great. Against all odds, you're doing great and an even better person whos able to maintain everything and take care of your son. Don't listen to other people critisizing you for being a young mother...just like my daughter, she was a surprise.

Thank you, I get it a lot from ignorant people who don't know anything about me other than my age.
Having my son really has made me a better person and made me look at life differently. He is the greatest thing to ever happen in my life and changed me for the better.

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Fri 06/17/11 07:45 AM
Yes that's very true. having a child changes you completely, before my daughter, i was a "shut-in", keeping to ymself, playing my games, etc....then she "popped" up and i go out to the park with her, alot of outdoors-y stuff xD. It's sad that people think young mothers are going out and getting pregnant but most of the time it's accidental and them being MATURE enough to keep the kid and raise it the best way they can is by far the maturest act of all.

Ky4giraffe's photo
Sat 06/18/11 08:11 AM
Having my son made me a better person. I quit all my bad habits (drinking and dating horrible guys)
My son is my life and I do everything for him. I am going to college to make sure I can provide a great life for him.
And I know people talk badly because I am a single mother but I'm a happy single mother. I'd rather have my son have no father than a bad one (I left him after he pushed me while I was pregnant)

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Sat 06/18/11 08:11 AM
Having my son made me a better person. I quit all my bad habits (drinking and dating horrible guys)
My son is my life and I do everything for him. I am going to college to make sure I can provide a great life for him.
And I know people talk badly because I am a single mother but I'm a happy single mother. I'd rather have my son have no father than a bad one (I left him after he pushed me while I was pregnant)

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Sun 06/19/11 12:00 PM
Wow, not much of a "man" if he pushed you while you were pregnant :S. you don't need people like that whether it's the biological father or not. You seem like a great mother, keep it up :) .

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